I like my friend's brother and now that she knows, every little thing he does she always looks at me. It's weird. I want to get to know him better, but just because I talk to him I don't want her staring at me. Plus, how can I get to talk to him when he is in another conversation. I don't want him to think I'm rude and that I just join in on other people's conversations. It's really hard for me to get the chance to talk to him because the only time I really see him is on the bus, so thats my only opportunity to get to know him. So, how do I get to know him without sounding rude or nosy?
alexd3355 answered Sunday May 8 2005, 10:22 pm: well ill give u a few opptions and you pick the best that suits.
1. give him your number and say if he ever needs to talk, needs help on homework or just wants to hang out to give you a call.
2. ask him if you can start calling him & tell him you want to get to know him.
3. find out a movie hes been dying to rent & ask if hed like to come over and watch it with you.
4. ask him if hes like to grab a hamburger sometime after school or an ice cream.
5. does he play sports tell him you would love to go see him play but if he wins you insist on taking him out for his favorite meal.
good luck [ alexd3355's advice column | Ask alexd3355 A Question ]
SongOfUnspoken answered Sunday May 8 2005, 9:28 pm: Well, it would depend on the age... is he older or younger?
If you see him on the bus, I'd say just sit next to him when he's not sitting next to anyone else. Comment on his shirt, or ask him how he's doing or just say 'hi, do you remember me at all from being your sister's friend?' or something like that. You can't be rude or nosy from just wanting to know about him. Smile at him; give him hints that you're interested. Don't be afraid to express yourself. He's just a guy afterall, and a lot of guys like expressive girls. If you need any help, just IM me, or something! Hope I was of a little help! Adieu! [ SongOfUnspoken's advice column | Ask SongOfUnspoken A Question ]
xotinaxo answered Sunday May 8 2005, 8:09 pm: Well when u go to ur friends house and your going to do something invite him with you.For example say your gonna walk to CVS ask him if he wants to come show him that you want to make an extra effoet to spend time with him without being rude about it.He'll notice (trust me) and he'll get the picture that you like him and then hopefully he'll like you back and the rest is magic!LoL!!Hope I helped!!
~TiNa~ [ xotinaxo's advice column | Ask xotinaxo A Question ]
Shelbs4968 answered Sunday May 8 2005, 2:11 pm: i would get his sn or something and talk to him online. maybe think of a question you can ask him, and ask him, then you wouldn't be rude! if he doesn't have a sn, then mayb whenever you call your friend, if she isn't home, and her bro answers talk to him a lil bit, be like hey is ur sis there, and he'll say no and then be like o well this is (your name) and ask when she'll b home and stuff like that! [ Shelbs4968's advice column | Ask Shelbs4968 A Question ]
LinDsx3 answered Sunday May 8 2005, 1:13 pm: see if your friends okay with it.. but on the bus maybe one time you could say hey i might be coming over sometime this week maybe we can hangout. or when hes talkin to people about something make sure your near him and look at a friend and say yeah hes right, blah blah, or just look at him and maybe he'll include u in the conversation.. hope i helped [ LinDsx3's advice column | Ask LinDsx3 A Question ]
helpful_jess answered Sunday May 8 2005, 1:07 pm: just go up to him like you would to any other normal lad say hi ask him how he is think of a hobbie you know hes interested in and you no sum stuff about ask him a few questions flirt with him a little bit but not to much ask your friend what stuff he is into and pretend to him that your interested dont make him feel like he is boring you find out what his favoutie band is or sport n then start chating to your mate about it when he is around that will soon get his attention and make him interested in geting to no ya [ helpful_jess's advice column | Ask helpful_jess A Question ]
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