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ive known kev since elementrty school and now we are in 10th grade and we started hooking up in january and we could talk about anything and he was the first guy ive ever been with and sexualy active with and he agreed to take it slow. but now he just thinks that because i love him im willing to do stuff all the time. i know this is gunna sound wrong but you need to help me with sumthin other then breakin up, i lovee him. well a few weeks ago his parents went away for the whole weekend, so i went over friday and i was gunna go home at 1 am (my parents were ok with it) and we were hookin up and did more than usualy, but in his bed and he ate me out , when i was gunna leave he told me no and held my hands on my bed and told me to tell my mom i was stayin at my friends, so i did (he looked angry and got mad when i was gunna) so i gave him head and everything that night and he was saying her loved me and stuff and wouldnt really let me go. the weekend after his friend georgie drove us around with his gf and they went in burger king to eat but we stayed in the car and we were kissing and he pushed my head to give him head but i was like isnt this weird and he said just do it, its not a big deal and i kind of cried doin it and he felt bad so he walked me home and held me close the whole time and kissed my forhead..now yesterday we went to his friends hotel party and we could stay there cuz everyone left and he kind of embarrsed me by sayin i give the best head and stuff.. but we had to sleep on the floor and the whole time he kept his hand on my ass or down my pants.. but today he was fine and we just madeout and stuff.. wut shood i say
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i think that you should tell him that you are uncomftorable with it and to slow things back down. u should try it... just be honest with him.
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Don't be talked into doing things you don't want to do just to hang on to a guy. If he cares about you he will be willing to slow down until you are ready. :)
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You gotta break up with this guy even though it's gonna hurt. I think this guy only likes you because you're hott or something. With what you're saying I think the only reason he likes you is because he wants to have sex with u.
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well by being alone in cars and in his room..on his bed...you are putting yourself in the position to get caught up with him and end up doing a lot more than you came in for. go to public places where he can't hurt you...no guy should do that. im gonna be honest with you-prolly not what you want to hear- but this guy is gonna dump you the first time you refuse to give him head whenever he wants. he doesnt love you...he punched you to do it then goes on tellin everyone about it-thats bullshit. if you want to say something i suggest somthing like "stay out of my pants" and "no if you put your desires before my values, you dont deserve me." please get out of this before you end up pregnant and heartbroken. trust me. <3
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tell him to take it slow.....HE SAID IT HIMSELF.
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i think you shud tell him 2 calm down.he said hed take it slow and tell him that. if you don't want to do sometin just say no
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I know that you are probably about 16, Im in 10th grade too so you might not consider this good advice, but I know what its like to be with a guy like that and he doesnt love you. he loves that you will do things with him but he does not love you. Im sorry to hear that you have this problem because its a tough one to deal with but the only real way to deal with it is to either stop talking to him or tell him no for a long time and do other things like go to movies or hiking or anything non-sexual until you really feel like he cares about you and you're ready to actually have sex. otherwise he will just keep pushing you to do it when you dont want to and when you do say no he will either get mad or not listen and make you do it anyway. so make it clear to him and dont let him convince you to do something you arent comfortable with because if you let him convince you once then he'll keep trying it.
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