My friend is moving away.... and my other friend was gonna have a party for her but i didnt no it was gonna be a surprise so i kinda told her... now all of my friends are mad at me and no one wants to be my friend! i was gonna go to this party but 4 of the girls who are mad at me will be there so now im not going i dont even wanna go to school on monday bc everyone will be mean to me and i have no friends bc none of them wanna talk to me or anything and i dont no wat to do to make them be my friends again!
oneandonly345 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 2:21 pm: you didn't know. you are only human, and you make mistakes. just let them know this..
and why wouldn't you want to go to the party. it is YOUR friend.
just talk to those 4 girls.. be like guys, i really didnt know. i am sorry. what can i do to make it up to you.
and they might be mad for a while.. but they cant be for ever..
offer to help with the party or something.
did you tell her the date and everything? maybe you guys can change it and have it before/after that date.. or something?
best of luck. <3 [ oneandonly345's advice column | Ask oneandonly345 A Question ]
karenR answered Saturday May 7 2005, 8:43 am: Go to the party. Don't miss out on wishing your friend well just because a few girls are mad at you. The party isn't for them. You made an honest mistake, if they are true friends it will all be over by the time the party is through. Go and have a good time. If you want to apologize again in front of the crowd at party, though it isn't necessary. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Sab answered Friday May 6 2005, 10:35 pm: You have to stand up to them and tell them that you didn't know that the party was gonna be a suprise and if they wanted it to be a suprise they should of made sure that they informed everyone that it was gonna be a suprise .Tell them to stop blaming this on you and grow up. You have to let them know that it was a mistake and that you can't be mad at each other for the rest of your lives. If your friends can't understand that they don't seem like true friends to me.
Try to make new friends.
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