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alone forever?
i feel like everyone around me has a boyfriend. i feel so alone and i really want to have the feeling of a boyfriend again. i feel as if everyone around me is moving so fast...one of my friends just did third base wih a guy. i am 14 and still haven't gotten my first kiss. i wish i could just find a guy.. what is taking sooo long!
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A lot of guys your age just aren't ready for the girlfriend thing yet. Sooner or later they will. :)
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You'Re only 14, and you will have PLENTY moRe people come in and out of youR life, so I'm almost absolutely positive you will not Remain "alone foReveR". And what you'Re feeling is **definitely** NOT uncommon. Be it 12, 17, oR 20... not having been kissed is not as big of a deal as you might assume. I know *TONS* and *TONS* of people who aRe aRound 20-21, and have still neveR even held hands with someone. HoweveR, if theRe's someone you know well and may slightly like, and you figuRe he just doesn't feel the same, then you most definitely need to confRont him on this. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. It's the ONLY way to know FOR SHORE if he likes you oR not; you can *ASSUME* he does all you want... but you'll neveR know exactly how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely face. And if you'd like to spRing foR new guys entiRely, just tRy going up to one and giving it youR all! Just RemebeR to always be confident, and to smile big!! See, I have NOOO pRoblem appRoaching people, because I believe that I can do anything, so I just push my feaRs aside and go foR it!! I'll walk up to some man in the mall and tell him flat out, "You'Re hot"... and it always gets us talking. Why does it always get us talking?? Because confidence is sexy, and even if he's involved, oR not wanting a Relationship with you specificly, any man who is a QUARTER of a man will speak with you foR just having enough guts to go foR it!
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ill give you a short answer- i had your problem b4... now i found the one, not some random dude. ive never been kissed either. you are not alone! <3
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well for your info alot of people at your age feel this way some people alot older than you stil havnt had there first kiss so dont feel presherd into doing this some people are just waiting for the rite guy to cum along and sum people just cant seem to get a guy niether of these things are there falt alot of guys are picky and cant find a girl aswell im safe to say this is normal its just that we all have different oponions and have different intrests why dont you try taking up a habbie of sum sort or maybe go out with a few of your mates sum nights im sure its not cause no one wants to go out with ya you just havnt found any1 that you like just yet but im sure u will soon
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Everyone feels that way everyonce and a while,like everyone has a boyfriend except you. But its ok. Just be patient.If you like some 1 tell them you may have a chance. And dont be in a rush to make it to all the bases it will come soon just slow down, wait. It will all come soon.
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Its alright that you dont have a boyfriend! Dont look at what other people are doing with there relationships. I'm fourteen also and i havent gotten my first kiss either. That certain guy will come to you. Dont try to rush into finding a relationship. Its alright if you dont have a boyfriend at this age. Thats kinda too much for your friend to be doing with a guy which im guessing she's ur age. Dont worry hun you'll get that guy and if not now then thats ok! Good Luck!
~B~
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Everyone is saying that your time will come, and that may very well be the truth, however it also might not it. It's possible that you'll never have a boyfriend or get married or anything, but that's OK! Plenty of people don't get together with anyone and they are PERFECTLY happy! It's possible to live a fufilling and productive life without "relationships" or sex at all!
(Join the Junior Anti-Sex league today)
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I know your sick of hearing "your time will come", but it's the truth. You have to become friends with guys. Ask your friends to set u up with friends of their bf's. Then you can double! Good luck!
x's and o's
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Gurl, I'm in the same boat as you. I've never had a boyfriend and never had my first kiss or been on a date or anything. But I still believe that he will come. For the first time I feel like I like this guy and now i'm gonna make it happen for me. I'm gonna talk to him and say hi in the halls and one the bus. I think you should do the same. If you have a crush on a single guy, then go for it. Go get him girl!! And keep me posted. Hope I helped!!
~LINDA
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I think if you really wanted a boyfriend that bad then just go out and look for one. Thers a lot of guys out there its just you havent found your type yet but you will. That right person for you will come one day. Just because you havent had a boyfriend or your first kiss, doesnt mean that there is anything wrong with you. So what if you dont have a boyfriend now. You wont feel alone because you have all of your friends and plus you dont need a guy to make you feel better about yourself. X0`
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A relationship is very important and can't be developed over night.And something as special as a first kiss may take even longer.Things happen as they should and thats the way it's meant to be.When you should have a boyfriend and get your first kiss is when it will happen and no sooner.But in the mean time live life to the fullest as if your gonna die tomorrow.Dance on tables,flirt with guys,and above all have FUN!!Hope I helped!!
~TiNa~
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dont worry just be patient the right boy will come your way when your truly ready. dont rush things.
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I was/am in the same situation. I noticed almost all my friends had boyfriends, and I didn't, but I do now..but I've been noticing that my friends are going further and further with their boyfriends than I am with mine. That is perfectly fine that you haven't had your first kiss, it just means that it will be more special to you because you have been waiting for it to happen. A few of my friends are freshmen/ sophmores in highschool and still haven't even had a boyfriend, or their first kiss. Trust me, you're NOT alone. I know you prolly have been hearing "the right guy will come, just stop looking for him" and you're most likely sick of hearing it, but it really is true. I sat there looking for a boyfriend, and that made the time go by slower, and so finally I gave up looking, and he came to me. The perfect guy will come around, holding your first kiss, and you will remember it for the rest of your life. I hope I helped you out some! :D
<3Amber
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Maybe you just need to try new ways to meet people. Try chatting with people that live in your city. You can try cruising or hanging around where there's guys. Everyone meets the right guy when it's time maybe your time isn't ready.
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Don't go to third base, you're good right where you are. Love, be loved, but don't rush it. You'll only hurt yourself if you do. Wait for it and it will come one day and then you'll really be happy. But don't go anywhere until you know that the guy you like is really that one guy.
And why it's taking so long? Maybe you have more sense than a lot of girls that I know and you are indeed looking for the right person. Many girls I know simply get a boyfriend, kiss him 20 seconds, and then dump them. You'll never be happy that way, and I hope you do look into a guy first before you start to love him. That's a great character quality.
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i really wouldnt worry about this your still young the right guy will eventually come along. the longer you wait and the older you are the better it will be trust me. and when you get older i bet your friends will ahve made so many mistakes that there gonna wish they never did and there gonna hate you b/c you didnt
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youre way too involved with looking for it .. you know that quote dont go looking for love it will come at its own time .. youre rushing things and if you rush it your first kiss wont be as amazing as youd want it to be.. so just be yourself and be patient
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