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i am in middle school and i am a girl so here are my questions that i have for you. there is this guy at my school and he likes me and i like him, but he just does not want to hook up with me. why is this? he doesnt even talk to me or anything. what should i do to make him talk to me? i want to flirt with him but i just dont know how. he is the shy type and that is why we never talk to each other at school or at pratice. what should i do? how do i make him like me more and how do i get him and i to flirt with me again? (link)
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whenever that happens w/ one of my friends, we plan a group hangout. it might be a trip to the movies and an after-time pizza, or a sport-fest. this way you won't be shy of talking to him, and also, you can find out some of his interest. the next time you see him in school, you can talk about the events and maybe try some flirting.
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13/f and I have red hair. It has a lot of body and will do anything but what I try to make it do. So, What kind of haircuts would I look good in? Like, what's a good website to look for cute short haircuts? Also, do you think I'd look good if I put golden-blonde streaks in my hair? I'd put in black but I heard that black dye on red hairs looks green. Is that true? Please help! (link)
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depending on what shade of red your hair is, golden-blonde streaks might be screaming for attention too much. try something more natural looking like a light brown or something. black might look purplelish depending on the red tone, but it depends on the person's hair.
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I have so much on my plate right now. With the current school year ending soon i am applying for scholorships, running for vice-prez of my high school class, and dealing with all the extra school work. we have to write lots of essays, and do finals and stuff. I also have responsiblities at my church i am responsible for, and I'm cast in a play that will be opening in early june. Right now i'm also PMSing so i'm in physical pain with cramps and stuff and i'm in a really bad mood. I also get ance pretty bad sometimes... i use proactive, but right now i'm really breaking out and it's affecting my self esteem. i have too much to do each day, so i often dont get enough sleep. I also procastinate... alot. I have put soo much pressure on myself to get a 4.0 Gpa this sememster or at least mantain my 3.9, but i'm soo scared that i'll get below that. I'm a prefectionist and i get stressed easily. my room is a mess and i never have any time to clean it, so my parents are harping on me for that... and my other chores at home are lacking. I also feel like everyone in my life is changing, and becoming different. and i feel like i have no one to talk to. i'm going into high school next year, and i'm soo scared.. but i dont have anyone to talk to about it because i dont like letting people know my feelings, and i have trust issues when it comes to what i am really feeling and thinking. Anyways i just needed to get this off my chest and maybe talk to someone. and see if anyone has any advice about what to do to lessen my stress level, help me not procrastinate, stuff with my friends, and parents... or something. just umm help, please!!!! thanks soo much! i appreciate it, and this was long so thanks for even reading it!
-Dealing with life (13/f) (link)
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i have a friend who is EXACTLY like you, exceot for the VP part. e-mail me @ (pey_mathews@yahoo.com) and i can pass you my friend's e-mail (not put here for security) and u can chat and ask her how she got through it.
Also: most likely, people are not changing, it's just you that is becoming more mature that you see them through a different view. if you feel like you don't have any one to talk to or you need to talk to someone new, find chat rooms online. they can be fun and they can't judge you about your "past". i do it as therapy :)
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okay im in middle schooland i have absolutly no motivation for school.. i go b.c of my friends i used o love it last year but now its totaly is boring.. and all the work is WAY to easy..and i HATE all my teachers..and they rely dont like me ..the whole gothic thing they dont like it.. what should i do? (link)
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ask around, chalenge classes, take honor/AP classes. there's options to make it more challenging. just ask ur teachers
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What is the difference between vegans and veggetarians?
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um.. vegans live in las vegas and veggetarians don't eat meat? i don't know...
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Female 16...
My friend and i haven't been talking for about a month now and its all because she started spreading rumors around school about me and she also went out with a guy i really really liked, that i had told her about.. After she had hooked up with him she cheated on him with her so called ex boyfriend.
The guy i like has become a really good friend so i had to tell him. If i didn't i would have felt really bad about it..I actually have a few questions about this though.....
If he askes me out should i go out with him?
Should i keep this friendship between me and teh other girl?
and was it right for me to tell my friend about what she did to him? (link)
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let's be greedy and do everything!
1) if he asks you out go for it. he likes you, you like him, your friend did a mistake
2) should you keep the friendship? yes! a friend is a friend. there's nothing better than that. she's human, she did a mistake. if she doesn't like you b/c u told the truth, too bad for her
3) was it right for u to tell on her? yeah! you liked the guy, she kinda liked him. she was being stupid, and you just wanted to help
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how do you deal with rumors and gossip. i really don't care what ppl say i just have a hard time showing that i actually don't care, so how do i show people i really dont care? (link)
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it's funny how i kind of had that problem and so did my friends. i started saying "get over it" alot to people and in away mean. i turned out to be very sarcastic and mean, but my friends knew i was joking. all of the hashness made me a stronger person. whenever someone critizes one of my friends with rumor or gossip, there isn't anything as bad as what i have "sarcastically" told them. so yeah...i dunno if that helped much
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I'm a senior and my motivation for school is absolutely gone. I want school to end so I can get out, run to never land and not come back for ever and ever. No, but anyway, my grades are dropping...and dropping fast. Specially my English AP grade. At the beginning of the year I had an A and now it's barely a C. Last six weeks I got a F. I need to bring my grade up to a B so I can pass the stupid class and I have 3 weeks to do it. I know I can but there's nothing there. I'm so fed up with school that sometimes I just don't give a shit. Any ideas? (link)
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think of it this way:
school is stupid but if i finish it well i can get into a good college if i want to. if you don't plan on college? then if you graduate with a B, at least your family knows you're smart
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okay well i have these like basketball shorts things i want to wear tomorow... well i dont really know what to wear... but i think i want to wear basketball shorts... but im not sure what kind of shirt nad accessories to wear with it!! please help me!! i need some ideas of what to wear with that!! or someother idea for what to wear... i want to look laid back and not too made up... but i have no idea!!! please help me!! (link)
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basketball shorts with a larger hoodie, messy bun and awsome sunglasses with s8r like shoes would look awsome. maybe a simple necklace of hoop earing also bring out the girlyness into this tomboyish look. you can also add in beach hair, hairstyle, but with that, this whole outfit would look awsome with guy shorts.
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Okay well im graduating this year, and we have to make a speech... i need a quote to start it tho (its manditory) and well i want one for graduation (obviously) if anyone knows any by and ACTUAL person, famous .. or some excerpt from a song i'd realy appreciate it.. with the artist/person attached so i know who said it..thanks a bunch! (link)
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no one famous said this but you could start it off like :
through out life you see that no one is perfect. everyone has their flaws that make each of us unique. (fill in name of school) has taugh me this important fact. And its teachers have brought out my flaws and made them one step closer to perfectionism.
--- korny...i know
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im a second hand friend, i have plenty of friends, i hang out with them at school, but when their with their other friends they act like im not there, they ignor me and seem like their not my friend, and this is this way for most all of my friends too not just one or two, i rarely go out with them and dont talk to them on the phone, how do i get some friends that'll forever friends like i used to have(befor they moved, why do best friends always have to be the ones to move), and not second hand nothings (link)
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don't act too desperate and try too much for attention. go to some online chat rooms and you can always find some cool people if you are outgoing enough to talk to stangers. sometimes people just can't help treating you like a second hand friend. no one's perfect
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i know that this is stupid, but i want people to come see my house, i mean, im not like rich or anything, i live in a middle class house like most other poeple, but when you go inside my house you'll see that we live more comfortable than most people who arent super rich and all out, and i want the people at school to see my house, cause it does look rich and fancy, it seems wrong that i want to be making friends just because of money, especially since ive always been a person who say and believes that its wrong, but for once i just want to have a little attention like everyone else and not because im acting like an idiot,so what do i do? (link)
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i know how you feel. same thing happens to me. getting attention once in awhile is more than a necessity. show off alittle like throw a party, but don't over do it
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i guess i would consider myself a minority, i'm half chinese half white (swedish/german) and i guess im sort of having an identity crisis. i am a senior in high school and i have a group of really close friends that are all white. my group of friends in high school that are my age are all asian. its been really wierd for me but for the first time ive had to deal with people being racist against me for hanging out with asians, associating with asians, and just plain being asian. i can't help feeling ashamed about it and at the same time mad that i do feel ashamed because its part of who i am, and no one should be ashamed about it. i keep getting advice from my mom and from my best friend to not care what other people think but its really hard because "other people's thoughts of you" is so much about what high school is. i guess thats why im looking forward to college because its more a time for yourself. anyways i can't help feeling embarassed and im ashamed of myself for thinking like this. i don't understand why i feel the way i do but does anyone have some good insight or information-im having a real identity crisis. (link)
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being asian makes life so much cooler! can u speak an asian language? I'm half asian too and people think it's awsome how i can speak 2 languages. besides, being asian gives you a special exotic look
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Does anyone know where I can find cute,girly icons? I want something with quote saying and iconator doesnt have any new ones. Thanks! (link)
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you could go to www.dollfreak.com they have some cute ones
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