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ok well my boyfriends are going through some stuff right now and im pretty upset. The other night i had like a nervous breakdown and i started saying how i should die because no one would miss me and my firend said that he would miss me and i got reallly upset again because i turned him down for my boyfriend. Then me and my friend kissed somehow and my supposidly best friend told my boyfriend and now he's really mad at me and i just feel all upset and like crap and he wont answer any of my phone calls and i just dont know what to do.
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wel i think you should tell your bf the truth say it was a mistake and it wil never happen again if he really feels 4 ya den he shud 4give ya but hes gota be able 2 trust ya n uve gota be sure that it wont happen again and as for your so caled best mate i think you should get rid of her she obviously dont care for ya she shouldnt have butted in she should have either left it for you to tel your boyfriend or told you too tel him its not her relationship to mess up and she aint worth being called a true friend
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My suggestion is to talk to your boyfriend face to face, and tell him that you didnt mean what happened and its not that serious.Tell him you may have kissed your friend that kiss didnt mean anything like when you guys kiss.Tell him that he's the 1 you like and you wanna be with him still. Tell him that if he's going to not forgive you over a dumb meaningless kiss then he never really liked you and that true.Listen ma if he doesnt forgive you after appologizing then he's a jerk and you can do better then that. Hope I helped. :)
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just say how upset you were and that you dont even know how exactly you kissed & how sorry you are & tell him how much he means to you. and tell him how you dont like your freind that way and you were very vulnerable at the moment.
if you are going through a time in your life where you belive there is no end then you should mabey see a counsouler and mabey take some medication i fought depression for a while & got help its worth it & you would be suprised how maney teenagers fight depression and you will feel so much better.
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Okay, if you really want to keep your boyfriend..explain to him that you were just were just really depressed and upset, and your friend was just helping you out. Say you didn't mean to hurt his feelings in anyway, and completely regret ever kissing/whatever with your friend. Your 'best friend' doesn't sound much like a FRIEND to me, much LESS a 'best friend'. I'd lose whoever ratted you out, because maybe you wouldn't have to deal with this, if it wasn't for them. Gooood luck!♥
Sam
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If you're boy friend won't anwser any of your calls then I think you should totally break it off with him. If your guy friend said that he would miss you if you died I think that your friend has liked you for the longest time and just hadn't gotten the guts to tell you. As for your supposibly best friend ditch her. Even though I think what you did kissing your friend was wrong and it gives all the right to your boyfriend to be pissed I think you should go out with your friend.
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