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best friends ex
well ive had a fwb for awhile and its been going pretty good up until now .. hes my best friends ex from a while ago and she doesnt have a problem with it .. but me and him dont really get along anymore so weve decided to stop. the problem is now i like my other best friends ex boyfriend and i dont know if i should tell her or not because im afraid she'll be mad. She told me she thought it was wrong of me to hook up with our other friends ex so im scared shell think its wrong to go out with her ex. i really like him and she told me she noticed me flirting with him lately but i dont know if she cares because she doesnt like him anymore .. i don't know if i should just ignore my feelings or let her know the truth? does anyone know what i should do?
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You have to be honest even if she doesn't like it. I'd say she knows anyway with the flirting remark. She may think its wrong but unless she is still dating him he is up for grabs. :)
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well, definitely do not do anything to this guy until you find out for SURE she is ok with it, try hinting like saying "what would you do if i asked blah blah out?" and if she says why then just say something like "just want to know" try not to make it to obvious that you like him. it usually depends on who broke up with who, like if he broke up with her there's more of a chnace she won't let you. do you get what i am saying? if not leave me a message on my inbox. good luck
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I dont think you shoulld hook up with him , you know ? It would be reasonable if you were in love.. the two of you , But if not I think your better off keeping your best friend rather than losing her over some guy. Well maybe not some guy to you, but If yall arent in 'real' Love you know? WEll good luck hunni! xox
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You should tell her how you feel about her ex.. and ask her if she's okay with it... why lose a friend over a guy? That's just stupid.
I hate to say this, but chances are she's not going to be okay with it... in that case, I'd personally just ignore my feelings... I don't think it's right to date my friend's ex-boyfriends... you could either do that, or go out with him anyway... but you could lose her as a friend that way. Anyhow, she might suprise you, and say that it is okay.
Also, I wouldn't exactly count your chickens before they hatch... or whatever... he might not want to go out with you. You might want to find out how he feels about you before you tell your friend about how you feel.
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i believe you should do both. by not hiding your true feelings, nothing will come between you guys. if u hide your feelings, you could probably end up being mad at her for any unknown reason in the future.tell her whats the deal, if she accepts it and is finally cool with it- go ahead- if she's not feelin it like you are- think of who means more to you. hope i helped.
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