Ok, so my ex and I broke up and I really want him back but my cousin said he was cheating on me. But I trust him. but even if we did get back together I wouldn't be able to see him until sometime after june cuz we got in trouble. And his sister that i go to school with said hes been cutting his arm cuz hes not happy. So if hes not happy and hes not mad at me should I ask him back out and what would he say
LilBSUBabe08 answered Friday April 29 2005, 2:26 pm: Wow, this is a tough situation. I would say to follow your heart. If you love this guy and want to be with him then go for it. But, if you are just doing it for all the wrong reasons, like feeling sorry for him, then dont. Its up to you really. How bad do you want him in your life? Also, about the cutting thing, dont let it freak you out. I have never personally done that, but I know people who have and there is no way that you will ever understand why he does it or how he is feeling, so dont be quick to judge him for it. Be kind to him and I am sure he will open up to you if he loves you. Hope this helps! [ LilBSUBabe08's advice column | Ask LilBSUBabe08 A Question ]
Samster answered Friday April 29 2005, 2:05 pm: Okay, honestly, I think you should hold off for a little bit. One reason being that he isn't happy..you don't know if you could fix that. Let him go for awhile, it's not going to do you any good if you get back together RIGHT not because like you said, you can't be together. Just wait until the time comes when you're allowed to see him, then make your decision on whether to get back together. By then, he'll hopefully be happy and stop with the cutting, and you guys can get back together. If you really like him, you'll give him the time and space he needs to become a happier person, and then you guys will be wayy better and happier together! ♥
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