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I like this guy..and i heard he likes me from his friends and i want to hang out with him. But..the thing is he's not one of those guys who you can call up and invite him somewhere. He's different..he doesnt do much and he only has like 3 or 4 close friends. He's not a loner or nething..i mean he has friends at school but he never hangs out. Only with like maybe 4 of his closest friends. Well..i want to to hang out with him..what do i do?
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Talk to him. Become one of his friends, gain his trust. If he likes you, chances are he won't mind if you just go up and talk to him...get to know him and find things that you have in common.
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start a conversation with him in school or online, and be like "so, what do you usually do on friday nights? oh, cool, thats what i do too!" and meet him there. if he just stays home ask him if him and some of his friends would wnat to go to the movies or skating with you and some of your friends.
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start talking to him and school and if it seems like he's getting more comfortable talking to you then ask him to go to a movie or sumthing. rate me. ~Kerri~
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Then don't call him up. Ask him in person, though embarassing for you, it's usually a lot more effective. Ask him to something casual too, or maybe in a group... so it doesn't seem like too much of a date, because this guy sounds kind of shy. Find out about what he likes to do, and invite him along to do whatever that is. Chances are, he'll want to 'hang-out' with you again.
If you haven't spoken with him yet, you should try it. I mean, if he's got good enough taste to pick you to like.. he can't be an all-bad person.
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If you say he doesn't hang out much with people then he must be loner sometimes. Walk up to him and start talking to him. If you have any classes with him try to ask him if you had any homework the previous day. Good luck with this guy. Sab
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