I think that this guy that rides my bus is attracted to me and he is really sweet. I've never had a boyfriend before so I don't know what to expect. Plus, he happens to be my friends brother aswell. He always stare at me and turns away when i look, and when he thinks I'm not looking he stares again. Anyways recently i have admitted that I really do like him. I told my friend that I liked her brother. How do i get to know him better as a friend first without sounding like an idiot? And once I am friends with him how can I get him to take that step forward with me? I'm just trying to figure out what I need to do to see if he's into me or not? Please help.
Additional info, added Saturday May 7 2005, 10:43 pm: I'm looking for answers fast before Monday the 9th! Thats when I talk to him. But I'm still looking for you comments after the 9th too, for future use. I'm just trying to gain the experience that I don't have, because I have never had a boyfriend before. Again, Please help me! . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? cheeehoo answered Sunday May 8 2005, 3:41 am: You should probably just find some things that you have in common with him. Or if you feel comfortable around him, you can talk about totally random things. And you should be able to feel comfortable around him, if you want to possibly date him in the future. But as for finding things you have in common - there are so many possibilities to learn more about him. What kinds of music does he like? Maybe it's the same ones you do. What movies or tv shows? Does he play any sports? Just talk to him like you would any other friend...and good luck! [ cheeehoo's advice column | Ask cheeehoo A Question ]
Baby2Gurlie7 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 11:32 pm: Sit with him on the bus and just talk to him. See if you have things in common and stuff. You could hang out with your friend and invite him along too. And to find out if he likes you, just ask one of his friends if they could find out for you if you dont want to ask him yourself. Hope that helps =)
xotinaxo answered Saturday May 7 2005, 9:40 pm: Well i think you should try to find some way to spend more time with him.Invite him and some other people over so you can chill with him and not make it seem like you just wanna put moves on him or you don't even wanna get to know him you just want to go out with him.After this say hi in the hallways and slowly spend more time with him untill you develope a friendship.After this if you still feel the same way about him let him know!Hopefully he'll feel the same way but if not theres plenty more fish in the sea and your a real catch and don't let anyone tell you any differentlly!!!Hope i helped!!!
~TiNa~ [ xotinaxo's advice column | Ask xotinaxo A Question ]
KRMACA51490 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 9:03 pm: Trust me, I know the feeling... but first just start talking to him... if he has a screen name or on the bus just say hi and strike up a converstaion about school, find a common ground or something and start about that. After that you will get closer to him most likely and you'll find out if he likes you. If he doesn't admit it after a while then ask him out. If he says no just start to laugh and say,"I just wanted to see what your response was" If he says yes, then there you go, you got yourself a date. Either way, you either got a date or a new friend! Hope this helps! -Krista- [ KRMACA51490's advice column | Ask KRMACA51490 A Question ]
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