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Location: TX
AIM: SongOfUnspoken
Member Since: May 8, 2005
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Last Update: May 8, 2005
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my history teacher and i dont get on. i was quite a disruptive student in year 8 and 9. he used to teach geography which i cudnt do. he now teaches history. he always picks on me. if the class is noisy hel immediatly blame me. he sends me out for the slightest thing. like for saying im lost or i dont understand.its really getting me down. we just had a project to do and i tryed really hard and i only just got over half marks..what shall i do? cos the haed usually goes on the teachers side more than the students. (link)
If you have some friends in that class, I would go to the counselor and talk to her/him about what to do. Bring some witnesses as to what your history teacher does, and see what the counselor can do about it. I hope everything works out!


I'm a sophmore in highschool and I love absolutely love my school. The problem is, I don't get perfect grades. My mom wants me to be one of those hard-working, studying all the time kind of students and it's just not me. I do try hard and my grades are good. I'm not failing and I don't even cut any classes. She now wants to transfer me to a private school next year. She's serious about it and I'm worried/scared of leaving the school I've gotten used to for 2 years and starting a new school for my junior year. What can I do to get her to change her mind? (link)
I'd say tell her how you feel. Tell her that you really like your school, and you try the best you can. If you really love your school, fight for it! You're a good student, and you have to let your mother know this. Hope everything works out all right!


Ok so ive really liked a female friend of mine for a while now (im 18/m), but shes had a boyfriend for about the past 6 months, and ive all but given up on pursuing her. she has a friend thats pretty cute and seems really nice that im thinking of asking out at some point down the line but heres the thing, im worried it might destroy what litle chance i have with my friend if her and her bf ever break up. so onto my question in readers digest form, do girls have a problem with dating a guy thats dated one of their best friends? (link)
Okay, well... Yeah, girls get a little jealous if they like you and then you go out with their best friend. She has a boyfriend still, right...? Then hopefully there would be nothing to worry about if she's content with her current boyfriend! But there's one problem with your situation. You should go out with someone for love, noy about how cute the other person is. If you love your friend very much, then wait a little while. Don't give up because of another guy unless you grow not to love this girl anymore. You could try to make her jealous, but who knows where it could end up... Hope I helped! If you need any further help, just ask! Later!


okay so im debatig on whether or not i like this guy... like weve talked a lot on the phone recently and hung out alot at school...well he came over yesterday and then called me last night and was like man i wanted to kiss you so bad and i feel stupid for not doing it.. and then he said that if we ever break up he wants me o tell him the reasoning first... well i dont really reccall him askin me or anything... but like do you think he thinks that were already goin out or sumthin?? or if he doesnt... how long do you think it would be before he asked me out?! thanks for your help in advance.. i rate!! (link)
Hmm! This is interesting. You're not going out with this guy, and he thinks you two are going out? Well, maybe he's a bit on the shy side. He might be trying to give hints out that he does want to ask you out, and doesn't know what your response will be. Once he knows you like him, he'll probably ask you out, cuz it seems like he does like you. So if you like him back... Give him some signs... Like calling him, flirting, anything that would get him to notice you. If you need any further help, I'll be happy to! Later!


I like my friend's brother and now that she knows, every little thing he does she always looks at me. It's weird. I want to get to know him better, but just because I talk to him I don't want her staring at me. Plus, how can I get to talk to him when he is in another conversation. I don't want him to think I'm rude and that I just join in on other people's conversations. It's really hard for me to get the chance to talk to him because the only time I really see him is on the bus, so thats my only opportunity to get to know him. So, how do I get to know him without sounding rude or nosy? (link)
Well, it would depend on the age... is he older or younger?
If you see him on the bus, I'd say just sit next to him when he's not sitting next to anyone else. Comment on his shirt, or ask him how he's doing or just say 'hi, do you remember me at all from being your sister's friend?' or something like that. You can't be rude or nosy from just wanting to know about him. Smile at him; give him hints that you're interested. Don't be afraid to express yourself. He's just a guy afterall, and a lot of guys like expressive girls. If you need any help, just IM me, or something! Hope I was of a little help! Adieu!


my entire forehead is acne scars, what can i get for cheap that will get rid of them? and does anyone know cheap face washes or anything to prevent acne without drying out my face really bad?
thanks! (link)
Well... I think Clean & Clear is pretty good to cleanse the face with, and also, toothpaste works wonders. I used it on acne a while back, and it helped a lot! It might not be as effective on some skin, so I guess you can just try it as long as you're not allergic to some of the ingredients. Hope this helped! Adieu!


i have liked this guy for a while(abouthalf of the school year) and we went out once already.but only for a couple of weeks because someone told me that he was cheating on me with another girl who i didnt know. and so i broke up with him. and then about a week later i called him and apologized and asked him why he didnt tell me that he didnt really cheat on me. and he said he thought it wouldnt matter and i told him it would have. and then we became friends again. and he asked my friend what i would say if he asked me back out.and she told him i would say yes. and so i figures he would ask me nack out again. but he didnt and he started going out with my friend. which made me mad. so then i wanted to tell him i like him but i just couldnt get the courage. so i had my friend do it but when she told him he didnt react like i thought he would but my friend told me that it was probly because his g/f was there but i dont know. and then i was really sad one day for a weird reason and i was standing right in front of the lunch doors and a bunch of my friends came up to me to try to cheer me up. then he walked up to me and pulled me towards him and gave me a hug and asked me what was wrong and i told him nothing and he said he aint letting go until i tell him. and he kept pressuing me to tell him and when i didnt he got mad kinda. do you think that he still likes me and if so should i tell him myself that i like him and if so should i tell him by going to the movies and saying it or at school. cuz i dont want to say it in front of alot of people. (link)
Well, it seems like you have quite the problem here. I dunno if I have the right to say this, but how can a guy think cheating on their own girlfriend wouldn't matter? I don't think this guy can make up his mind. Perhaps he is just very flirtatious, and rumors just spread, but if you're really in love currently with the guy, tell him. Guys don't get the same effect if someone besides you tells them, because they think you to be a bit of a coward. You have to build up courage, and if he doesn't feel the same, he's a jerk, and doesn't deserve the love you have for him. You have to explain to him that he's one of the most caring guys you know or however you feel about him, and it might be better to do this with only him around. School wouldn't be a great place to say it, try to say it in person alone with him, or if it comes down to it... On the phone. But trust me, the phone isn't the greatest tool to tell someone you love them. If you need anymore help, just ask me on AIM or something. Hope I could be of some assistance!
~Amy




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