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Broken Condoms..
Well hey yall, The other night , well day actually Me and my 'boy' were just Hanging out, right? Well yes i am young, A minor ( too young for kids either way ) .. Well yeah we hadnt seen eachother in forever .. So yeah we hung out n stuff yeahh.. Then we ended up having..sex & I left blah well Later on, His father ( yess.. can you say Ahh? ) he walked in the room saying he smelt sex & Picked one of the.. four condoms up and realized it was broken, This was around 5-8 or so.. on a Tuesday night, so I'm gona get tested to be safe ( i guess, right thing to do right? ) on Tuesday.. night probably like 9. Well, Do yall think its better to have a plan what to do before I find out, and we need to make one ? Lately alls weve gotten at is, "Shit were gona be even more fucked" , Or should we just worry about it later? Also, He is going to be 18 next year, And I will still be a minor, I am NOT bragging at all I just want help, But we both have very wealthy families.. Not sure how this happened, with bright futures, and How to break it to them? His father knows ones broken though, Whats the best thing to do here?
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prepare yourself for the worse! u cant tell over 1 week wait at least 2 or 3 and it's best the first pee of the morning! good luck!
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i think you should definnatley plan ahead. you need to feel you can take the pressure and the answer. also, be sure to talk to your parents. they need to know. they will take over 1/2 the pressure off and will help you make it through the hardships.
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i think you and him should go to your doctor and get a test done to make sure. just because its a broken condom doesnt mean your eggs are ready to go into the cycle and actually are able to become pregnant. its complicated! haha - sorry! but definitally call up your local doctor and ask if you can come in. make sure he's there with you, because it was BOTH your doing... not just his.
also, look into more durable condoms. trojan has some (i think) you can even look online at them! find ones that are durable..and you two feel comfortable using.
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Omfg lyk yu shuld kill urself =o. omggg i would frek out if that hppnd 2 me wit my rich familia n all that shizzz. if yur pregnant,dun abrt the baby..id un get wutt yur problem izz...go get ursself checkd fur like, herpes, and then, like, stop freaking out over lame crap that you got yourself into.
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It might be that the condom broke while you were having sex. In which case you can take the morning after pill up to 72 hours after having sex. Otherwise, get a test, but that might not betotally accurate at this stage. Go to your doctor and let them know what has happened. If you don't want to be pregnant the doctor can give you a pill to bring on your period. Don't worry about a thing. Just talk to your boyfriend about the options, talk to your doctor or another nurse if you want it to be more private. If you are pregnant you are in the very very early stages and this can be fixed immediately depending on what you want to do. Also, you don't have to tell your parents if you don't want to. Hope I have gelped a little
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Okay hun.. you shouldnt worry about it til you get tested.. and im not judging you but i think maybe if you have doubts about this guy loving you maybe you should of waited to find out for sure before having sex with him.. but i dont think your a slut or anything it was completely your choice and you was comfortable so its okay..But first find out the results before freaking out.. cause you might just find out you didnt have anything to worry about.. much luv dez x0x0
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ok the answers i saw are totally not right! you are not a whore. dont worry about it until you are actually tested (asap!). worrying about it wont help, either way you have time...nine months actually. thankfully, it was only 1 of them and your chances of being pregnant probably arent too great. if you come from wealthy families, you will have money to support the baby if you do end up pregnant. please dont abort! adoption agencies are willing to help out. i hope everything turns out ok! <3
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WEell to those of you who want to be rude, I know this was a fucking accident. Me and him have been together for almost two years, & I know hell be there after his daddy Already saying he'd care & support ifa nything like that went wrong.. and IM NOT trying to act hard .. Its not something I want to go through I just want help
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ABORT ABORT ABORT ABORT ABORT! Im gothalicous with cheese.
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