My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while. We tell eachother everything. The other day I was talking to one of our friends and he was saying that there was rumor that my bf kissed another girl. Should I ask him or should I leave it because I trust he wouldnt do that?
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givinadvice2u101 answered Friday May 13 2005, 3:26 pm: you need to talk to him. if he says he did, you need to decide to get past it or not. but if he says he didn't you can move on as if nothing happened. this way, it won't be hanging over you for the rest of the year. [ givinadvice2u101's advice column | Ask givinadvice2u101 A Question ]
Ashley1 answered Thursday May 12 2005, 4:44 pm: I think you should talk to him about it. Just be like "I trust you and all, but there has been a rumor that you kissed another girl". See what he says and how he reacts. [ Ashley1's advice column | Ask Ashley1 A Question ]
x0xMrSm answered Thursday May 12 2005, 9:41 am: i think you should talk to him about it. if you don't, you're going to be suspicious and wondering about it a lot. and if he finds out that you were thinking that he did that, bt didn't say anything, he might feel like you don't trust him or something...just talk to him and be understanding. don't accusive and like, agressive...he would totally understand that you might be nervous if you heard that he kissed someone else. [ x0xMrSm's advice column | Ask x0xMrSm A Question ]
karenR answered Thursday May 12 2005, 12:34 am: Doesn't hurt anything to ask and let him know rumors are flying. I don't think you should believe it though unless he says its true. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
laurentaylor927 answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 9:15 pm: well, i am guessing that this is the first time he has supposedly "kissed another girl". since it seems to just be a rumor i think that you should just leave it alone. and if yall really do tell each other everything then chances are that he really didnt do it [ laurentaylor927's advice column | Ask laurentaylor927 A Question ]
Sw33t_Dr33ms_xOx answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 8:51 pm: HEY WELL ASK HiiM SOME RUMORS ARENT TRUE SO ASK! iiF iiTS TRU DUMP HiiS BOOOTAY!
CameronASTB answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 8:50 pm: most rumors are not true, you must realise this, its probolly not true, sometimes people who are so damn jellious say things like that, so I assume that you could just leave it be, but if it ever happens again, then ask him in a calm matter & don't get mad or any thing, that might just cause what the people who made the rumor to get what they want
cokecap_x21 answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 8:37 pm: tell him about the rumars,but say you trust him that he wouldnt do it so you or he could put an end to the rumars. people are jealous of you and him's relationship and how tight you guys are!! Rumars are just as fake as the people who start them!!! [ cokecap_x21's advice column | Ask cokecap_x21 A Question ]
BehindBluEyes892 answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 8:34 pm: hey! well i think you should definitely confront him about it (when the time is right of course) and just casually bring it up. don't make it sound like you're mad b/c you don't know if this rumor is true or not. but just talk to him about it and since you guys are bf/gf, then you definitely should tell each other about these kinds of things!!! cheating is wrong and if he did kiss another girl, let him know that cheating isn't right. but i hope that you can keep his trust and know that he didn't kiss another girl...like i said, just talk to him about it and you can work things out that way. i hope things work out!! i hope i helped, good luck =) [ BehindBluEyes892's advice column | Ask BehindBluEyes892 A Question ]
xOxdancErcHyckxOx answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 8:28 pm: Hey. I went through the same thing. I thought i had a really close relationship with my boyfriend. But i come to find out that he kissed( made out) with another girl. When i asked my b/f he denied it but i soon found out the truth! so break up with him bc its probably true!
- hope i helped LaYdEr! [ xOxdancErcHyckxOx's advice column | Ask xOxdancErcHyckxOx A Question ]
mxpimpette26 answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 8:26 pm: what you should do is ask him, but don't bluntly do it!! just be like ((his name)) some people are telling me that you kissed another girl...and i wanted to ask you before i jumped to conculsions...and see what he says...usally you can tell if a guy will deny it or not..like if he gets really pissed off you have to choose ethier A: he did it and his pissed cuz you know about it or B: his pissed but cuz people are saying that shit and you "believe" it!...and since yall talk about everything and tell each other everything...then this shouldn't be so hard for yall! [ mxpimpette26's advice column | Ask mxpimpette26 A Question ]
R-unit answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 8:26 pm: just to make sure ask him and say i trust you and all but i just want to know did you really kiss another girl [ R-unit's advice column | Ask R-unit A Question ]
PaRiS_SaYs answered Wednesday May 11 2005, 8:24 pm: if i were you i would talk to him. i would be like hey listen i need to talk to you. i trust you and all and i really do but there is rumor going around that you kissed another girl. not that i believe it but i really need to hear from you that its not true. and i would really appreciate it if you dont lie.
_PaRiS_ [ PaRiS_SaYs's advice column | Ask PaRiS_SaYs A Question ]
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