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how to make my parents let me see this guy?
I'v been going out with this guy for about a week now everything was awesome i couldnt of asked for better, he is everything a girl could ask for EXTREMLY HOT EXTREMLY NICE caring sweet, he was just great iv had a hard time with guys this year and i thought it was alomst amazing i had met someone this great.he is one year older than me and there are alot of rummors about him that arent true rummors like he did stuff with his sister and other girls -sexually- which i know isnt true even the majority of my freinds think it isnt , well anyhow back to what i was saying his family ended up being from the same small town mine was, well my mom heard about these rummors and called about them and 4 people said OMG YA IT WAS TRUE he did it to my daughter... i really dont believe that.. beacuse if it was true he would of tried to do stuff with me and he didnt in fact one of his freinds was hanging out with me and him and was asking him to kiss me and do stuff with me and my boyfreind told him NO we jus met and honestly if i did i wouldnt until atleast another few months and i wouldnt do anything then but like hold hands. well he kept his word he never tried to do anyhitng. and he isnt palning on it.. the rummors mi parents heard were soo un ture i cant even begin to explain they heard his family was pervertedly screwed up and they arent.. i met his family and they are extremly nice just like any toehr normal average family its jus he gets picked on alot most kids dont like him because of one of his freinds he had in tha past .. he started all this stuff about my boyfreind .. mi boyferind sat down and told me all this i swore to him i wouldnt tell a single soul and thats why i cant tell my parents anything that he told me .. but all i can say is he explained to me tha sisuation in tha past and tha rummors they are mean and crule and like he said un true they are so bad that he might have to move because of them .. i jus feel soo bad beacuse jus the other night he told me even jus knowing me for a week taht he thought i was amazing and that he was luckly to meet me.. i hate my parents belive all this stuff i wish they would understand how much i care about him and if i didnt i wouldnt be puttin my self thorught all this right now jus trying to convice them hes the good person that he is ... like mi mom told me the other night peoeple do things they regret and they wish they didnt do and sometimes you have to forget about those things and move on, soo even if it was true im willing to forgive. i went and met his family they were unbelivealbe nice to me they even invtied me to his motor cross race... his mom and dad and sister adn brother are unbeliveble nice. i bacame freinds with his sister and she talked to me about this too they both have told me that the rummors arent true and they wish theyed go away.. they told me their a average family like any other and they jus want peoepl to understand taht and well i can and i wish mi family would ... all i can say is i really care about him and im begging you if you have any advice to help me help my parents understand the sisuation please help .... he's jus unbelieveable too good to let go !!!!!
Ill rate a 5 if you jus anwser this question but i really need help!!!
Miss ConFused
Ps: mi parents wont let me talk to him hang out with him even see him soo plz i really need help he cares and aobut me and i care about him i kno its not true i jus need help letting mi parents know it isnt!!
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well that is a pretty big problem and i think you should just put your parents straight tel them that he isnt like that and everything theve herd isnt true and that you trust him and they should to its up to you who u choose to go out with and if they carry on with the way they are now just tel them that you aint gonna be treated like that you deserve some more respect and your old enough to make your own mistakes and if they dont leave you and your boy friend alone then i suggest you and him move away somewhere and just live a happy life together
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I know of someone who had your very situation. She chose to believe the guy too. She was wrong. HER mom was right. He was such a sweet guy too. How do you think they suck you in? If he truly has a legitimate excuse as to why other adults would tell your parents that the rumors were true (because their daughter was involved no less) then he needs to let you explain it to them. Instead it has to be kept a "secret". I really think you are going to have to listen to your parents on this one. I don't like rumors either, but as parents you sometimes have to err on the side of caution. They did go to the trouble to check out the rumors, that is more than a lot of parents would do. You just can't send your kid to the wolves knowingly. Sorry, to disagree with you but your parents are correct on this one.
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ask your parents if they are retarded, because adults who listen to teenage rumor mills are clearly not of sound mind. hell, if girl's parents believed the rumor that I fuck dogs, then where the hell would i be? i don't even have a dog.
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I'm not trying to get you in to any trouble or anything but I'm gonna tell you what I'd do. I would ask my bf what he'd think about running away with me. If he'd say yes I would get a couple of bills from my parents and stay with some1 somewhere else that you'd realy trust. Don't think I'm trying to get you into any trouble because maybe just explaining to your parents about the bad rumors would help.
Sab
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