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okay..well my friend is going out with this guy that i like..i thought that i was doing the right thing by telling her this..i know it wasnt the best move..but i also said that i couldnt be bestfriends with someone who i like((this was all in an e-mail))..well a few days later her boyfriend told me online that she showed him the e-mail! i was so mad! i started crying..and i was on the phone with one of my friends and she couldnt believe it either...i cant believe my best friends judgement..we have been in arguments for awhile adn i think that i should draw the line here..what do you think? i really dont wanna be friends with someone who betrayed me like that..i just dont! and she has done things like this before...i really dont want to talk to her again..but our families are very close..i jsut dont know what to do..PLEASE help me!!
..sorry for the length!!
..<3the betrayed friend
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I think you should just ditch your friend because friends don't do that.If you say she's done this before that doesn't sound like a true friend to me. To tell you the truth I don't know what I'd do if our familys were close.
Hope I helped.
SAB
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hey, well first of all. This boy likes your friend not you (not to sound rude) and your friend likes this boy and they cant help that they like each other. When this boy asked out your friend, your friend had to make a choice whether or not to say yes or no and I bet you anything that she thought you would still be her friend because c'mon its just a boy! there not going to last forever but friends do you so you need to now make a choice whether or not your going to let a boy ruin your friendship! I hope I helped! ~~goodbye~~
and if you really dont wanna be friends with her then just be nice to her dont act like she is a total jerk and no one likes her!!
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Alright heres the secret... a best friend deosnt do that to you. If she betrays you once she will do it again. its unfortunate but true. Obviously your trust deosnt mean that much to her. As far as your families go just get along with her when you have to otherwise your friendship with her deosnt really concern them. As much as it would hurt i would have to draw the line. Its the only way to make her see how much she hurt you and that best friends dont do that to each other. Its just against the rules. betrayment(is that a word?) is just against the law and your friend should suffer the consequences.
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if she will stab you in the back once she will do it a thousand times. i had a friend like that, she was my best friend and I told her when I lost my virginity and she told everyone right infront of my face, but i still stayed her friend and she stabbed me in the back over and over again. the only way to fix it is to not be their friend. let them know that you dont ever want to talk to them again and if they bug you give them hell. good luck :)
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That is so shallow that she showed him the email. Advice for the future, dont say important private stuff on the computer because like what your friend did by showing someone that can happen again.
That is totally messed up what your " friend" did. I wouldnt be friends with her if she would do that because thats extremely immature. Your correct about not wanting to be friends with someone who betrayed you. I know about the whole friends family thing because my family has really close family friends, you dont have to hang out with her even if your families are close. Good luck girlie.
~Brina~
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She showed HER boyfriend? Perhaps she believed that he could help you. And that is most probably true, that he could help you.
But really.... is it that big a deal? Having someone know you like someone else? That's a pretty middle-school thing. What you should do is not care. At all. Yeah, don't talk to her if she's too immature, but trying to get back at her is also immature.
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