well in technology my friend and i were talking about our 'love life' and i was like"what if roger asked you out what would you say?" and shes like i would say heck yes. we dont know who he likes but i think its her and she thinks it me but i was like who would ever want to go out with me and shes like a lot of people would want to go out with you. and then i started laughing because i thought it was funny because i think some one was actually saying a compliment to me, and saying that some one would go out with me. which i dont think its true because people always talk about how pretty my older sister is and i dont think they refer to me. and in a way im kind of getting said. because i see how other girls my age and see how pretty they are and then look at me. i have no clue what to do? i know you might not know what im talking about, like what i should do. like i just dont know why guys wont go out with me,and yes i know your pretty in your own way but is it really true?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Mackenzie answered Monday May 9 2005, 12:17 am: ShoRely eveRyone is pRettie in theiR own way; that's completely tRue. But the question is: do *YOU* think you'Re pRettie?? You Really ought to think about that. HoweveR, theRe's nothing wRong with self-impRovement, so if you feel you must: you could tRy dying youR haiR, oR simply getting high lights done. Also, if you don't have neat, shapely eyebRows... I suggest looking into that. I'm not shoRe if you weaR make up oR not, but if not... you could tRy that -- just use some lip gloss and eyeshadow. If you'd like some make up Reccomendations/tips, feel fRee to ask me. AnotheR thing, it's impoRtant to keep youR teeth white and youR bReath fResh at all times! And while we'Re on the subject of white teeth... RemembeR to always SMILE SMILE SMILE -- smiles get noticed, my deaR. Honestly, it's not so much "natuRal beauty" as it is asscessoRies. FoR instance, you might want to consideR puRchasing some glamoRous and funky items such as a backpack, shoelaces, bRacelets, puRses and so on. Just be confident, and don't be afRaid to take some Risks and test the limits! Honestly, all of these things might ***LOOK*** cool, but it all comes down to what type of peRson you aRe and how you pResent and caRRie youRself. I wish you the best of luck -- hopefully I've been of some help heRe! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
helpful_jess answered Sunday May 8 2005, 3:08 pm: yes it is really true you sound like youve got no self esteem at all i mean you shouldnt be wishing you look like someone else or wish your pretty like them guys dont just go for looks ya no and pluss if they did then im sure you would be the first on there list you just need to be confident just stop thinkin about all the bad things and all the stuf you hate about yourself look at all the posative things im sure it wil make you alot happier and dont think your mate has a better chance of being with this lad then you anything can happen just take the chance you neva no what mite happen [ helpful_jess's advice column | Ask helpful_jess A Question ]
alexd3355 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 10:46 pm: everyone is unique and as long as you are nice to people and smile then you shouldnt have a problem. you sound like you have low self esteem mabey your low self esteem is getting in your way. walk with your head up & know you are worthy and pay attention im sure your getting all kinds of signals from guys but dont even know it! I'm not the most attractive girl in the world but have always had guys falling over me left and right because I smile and laugh and show interest which puts me above the snooty girl in the corner who looks like a super modle. trust me. [ alexd3355's advice column | Ask alexd3355 A Question ]
xotinaxo answered Saturday May 7 2005, 9:34 pm: No matter what anyone says your bueatifull!For example I'm the fattest out of all my friends yet the guys pay just as much attention to me as they do the really really pretty ones.It all depends on your personality and your reaction to what people say.A lot of my friends who are the life of all partys aren't 1/2 as hott as some of the other ones there but people just get this positive vibe when there around them and thats why people like them.Honestly i mean if you went out with a hottie but he had no personality i bet you'd trade him in for a not so hott guy with a awsome personality.Make people want to be around you show them how much fun you are and they'll have no option but to except you and join in on the fun.And just because you don't have a b/f rite now dosen't mean anything!!I mean who knows maybe that o so special someone will tell you they have a crush on you some time soon, u nvr know!!So keep your head up and always walk around with a smile on your face and let people know your here and your someone worth getting to know!!
~TiNa~ [ xotinaxo's advice column | Ask xotinaxo A Question ]
RoadkillSalad answered Saturday May 7 2005, 8:48 pm: Ok, you really quite rambled on about this one, and I'm not really sure where you're going or coming from, but in case you're wondering, YES. It's true even if you don't think so. I've seen lots of really attractive guys go out with not-so-attractive girls simply because they love their personality, character, etc. And if guys won't go out with you, just wait. There will be someone. (Seems like I'm having to say that pretty often now.) [ RoadkillSalad's advice column | Ask RoadkillSalad A Question ]
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