^ That's me, Sam. :D
I have a wonderful boyfriend, Andrew, who is the only thing that can make me happy when I'm at my worst. [Ask me Love questions]
I have a group of friends that I always hang out with, and can't picture my life without them! They're all the *BEST* and have always been there for me! [Ask me Friendship questions]
I love photography, animals, romantic movies, sultry/love quotes, friendship, love, romance, ice cream, colors, sun, winter, tanning, sunglasses, tank tops, flip flops, swimming, reading, lemonade, talking, writing, listening, helping, gazing, cuddling, winter, blankets, stickers, food, wind, beautiful days, holidays, making others happy, being happy, etc. [Ask me Random, Anything You Want questions]
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"Everyone has those days when they're feeling upset, for maybe no reason at all, and all you have to do is be there for them."
Sam♥
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Age: 18
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ok well my boyfriends are going through some stuff right now and im pretty upset. The other night i had like a nervous breakdown and i started saying how i should die because no one would miss me and my firend said that he would miss me and i got reallly upset again because i turned him down for my boyfriend. Then me and my friend kissed somehow and my supposidly best friend told my boyfriend and now he's really mad at me and i just feel all upset and like crap and he wont answer any of my phone calls and i just dont know what to do. (link)
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Okay, if you really want to keep your boyfriend..explain to him that you were just were just really depressed and upset, and your friend was just helping you out. Say you didn't mean to hurt his feelings in anyway, and completely regret ever kissing/whatever with your friend. Your 'best friend' doesn't sound much like a FRIEND to me, much LESS a 'best friend'. I'd lose whoever ratted you out, because maybe you wouldn't have to deal with this, if it wasn't for them. Gooood luck!♥
Sam
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how do you get over a broken heart? (link)
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After lots and lots of time, you will be over a broken heart. It seems to take forever, and sometimes it does, but you just have to be patient. Crying will occur a lot, to the point where you won't be able to take it..but one day it'll just all stop and go away. And that's when you'll feel the happiest you've ever been.
Sam
P.S. - Good luck.♥
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DOES ANYONE KNOW OF A PLACE WHERE i CAN GET SOME CUTE CURSOR CODES THAT ARE COMPATiABLE WITH MYSPACE?THANKS! (link)
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Soup-Faerie.com!
Sammm
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my hair is black and i tried dying my hair medium brownish with loreal paris and clairol.. are they any good.. and if there are better products for dying my hair what are they.. thanks a bunch (link)
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I heard that those are supposed to work really well, so I think you picked the best products I could reccomend. Good job, lol! :D
sam♥
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im really craving lemonade! but i dont know how to make it! can someone tell me how! ill rate! (link)
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Ha, just take a couple lemons and squeeze out the juice, then add sugar and water, and stir it. Or just go to the store and buy lemonade mix, and the directions are on the little apcket thing. Haha.:D
Sam♥
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this is gonna sound stupid but what does ghetto mean? (link)
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It once meant where the Jews used to live in WWII Germany. Now it means an area of a city that, due to lack of income pouring in or loss of jobs or businesses moving out, crumbles away from lack of maintenence. Because no well-to-do people wish to live in such deplorable conditions, they move out, and the poor people move in, and as a result, the crime and death rate rises in the area due to people fighting each other over money-related problems.
Sam♥
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I really need some help. I didnt really know what category to put this under so i just picked one.
I used to be known as the really hyper girl that was willing to do anything. But now I dont feel that way. I'm usually frowning unstead of smiling. I feel like I'm about to cry all the time! I dont know whats wrong with me at all! Does anyone have any ideas on whats wrong with me or what i can do to be happy again? (link)
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Okay, I went through a phase of this, too, when I was your age exactly. I PROMISE, you'll get over it. I have no idea what causes it, and it sucks! I'm almost certain it's your age. Your feelings are changing, and you just are going to start feeling different. When I hit 14, it stopped. Just stopped, about a month after I turned 14. Just try becoming more active in groups and such, make even more friends than you already have..and you'll become happy. Do things that make you happy/that used to. Listening to music that expressed my mood always helped me. Good luck, babeeee. :)
Sam
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hi this mite be really weird, im dyslexic and im in my final year, my computer teacher is always really nice and knows what to say when my confidense is low if i cant do sumething,the thing is his wife was in a car crash so he hasnt been in, and ive really missed the attention that he usully gives me. its nothing like sexual atraction.. he leavin at the end of this yaer and i dont know if it the attention im missing or him?
if its the attention how can i stop being so stupid?
please reply i know this is weird! (link)
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I don't know if it's the 'attention', I think it's just the contact. Lol, because he knows what to say, when other people don't, it makes you feel good..and now you probably feel a little lost without his advice. Don't worry, it'll all be fine, you're not being stupid at all!♥
Sam
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okay well i guess you can say im friends with this guys named Jack and lately hes been starting to hurt me like physically!!! he punches me in the arm and when i say that hurt he tries to kiss it but i pull away! i have a boyfriend and i love him to death! i am just so confused right now! I have tried to avoid Jack, i told him to leave me alone, but he always talks to me and when i ignore him he punches or pushes me. What can i do? (link)
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Okay, well you've done everything you can. if it continues, you'll have to tell a teacher/counselor at school or your parents. It's harrassment, and he could get in big trouble for it if it doesn't stop.
Sam♥
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hey I'm thinking of buying a Dell Pocket DJ but I was wondering if anyone knows if you can change the betteries after they die [yes i know you can charge them] but i'm talking about after they wear out or whatever. thanks so much.
-Laura (link)
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Okay, if the batteries are gold that means they're rechargeable, so if they are..then you can charge them. If they're just regular batteries, like Duracell or something..then do nott charge them, it won't work. They should be chargable though.♥
Sammmm
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Ok, so my ex and I broke up and I really want him back but my cousin said he was cheating on me. But I trust him. but even if we did get back together I wouldn't be able to see him until sometime after june cuz we got in trouble. And his sister that i go to school with said hes been cutting his arm cuz hes not happy. So if hes not happy and hes not mad at me should I ask him back out and what would he say (link)
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Okay, honestly, I think you should hold off for a little bit. One reason being that he isn't happy..you don't know if you could fix that. Let him go for awhile, it's not going to do you any good if you get back together RIGHT not because like you said, you can't be together. Just wait until the time comes when you're allowed to see him, then make your decision on whether to get back together. By then, he'll hopefully be happy and stop with the cutting, and you guys can get back together. If you really like him, you'll give him the time and space he needs to become a happier person, and then you guys will be wayy better and happier together! ♥
Sam
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I need to make a cd for this dance/party. What are some good songs,like hip-hop or something you can dance to? Thanks a bunch.Oh, and by the way, what was that onesong from last year with trick daddy ... ahh i forgot who else and what it goes like. maybe someone knows? thanks a bunch. easy rating. =) (link)
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I think
Turn Me on - Kevin Lyttle
Disco Inferno - 50 Cent
1, 2 Step - Ciara f/ Missy Elliot
I don't know..really. Lol, I can think of a lot of old songs, but I don't know if you want those or not. Anyway, I don't know which Trick Daddy song you mean..probably Let's Go or Stand Up.
Sam♥
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My mom gave me a pair of earrings a while ago. I wore them all the time and I loved them. The problem is, I lost one of them somewhere in school. It was a total accident and it must have came off while I was running/playing sports. I have still have one of them, but I don't know whether to tell my mom. I have alot of other earrings and the lost earring is probably already stolen. Should I just let it go or fess up to my mom? If they were expensive, I would be in deep trouble. Also, my mom would think I was very irresponsible and wouldn't trust me with anything anymore. (link)
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Well, okay, truth is always best. But, in your situation it's kind of hard to decide on what to do. First off, will your mom remember your earrings in the long run? Do you think she'll ask you why you haven't worn them in awhile/where they are? If yes, then tell her the truth. She also might admire the fact that you came out and just said it, rather than hid it from her, and you may not get in as much trouble as you suspected. If no, then you're safe just keeping it a secret. But honestly, I'd tell her the truth either way, because as I said, she'd probably feel better knowing you told her the truth, even if it means getting in trouble. Maybe, try telling her you'll pay half/all the money she spent on them back to her, so she knows you feel just as bad that you lost such a great gift. Lol, I'm sorry this happened. Good luck! :)
Sam
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