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Miss Blabby
I have a friend who cant keep her mouth shut! She tells everything I say and I always try to remember tp tell her stuff but sometimes i am just itcing to tell someone. I really wanna be her friend but then again I dont NEED her! any suggestions? 5 points for anyone who helps! xoxo
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be upfront with her and be sure she understands fully how awful and humiliated you feel. she needs to know how much this hurts you and she needs to know that you are confiding in her out of pure respect and truthfulness. then to test if she truly follows, tell her a lie and see if she spreads it. if not, you can trust her again and if so, she doesn't deserve your trust. try to find someone else you can trust and confide in.
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Dont tell her! She doesnt need to know! If she doesnt keep her mouth shut, then dont tell her! The best way to get your secrets out is writing in a journal! You can write everything in it and no one will go tell everyone!! Unless you show some one. Well i hope this helps! xoxo BLONDE911
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tell her that you hate it when she tells people what you tell her, if she does it again then leave her. you need to be able to trust your friends to not blab your secrets
luv shelly
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Shoot her. If you don't need her friendship and she talks your secrets then I dont see why you should waste your time with her.
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I know it's difficult when you really want to tell someone something but worried that they will then go and blab. What's worse is that you , in the end will probably be the one named the blab!! It's so frustrating. If I were you I wouldn't tell her stuff that really matters. Sometimes if I really need to get something off my chest and there isn't anyone I can talk to I write it down - it actually really helps and saves you from worrying that what you have told someone might spread. Hope I have helped a little
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I know some people like this, too. For one, don't tell her anything very personal. You can tell your secrets to a close relative or a pet (Yeah, I know telling a secret to a pet may sound strange, but hey, you'll get your secret off your chest PLUS you're 100% sure they won't blab!) Do you have any friends from different schools or states? You can tell them your secrets, too. Or, if you can't tell ANYONE, get a journal with a lock on it and write all of your deep secrets in there. That helps me a lot.
You can still be her friend, just don't tell her your secrets.
I hope I helped and if you need any more help, leave a question in my inbox!
*Manders*
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Try not to tell people like her important stuff that you wouldn't want any one else to know. Try not to tell anyone... unless you know that they'll keep it a secret.
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i have this problem with a lot of my friends! just dont tell her anything. if you want to tell someone, get a diary...works for me. also, somethings and just better left unsaid to anyone. try to find someone you can trust when you feel like you have to tell someone. hope i helped! <3
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well, im assuming you've confronted her about this. if you haven't, thats the first step.
if she already knows how you feel and she is continuing to blab your personal secrets all over school, tell her "listen, i really want to be your friend, but i dont know if can trust you. you need to stop telling everyone private things about me." and go on from there. if she continues, id say, dump her. you dont want a friend who always tells your secrets. if you really want to remain friends with her then when you're itching to tell someone something find a more trustworthy friend to tell. im sure that her "blabbing" isnt malicious and that she has lots of other great qualities.
~rainbow
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Well I think that it depends on what type of person you are. You want to be friends, but you don't need her. Is she a good friend than other being blabby? If she is then just tell her that stuff you tell her you would like to keep private. And if she isn't just stop talking to her, but not completely off. Keep that line of communication open. Hope I helped!!
~Linda
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Suggestions for what? Why do we care? Why do you care? You dont need her? But you want her?
Hmm. Im as confused as you are.
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Hey, well you know if shes driving you CRAZYY annoying, then you should just start kinda acting a bit annoyed, IF she doesnt get it then damn. Well hey when I was ab 14 I had the same prob like that, She drove me CRAZY! And she acted so hot for what she's not, okay back to the point, what we did, Well I found some others who felt the same way.. A girl that is open not totally good friends with her had said something.. A few guys found out, they said something too.. Explain to her in a nice way if you wana keep her ya know ? Well and if not just tell her straight up harshly, she may forgive you if shes understandable
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um hello! real friends DONT tell secrets!! i would definitely sit her down and tell her that you wont tell her your secrets if she keeps spilling. maybe she's just a natural gossiper. who knows? but i would try finding a quieter more trustworthy friend to spill to
hope i help
xoxo
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