i am in middle school and i am a girl so here are my questions that i have for you. there is this guy at my school and he likes me and i like him, but he just does not want to hook up with me. why is this? he doesnt even talk to me or anything. what should i do to make him talk to me? i want to flirt with him but i just dont know how. he is the shy type and that is why we never talk to each other at school or at pratice. what should i do? how do i make him like me more and how do i get him and i to flirt with me again?
grly_tough_chik answered Saturday May 7 2005, 12:09 pm: Well, try to make him more comfortable around you. Try to talk to him when he's not with his friends (they'll pressure him). If there is a social function (either a dance, carnival, etc...), invite him to go with you and some of your and his friends, if they all get along. As to how to flirt, just go with what feels natural. Don't be overbearing, though. You want to be approachable too. Just relax when you're around him, and he'll warm up to you.
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horsesare666es answered Friday May 6 2005, 10:33 pm: BEWARE:
I also knew a guy like this, turned out he never liked me and just said that. make sure ur guy in telling the truth, then do wat the other people said. group hangout and such. just double check so u dont get hurt.
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BaBiEeSoFrEsH answered Friday May 6 2005, 10:07 pm: well. he is probably nervous around you, so thats why he never talks to you. you have to get him to not be so shy around you. maybe you should go up to him one day and just start talking to him. try to get to know him better. start off slow, until he is comfortable being around you. then take it from there.. after a little while, if u feel a vibe there, maybe you should get his number and tell him that you guys should hang out sometime. if there isnt a vibe dont push it. you dont want to scare him off. [ BaBiEeSoFrEsH's advice column | Ask BaBiEeSoFrEsH A Question ]
lollipop answered Friday May 6 2005, 9:33 pm: whenever that happens w/ one of my friends, we plan a group hangout. it might be a trip to the movies and an after-time pizza, or a sport-fest. this way you won't be shy of talking to him, and also, you can find out some of his interest. the next time you see him in school, you can talk about the events and maybe try some flirting.
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