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I am currently torn between liking two guys...
One is my best friend. I have known him forever. We have tried dating before, but it just hasn't worked out... we're still best friends and all, but we do go on dates... Whenever we're together, people just assume we're dating.. He's really sweet, and is all boy-next-doorish. He does stuff like this... we went to see a play together, and it was cold, so he let me wear his jacket, then walked me home..
The other guy looks perfect for me, and is actually my cousin's best friend. Both of us have brown hair, and brown eyes and I come up to his shoulder (if any of this matters..) we're apparently "The cutest couple ever" according to some old ladies in the park... He's outgoing and is more rebellish though.. Like.. he stole me chocolate from a vending machine, then because I was tired, he picked me up and brought me back to the picnic ground (family reunion.. he was there with my cousin.. my cousin is a guy, by the way.) Sorry it was so long... (link)
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I think you should chose yuor best friend because I think he's liked you for a longer time. They both seem like very romsntic guys to me. But I think your best friend realy likes you.
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i'm 13/f and i'm thinking about getting contacts.
i'm a little freeked out about putting them in though. does anyone know any goos tips for putting in contact lenses?
~thanks (link)
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When you put them on it's easier to look down or sideways so you won't poke your eyes.
Sab
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Ok. My mom just had surgery on her foot yesterday and since then its like everything I do is getting on her nerves. Its like I can't do anything right anymore. And I understand that she is tired and hurting but I have been trying to do all that I can to help her and make her comfy without getting on her nerves but she gets mad at every little thing and she never says thank you or anything when I do something for her. Now its starting to piss me off. I know that she is not her normal self right now and is on pain meds and stuff but its like she has to complain about every little thing and she neverd 'asked' me to do something...she yells at me to do it.
I have been trying to just let it pass but it seems like its just getting worse and worse and I don't know what to do. A little while ago she fell on her foot and I heard her screaming and she never told me to come in there and help her or get her anything she just tried to do it on her own then she ended up blaming it on me....like its my fault that she wanted to get up and didn't want me to help her...I don't what to do...I feel guilty about staying in my room because she might need something but if I stay with her she finds something to yell at me for...
what do I do!!!!???? (link)
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just keep holding on I think the only reason why your mom is acting this way is because she's realy stressed out. If you realy feel like you're gonna blow up I think you should ask your mom...
Did i do something wrong for you to scream at me so much. I'm only trying to help but all you do is get mad at me for no reason.
try to get her a get well soon balloon or card with flowers.
Good luck
Sab
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I'v been going out with this guy for about a week now everything was awesome i couldnt of asked for better, he is everything a girl could ask for EXTREMLY HOT EXTREMLY NICE caring sweet, he was just great iv had a hard time with guys this year and i thought it was alomst amazing i had met someone this great.he is one year older than me and there are alot of rummors about him that arent true rummors like he did stuff with his sister and other girls -sexually- which i know isnt true even the majority of my freinds think it isnt , well anyhow back to what i was saying his family ended up being from the same small town mine was, well my mom heard about these rummors and called about them and 4 people said OMG YA IT WAS TRUE he did it to my daughter... i really dont believe that.. beacuse if it was true he would of tried to do stuff with me and he didnt in fact one of his freinds was hanging out with me and him and was asking him to kiss me and do stuff with me and my boyfreind told him NO we jus met and honestly if i did i wouldnt until atleast another few months and i wouldnt do anything then but like hold hands. well he kept his word he never tried to do anyhitng. and he isnt palning on it.. the rummors mi parents heard were soo un ture i cant even begin to explain they heard his family was pervertedly screwed up and they arent.. i met his family and they are extremly nice just like any toehr normal average family its jus he gets picked on alot most kids dont like him because of one of his freinds he had in tha past .. he started all this stuff about my boyfreind .. mi boyferind sat down and told me all this i swore to him i wouldnt tell a single soul and thats why i cant tell my parents anything that he told me .. but all i can say is he explained to me tha sisuation in tha past and tha rummors they are mean and crule and like he said un true they are so bad that he might have to move because of them .. i jus feel soo bad beacuse jus the other night he told me even jus knowing me for a week taht he thought i was amazing and that he was luckly to meet me.. i hate my parents belive all this stuff i wish they would understand how much i care about him and if i didnt i wouldnt be puttin my self thorught all this right now jus trying to convice them hes the good person that he is ... like mi mom told me the other night peoeple do things they regret and they wish they didnt do and sometimes you have to forget about those things and move on, soo even if it was true im willing to forgive. i went and met his family they were unbelivealbe nice to me they even invtied me to his motor cross race... his mom and dad and sister adn brother are unbeliveble nice. i bacame freinds with his sister and she talked to me about this too they both have told me that the rummors arent true and they wish theyed go away.. they told me their a average family like any other and they jus want peoepl to understand taht and well i can and i wish mi family would ... all i can say is i really care about him and im begging you if you have any advice to help me help my parents understand the sisuation please help .... he's jus unbelieveable too good to let go !!!!!
Ill rate a 5 if you jus anwser this question but i really need help!!!
Miss ConFused
Ps: mi parents wont let me talk to him hang out with him even see him soo plz i really need help he cares and aobut me and i care about him i kno its not true i jus need help letting mi parents know it isnt!! (link)
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I'm not trying to get you in to any trouble or anything but I'm gonna tell you what I'd do. I would ask my bf what he'd think about running away with me. If he'd say yes I would get a couple of bills from my parents and stay with some1 somewhere else that you'd realy trust. Don't think I'm trying to get you into any trouble because maybe just explaining to your parents about the bad rumors would help.
Sab
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okay..well my friend is going out with this guy that i like..i thought that i was doing the right thing by telling her this..i know it wasnt the best move..but i also said that i couldnt be bestfriends with someone who i like((this was all in an e-mail))..well a few days later her boyfriend told me online that she showed him the e-mail! i was so mad! i started crying..and i was on the phone with one of my friends and she couldnt believe it either...i cant believe my best friends judgement..we have been in arguments for awhile adn i think that i should draw the line here..what do you think? i really dont wanna be friends with someone who betrayed me like that..i just dont! and she has done things like this before...i really dont want to talk to her again..but our families are very close..i jsut dont know what to do..PLEASE help me!!
..sorry for the length!!
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I think you should just ditch your friend because friends don't do that.If you say she's done this before that doesn't sound like a true friend to me. To tell you the truth I don't know what I'd do if our familys were close.
Hope I helped.
SAB
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i live in this very small town and im 14 and so is jessica, we've been goodfriennds since we were 10 and she was always sort of an ugly girl, but now shes really gorgeus, shes fit into her body, pretty face, killer body.. she has the whole package. i love her becuz shed never ditch me and shes still the same but now shes been seeing or hangin out with older guys, some 18, some 21, or 23. and i mean if she can do it good for her but i hungout with her, this 22 year old john and his friend vince and i mean we rented a hotel and her and john went in but me and vince stayed in the car and we smoked and kind of hookedup, im getting feelinds for him and i know hes older but is it ok? she didnt make me like him or anything (link)
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I think that it's ok because it doesn't matter if the guy is 20, 30, 40, 50 , or 80. It doesn't matter because al long as u like him and he likes u it's fine. The only problem here is what your parents would think.
Yours truly,
SAB
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ive known kev since elementrty school and now we are in 10th grade and we started hooking up in january and we could talk about anything and he was the first guy ive ever been with and sexualy active with and he agreed to take it slow. but now he just thinks that because i love him im willing to do stuff all the time. i know this is gunna sound wrong but you need to help me with sumthin other then breakin up, i lovee him. well a few weeks ago his parents went away for the whole weekend, so i went over friday and i was gunna go home at 1 am (my parents were ok with it) and we were hookin up and did more than usualy, but in his bed and he ate me out , when i was gunna leave he told me no and held my hands on my bed and told me to tell my mom i was stayin at my friends, so i did (he looked angry and got mad when i was gunna) so i gave him head and everything that night and he was saying her loved me and stuff and wouldnt really let me go. the weekend after his friend georgie drove us around with his gf and they went in burger king to eat but we stayed in the car and we were kissing and he pushed my head to give him head but i was like isnt this weird and he said just do it, its not a big deal and i kind of cried doin it and he felt bad so he walked me home and held me close the whole time and kissed my forhead..now yesterday we went to his friends hotel party and we could stay there cuz everyone left and he kind of embarrsed me by sayin i give the best head and stuff.. but we had to sleep on the floor and the whole time he kept his hand on my ass or down my pants.. but today he was fine and we just madeout and stuff.. wut shood i say (link)
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You gotta break up with this guy even though it's gonna hurt. I think this guy only likes you because you're hott or something. With what you're saying I think the only reason he likes you is because he wants to have sex with u.
hope i helped
sab
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okay i have decided that my new puppy's name is going to be elle. but i don't have her yet, and i am just wondering what i need to have the day that she comes home? like does she need a lot of toys or just a few? please be really specific about everything i'll need. thank you so much! (link)
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I recamend u have food, bowls to put water and food, a leash to tie him, a dog house, maybe some shampoo just in case he get's dirty, and like about 3 toys. (Toys)squeaky toy, bone with flavor, ball, and if you want a rat toy.
Yours truly,
SAB
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i have liked this guy for a while(abouthalf of the school year) and we went out once already.but only for a couple of weeks because someone told me that he was cheating on me with another girl who i didnt know. and so i broke up with him. and then about a week later i called him and apologized and asked him why he didnt tell me that he didnt really cheat on me. and he said he thought it wouldnt matter and i told him it would have. and then we became friends again. and he asked my friend what i would say if he asked me back out.and she told him i would say yes. and so i figures he would ask me nack out again. but he didnt and he started going out with my friend. which made me mad. so then i wanted to tell him i like him but i just couldnt get the courage. so i had my friend do it but when she told him he didnt react like i thought he would but my friend told me that it was probly because his g/f was there but i dont know. and then i was really sad one day for a weird reason and i was standing right in front of the lunch doors and a bunch of my friends came up to me to try to cheer me up. then he walked up to me and pulled me towards him and gave me a hug and asked me what was wrong and i told him nothing and he said he aint letting go until i tell him. and he kept pressuing me to tell him and when i didnt he got mad kinda. do you think that he still likes me and if so should i tell him myself that i like him and if so should i tell him by going to the movies and saying it or at school. cuz i dont want to say it in front of alot of people. (link)
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I think you should call him to meet you somewhere. Tell him why u were upset and maybe he'll understand that you got really hurt because of the situation. I think he still likes you because he wouldn't of given you that hug.
hope it works. pease rate
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hey All! I am turning 15 in one week, yes in one week! And I haven't a clue as to what i want! I am leaving soon to go to my g-maws for mothers day, and everyone will want to know what i want! lol, and i dont know what to say! What are some good movies? ect? i always know stuff, but now like now, when i need to know to type it up. I have on my list:
etnies, converse, raise your voice(movie) a cinderella story (movie), ANd some stores i like.
any other ideaS? or anything that you liked that you got for your birthday!
I am a girl!!!
Thanks so Much in advance!
and if it means anything, I rate, and leave feedback!
thanks-
Kelsa ;) (link)
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i havn't turned 15 yet. But what I want when I turn 15 is for my parents to pay me a spa.
hope i helped.
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ok.. well theres these kids in some of my classes... theres alot of them and when theyre not all there its not so bad but when theyre all there (just one class) its bad. i sit in the front row and all they do it sit behind me and make fun of me. they always claim that i smell and they make jokes about it. theyre like the "popular" type so this is cool to them. i know i dont smell though. they just say that because that room has a weird smell coming from the vents. im not one of the popular kids so they do this to make fun of me. its no fun and i hate that class. trust me though, i dont smell, i thought maybe i did at first when they started but i put on stronger deodarant and i sprayed perfume. its definitly not me. how do i get these mean people to stop tourturing me? (link)
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This is what I'd do. As soon as they told u that u smelled say hahahaha not. Look retard i'm not putting up with your little comments because I know that the only fuckin reason why you make fun of me is because you try to make yourself feel better. Take your stupid little nose and smell the fucking vents so you could realize that if you smell something bad it's not me and it just might be you. So do me a favor and shuv your comments up your ass.
hope i helped. If this works please tell me all about it in my feedback.
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I'm a sophmore in highschool and I love absolutely love my school. The problem is, I don't get perfect grades. My mom wants me to be one of those hard-working, studying all the time kind of students and it's just not me. I do try hard and my grades are good. I'm not failing and I don't even cut any classes. She now wants to transfer me to a private school next year. She's serious about it and I'm worried/scared of leaving the school I've gotten used to for 2 years and starting a new school for my junior year. What can I do to get her to change her mind? (link)
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My advice is to hitt the books. You have to raise your grades for a while just long enough to convice your mom that you can stay at that school. I think you should talk to your mom and tell her that she can't make you into something you're not. Try to make her understand that you can't alwasy get the perfect grades. Trust me you don't want to go to private school.
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ok well my boyfriends are going through some stuff right now and im pretty upset. The other night i had like a nervous breakdown and i started saying how i should die because no one would miss me and my firend said that he would miss me and i got reallly upset again because i turned him down for my boyfriend. Then me and my friend kissed somehow and my supposidly best friend told my boyfriend and now he's really mad at me and i just feel all upset and like crap and he wont answer any of my phone calls and i just dont know what to do. (link)
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If you're boy friend won't anwser any of your calls then I think you should totally break it off with him. If your guy friend said that he would miss you if you died I think that your friend has liked you for the longest time and just hadn't gotten the guts to tell you. As for your supposibly best friend ditch her. Even though I think what you did kissing your friend was wrong and it gives all the right to your boyfriend to be pissed I think you should go out with your friend.
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I went out with this guy name josh for 3 months then we broke up. When he got a new girlfriend, we hated each other. We didnt even know each other, but just the fact that she went out with him i hated her adn she hated me because i used to go out with him. Well 2 weeks ago me adn cheyenne(his girlfriend) started talkin and became good friends. Well she wants me to go to the movies with her next weekend, but josh is gonna be there too. I still have feelings for him and me adn him dont talk that much anymore. So i think it would be really weird and uncomfortable going. She really wants me to go though. I do wanna go .. but when they start kissing i am gonna get sad and my face might get red or something. Should i still go? What all should i do? (link)
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I think that you should go. Take a close guy friend with you so you won't feel to awkward if they start to kiss. Explain to your guy friend the situation you're in so that he could understand what you're goinng through.
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i feel like everyone around me has a boyfriend. i feel so alone and i really want to have the feeling of a boyfriend again. i feel as if everyone around me is moving so fast...one of my friends just did third base wih a guy. i am 14 and still haven't gotten my first kiss. i wish i could just find a guy.. what is taking sooo long! (link)
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Maybe you just need to try new ways to meet people. Try chatting with people that live in your city. You can try cruising or hanging around where there's guys. Everyone meets the right guy when it's time maybe your time isn't ready.
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My friend is moving away.... and my other friend was gonna have a party for her but i didnt no it was gonna be a surprise so i kinda told her... now all of my friends are mad at me and no one wants to be my friend! i was gonna go to this party but 4 of the girls who are mad at me will be there so now im not going i dont even wanna go to school on monday bc everyone will be mean to me and i have no friends bc none of them wanna talk to me or anything and i dont no wat to do to make them be my friends again! (link)
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You have to stand up to them and tell them that you didn't know that the party was gonna be a suprise and if they wanted it to be a suprise they should of made sure that they informed everyone that it was gonna be a suprise .Tell them to stop blaming this on you and grow up. You have to let them know that it was a mistake and that you can't be mad at each other for the rest of your lives. If your friends can't understand that they don't seem like true friends to me.
Try to make new friends.
Keep your chin up,
Sab
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I like this guy..and i heard he likes me from his friends and i want to hang out with him. But..the thing is he's not one of those guys who you can call up and invite him somewhere. He's different..he doesnt do much and he only has like 3 or 4 close friends. He's not a loner or nething..i mean he has friends at school but he never hangs out. Only with like maybe 4 of his closest friends. Well..i want to to hang out with him..what do i do? (link)
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If you say he doesn't hang out much with people then he must be loner sometimes. Walk up to him and start talking to him. If you have any classes with him try to ask him if you had any homework the previous day. Good luck with this guy. Sab
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so lets call her summer.
me and summer have been friends for a couple months. but now summer is being mean and is really annoying and i just DONT like her anymore. the problem is i half to sit with her in health and i HATE it. shes really chubby and the boys tease her all of the time but she was mean before that. and im popular and she trys to fit in but shes not bcuz well shes MEAN. and now shes hitting on my boyfriend and its annoying. and shes extremely 2 faced and gossips all of the time. and im sick of it. so how do i tell her i dont want to be her friend? silent treatment? i rate high. (link)
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I had the same problem. This is what I did just tell her that you're starting to hate her attitude and she's just getting on your nerves. Tell her that you don't think it's right for her to be hitting on your boyfriend tell her to get her own.
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