Ok so i am 7th grade 13 and I like an 8th grader. We aren't going out; yet. I really like him, my friend asked him he said he liked me too. Tomorrow we don't have school and it's supposed to be like 88°. Well he lives really close to me. He was like, what are you doing tomorrow, and I was like i'll be so bored. He says well, maybe if you can, you can come over and chill with me and austin (his friend). Then he said I have a pool and it's supposed to be hot so maybe we can all go swimmin'! I was like sounds awesome. Well I really want to go but i'm afraid what my mom will say if i ask her. She isn't home tomorrow she's at work and i WILL NOT sneak out. But i'm afraid she'll be like, i'm not letting you go over to a boys house you're to younge. WHAT DO I DO OR SAY OR DO about my mom.... i REALLY WANT TO GO!
Additional info, added Sunday May 8 2005, 11:23 pm: THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH... I DID EXACTLY WHAT YOU ALL SAID.... MY MOM SAID SURE IDC... p.s. my friend is going with me... i htink he's gonna ask me out. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? askmeimaguy answered Sunday May 8 2005, 10:32 pm: first where do you live? jeeze what the frick 88 thats it i live in minnesota and 88 is fine jeeze do you live siburia? cheesus crust! just say you are going to a friends house and you are gonnning to meet a new girl from your school and you are going swimming or sleep over but its a goood excuse but hope i helped [ askmeimaguy's advice column | Ask askmeimaguy A Question ]
CaNtToUcHtHiS answered Sunday May 8 2005, 9:29 pm: ask him if you can bring one of your friends, and if you can explain to your mom thats its a get together. if his parents are there then have your mom talk to his parents. if his parent arnt gonna be there then you might not want to tell your mom that.
*also if your in 7th grade and he's in 8th grade then try to figure out if he really likes you, or if hes using you. (im in 8th grade and everyonce in a while some of my guy friends will use the 7th grade girls) so try to figure out if he really likes you or not!
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xO_thAtS_hOTt_Ox answered Sunday May 8 2005, 9:16 pm: talk to the boy and ask if it would be possible if you could bring a (girl) friend along with you. then talk to your mom. tell her when you two are getting along or just chit chatting..bring it up casually! explain to her that you didnt just want to sit around all day since its so nice outside, and that he graciously invited you over to hang out. also, it might make her more comfortable if she talks to his parents on the phone, and if someone (like a friend) also goes. k hope i helped! [ xO_thAtS_hOTt_Ox's advice column | Ask xO_thAtS_hOTt_Ox A Question ]
angelinluv6767 answered Sunday May 8 2005, 9:05 pm: tell her that he is just a friend and just explain that your not going to do anyhting wrong. Tell her that you want to go over and spend time with friends instead of staying at home alone and being bored all day. hope it helped! [ angelinluv6767's advice column | Ask angelinluv6767 A Question ]
xotinaxo answered Sunday May 8 2005, 8:13 pm: Warm up to her ya know help her do the dishes or make your bed.Then just lay it all down on the table say"Mom i want to go over my friends house and go swimming."If she asks who tell her one of your guy friends.I mean theirs no law that says you can't have friends that are guys.If she say no be like well when you were my age didn't you want to do stuff like this.Try to get her to relate to you put her in your position and maybe she'll see it your way.Hope I helped!!!!
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SheaStadium answered Sunday May 8 2005, 8:05 pm: 1st get on her good side. be really nice and helpful tonight and then at the perfect moment say mom: I really like this guy and he invite me to go hang out with him and his friend austin at his house tomorrow. Explain to her how important this is to u and ask her how she would have felt when she was your age. I'm sure if you are really responsible about it she will let you go. I remember the first time I asked my mom if I could go hang out at a guys house. I thought she would say the same thing but she was acctually pretty cool about it. Just tell your mom about him. Good luck!
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