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kissing
13/f
Ok well when I started going out with my boyfriend (about 2 months ago), my mom told me that she didn't want me kissing him, but only hugging him and holding hands. She said that she didn't think that I was old enough to be in the type of relationship in which you kissed in. Well, I felt I was ready, and so when my boyfriend asked me on IM if he could kiss me the next day, I said it would be okay. Well, he kissed me (it was like a one second kiss on the lips), and I have kissed him about 7 or 8 times since then everyday at the end of school. I don't know what to tell my mom, because she will probably eventually find out about it. If I tell her, however, I'm afraid that she won't let me go to the movies, dances, etc. with him, because she won't trust us together. It just doesn't feel right not telling her. So what should I do?
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i owuldnt tell her see my mom has NO IDEA what i have done
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dont lose your moms trust. thats the worst thing ever. once you lose her trust its hard to get it back, and you cant go anywhere until you do get it back. tell your mom the truth. if she gets mad then it'll be much better than you losing her trust. if she gets really really pissed tell her you couldnt keep it a secret cos 'its a big part of your life' and u wanted her involved. corney i know- but it works with most parents!
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Hmmm you should tell your mom if you feel uncomfortable not telling her , but at the same time your afraid she might ground you from being on dates with him .. its better telling the truth than too lie !!
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its really not for her to decide. its not a horrible thing either. i can see her being upset about you 2 doing other things but this she will have to get over sooner or later. just be responsible about it- meaning no sickening pda's. well if you decide to tell her, she might trust you more because you did. just reassure her that you did it because you wanted to and you wont do anything else because you dont want to. hope this helps. <3
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13 isn't to young to just kiss, and usually parents dont know what their kids do with their boyfriends/girlfriends. kids dont normally tell their parents that stuff
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well i suggest that you three (you your boyfriend and your mom) have a nice little gang-bang and then she will trust him more, also if i were him and you've been going out for 2 months and not even a little blowjob id like dump ur ass so fast. Just tell her to let him come over then tell him to drop his pants and go up inside u.. peace
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Your mum is saying this because she is protective over you and is just worried. It's fine for you to kiss your boyfriend. It's you and him in this relationship not you, him and your mum. What you should do though is be private about it and not kiss in front of everyone or anyone who would tell your mum. You don't have to tell her you have been kissing. As long as you are comfortable with kissing and are doing it because you want to and not to get at your mum then you have no worries. Hope I have helped a little
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if she finds out then make sure you tell her its just pecks and your not going to makeout with him yet and make sure she knows your feelings for him are big and hes very nice, maybe have him over and introduc them
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Personally I think that your mum is being a little over protective here. You aren't even full on kissing your boyfriend, just pecking him on the lips. You need to sit your mum down and explain to her that you are getting older and that you are beginning to do things such as kiss your boyfriend. If you go about telling her in a mature way she will see that you are old enough and responsible enough to kiss your boyfriend. Good luck.
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