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i have liked this guy for a while(abouthalf of the school year) and we went out once already.but only for a couple of weeks because someone told me that he was cheating on me with another girl who i didnt know. and so i broke up with him. and then about a week later i called him and apologized and asked him why he didnt tell me that he didnt really cheat on me. and he said he thought it wouldnt matter and i told him it would have. and then we became friends again. and he asked my friend what i would say if he asked me back out.and she told him i would say yes. and so i figures he would ask me nack out again. but he didnt and he started going out with my friend. which made me mad. so then i wanted to tell him i like him but i just couldnt get the courage. so i had my friend do it but when she told him he didnt react like i thought he would but my friend told me that it was probly because his g/f was there but i dont know. and then i was really sad one day for a weird reason and i was standing right in front of the lunch doors and a bunch of my friends came up to me to try to cheer me up. then he walked up to me and pulled me towards him and gave me a hug and asked me what was wrong and i told him nothing and he said he aint letting go until i tell him. and he kept pressuing me to tell him and when i didnt he got mad kinda. do you think that he still likes me and if so should i tell him myself that i like him and if so should i tell him by going to the movies and saying it or at school. cuz i dont want to say it in front of alot of people.
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hey! to me it sounds like he really cares about you, even if he might not still think of you that way. i think that you should definitely tell him yourself that you like. do it face-to-face and without everyone around, so that you will know how he will react and make sure there is no one around, so that he can feel free to say whatever he has or wants to say. i think asking him to the movies would be a little weird, seeing as he already has a gf. however, you can pick a moment during school when you can take him away for a couple minutes and talk to him in private. it can be between classes (although i dont think you'd have enough time), during lunch, or before or after school. which ever one you feel most comfi with. while you're talking to him just say something like "i know you have a gf and all, but i just wanted you to know that i still care about you and that i still have feelings for you. i accept it if you dont want me in that way, but i just wanted you to know." well, you dont have to say exactly that, but i think that you should let him know during your conversation with him that you understand that he has a girlfriend. i hope this helped, if you want to talk about it further, leave a message in my inbox. peace and love, xoxox
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I think you need to tell him yourself. I think you may be sending him mixed signals. Besides, he may also worry that you will say no. I'd wait to go out until he breaks up with the other girl. :)
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He might still like you or just really care about you. You need to call him or meet somewhere and just tell him how you really feel about him. He probablly thought you got over him so he went out with your friend. It seems like he still likes you so just ask him about it! He cares about you and he doesnt want to see you hurt or anything. If you tell him you still like him he might say it back. He is probablly just really confused and he needs some time to think it all through. X0`
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He likes you as a friend.
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Well, it seems like you have quite the problem here. I dunno if I have the right to say this, but how can a guy think cheating on their own girlfriend wouldn't matter? I don't think this guy can make up his mind. Perhaps he is just very flirtatious, and rumors just spread, but if you're really in love currently with the guy, tell him. Guys don't get the same effect if someone besides you tells them, because they think you to be a bit of a coward. You have to build up courage, and if he doesn't feel the same, he's a jerk, and doesn't deserve the love you have for him. You have to explain to him that he's one of the most caring guys you know or however you feel about him, and it might be better to do this with only him around. School wouldn't be a great place to say it, try to say it in person alone with him, or if it comes down to it... On the phone. But trust me, the phone isn't the greatest tool to tell someone you love them. If you need anymore help, just ask me on AIM or something. Hope I could be of some assistance!
~Amy
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I think you should call him to meet you somewhere. Tell him why u were upset and maybe he'll understand that you got really hurt because of the situation. I think he still likes you because he wouldn't of given you that hug.
hope it works. pease rate
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