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why do you get around. and why do you get to the upper class you scar them away. some people say you are a man is it true. thank have a nice day.

i dont get tot he upper classmen... they come to me ok??? u must be jelous if you get mad about that. and no im not a man... i boobs and a vagina ok?? i dont consider that being a guy. and people are stupid and say mean things about other people. like you! bah!!
-peace easy

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So there is this guy and he likes me, like he tries to kiss me and pinches my butt, and hugs me, but i only think of him as a friend. however, every time i try to tell him off...he just flirts more...what should i do?!?!?

tell him to back off and if he doesnt.. threaten to bite his dick

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There is this girl I like, Im 16 and she is also 16. I like her alot and i dont know if she likes me and i want her to. the only time we get to hang out is when she has one of my friends over cuz she wont come over without him here. She is every thing that i want in a girl. i guess what im asking is how do i know if this girl likes me and how would i go about to get her to date me.

Thank You
Guy without Girl

well guy without girl,
i think you need to tell her exactly how you feal. girls are weird and sometimes they need to know if you like them first b4 they tell you how they feal.maybe she only comes over when your friend is there because she is (for the time being) uncomfortable with it being the 2 of you. she may ghet nervous around you. but the only way this one can work out is for you to be honest with her and yourself and tell her how you feal.
i hope i helped a lil' bit.
xoxo ~ Dana

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I have a geometry final exam tomorrow and i have to make an 80 on it to pass the class....does anyone have any tips for me so help remember formulas and any way to help me study because its like i cant stay focused or remember anything! so any tips on remembering and focusing would really help!
Thanks

i have tha same problem as well as many other people out there. it helps me to make a songs out of them. i use tunes likt "humpty dumpty" or "twinkle twinkle little star" or "pop goes the weasle" ... you know kiddy songs like that!
good luck on your exam!
xoxo ~ Dana

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Hey i got some stomach flab (i think). I mean I'm a good weight but my stomach is poochy. Well i was just wonderin if there were any successful work-outs i could be doing to get rid of this. All my guy friends say it would make me look alot better even though I'm hot already. Please help!!

P.S. I rate high if good advice

THANKS!!!!

I think you should do a little thing i like to call continuous ab's!!! here it goes
-25 reg. crunches
-25 right foot on left knee touching your left elbow to right knee
-25 right foot straight up in the air
-25 right leg extended straight out infront of you about 3 inches from the floor
-25 reg. crunches
-25 left foot on right bent knee touching your right elbow to left knee
-25 left leg straight up in air
-25 leg straight out infront 3 inches from ground

- then do all tat over again going in sets of 5, and then 10

- then do that little bicycle thingy going as fast as you can

- remember this is called continuous ab's for a reason!!! you cant pause inbetween the exercises

hope i helped you out some!!!

xoxo ~ Dana

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I’m a (female) high school senior, and I'm "one of the guys.” For a while now, I've had a big crush on Alan, my best friend at my school, the quarterback. He’s a jerk and a player, but a great friend.

For about a year he dated a popular younger girl, Bella. Recently, he asked our mutual friend Naomi to Prom, and Bella dumped him. He and Naomi immediately hooked up. However, he began leading me on big time, and I kissed him. It was a dumb move, but it doesn't seem to have damaged my friendship with anyone, not even him.

Now, though, he's dumping Naomi to go back to Bella, and I’m going nuts. It's not that I want to be with him--I know it'd never work out, and I'd rather stay his friend… but he’s hurting. He's been miserable for two weeks: pale, sickly, and sad. Naomi's nearly lost her head, when normally she's so cool and calm. I’m not close to Bella, but she’s hurt and that hurts me too. Everyone is miserable and it's killing me. I love Naomi and Alan as friends, and I can't bear to see them suffer.

Further, Naomi's friends Jennie and Jackie are making life a living purgatory for all of us. Jennie and Jackie are just plain malicious toward Alan (and I can't blame them). Jackie, in addition to using this to get back at her hated rival Alan, is using the opportunity to move in on me. She seems to have a huge crush on me, but can only express it in “Helga” fashion by bullying me. The girls’ meddling boils my blood, and watching them manipulate both Naomi and Alan behind their backs makes me suffer almost as much as the bad blood between the two star-crossed lovers.

All I really want is to come out of this with Alan’s friendship, and to restore the happiness of Al, Naomi, and possibly Jennie. I can no longer bear to watch them suffer; it’s killing me, I hate to see my friends so sad. There must be something I can do; some way to make things right, but I can’t find it. What can I do to help them?

i understand that you dont like seeing them in this situation... but sometimes it is best to sit back and let them work it out by themselves. if you get into it, you will end up in that whole mess and you dont want that to happen. just sit back and you need to be each one of their friends individually. they all need a friend and you could be that one that is there to talk to for them. but whatever you do, dont try to "patch thing s up" with your friends. the best thign you could do is let nature work its course. you just be there for them if thy need you but DONT GET IN THE MIDDLE OF IT!!!

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how do you get sunburn to go away really really fast please dont say aloe b/c i pur that on and its not helping that well and i have a really bad sunburn and i have a dance on saturday and i dont need to peel either!!!

well i got a reall bad sunburn on saturday and it was gone by sunday night. if i were you i would worry too much about it. kepp puttin aloe on it and just to make shure... put lotion for dry skin on so you dont peel. hope i helped
xoxo~ Dana

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I am really into the style of Ashlee Simpson, but sometimes she's a bitt to extreme, and I like Kelly Clarkson. Should I follow their clothing style? Where can I find not really expensice clothes like that?

i would try a store lkike Forever 21. they have really funky cloths just like that. good luck!

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dude roo this thing is soo kool... i know this isnt what this is for.. but ha i dont have anything to aswk cause if i do, its done at the dryers in the bathroom!
i love you. love kritt

lol, i love my kritters!! what else is there to say... *sigh*

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ok i feel really dumb asking this but what exactly is "feeling up"? could someone explain this to me plz? thanks a lot!

fealing up is when a guy fingers a gilr or is "fondiling" with her boobs. get it now?
~love dana xoxo*

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ok well me and this guy went out for bout a month and i i just felt like i needed to break up with him so i did and that was two days ago. well ever since i broke up with him he has to know everythin bout me... who i'm talkin to... what i'm talkin to people bout and it is gettin on my last nevers. like i was talkin to one of my friends (that is a guy) and my ex was standdin beside me trytin to see what i was tellin my friend that i was talkin to. and every time i talk to one of my friends that's a guy he like butts in and is all like what is she tellin you (he says that to the people i'm talkin to) but they don't ever tell him and luckily i have alot of guy friends so they all stick up for me but he is startin to get on my last nerve and i really don't know what to do... so someone PLEASE halp me!!

i think that you should tell him to back off and be honest with him abotu how you think he needs to let you go. i know i know i know... easier said than done. it will take a while for you tog et the nerve to di that but you need to tell him "hey, you and i broke up and i think that we need to move on. by breaking up, it gives us both freedom and your not giving me any!" just see what he says back! i hope i helped more than that shake guy! gee wizz!!
-luv Dana

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me and this girl i really liked have been hanging out and stuff for a couple months now and i think she might be cheating on me or has cheated, she says she loves me and all but i dont really believe its true and since i started to think this ive started to like another girl that is alot more mature and fun and were good friends, what should i do, or how do i know shes cheating without asking?

well anonomous guy, not to sound rude or anything but do you and this girl have a staedy realtionship like are yall dating or actually bf and gf? if no, then shes not really cheating on you. if yes, then confront her about it. If you REALLY like this other girl, then you should talk to "the immiture" girl about yall breaking it off for a while and you go and see how this other girl would be. I bet you are goign to miss "the imiture" one though because sometimes those people can be fun. i dont know... follow your heart and do what you think is right. On another note though, she could be trying to give you hints that she wants to move on with other guys just like yu want to move on wiht other girls. you need to confess to her that you like this other girl and then she will most def. come ot in the open about her wanting the same thing. I hope i helped alittle.

luv, Dana

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ive known kev since elementrty school and now we are in 10th grade and we started hooking up in january and we could talk about anything and he was the first guy ive ever been with and sexualy active with and he agreed to take it slow. but now he just thinks that because i love him im willing to do stuff all the time. i know this is gunna sound wrong but you need to help me with sumthin other then breakin up, i lovee him. well a few weeks ago his parents went away for the whole weekend, so i went over friday and i was gunna go home at 1 am (my parents were ok with it) and we were hookin up and did more than usualy, but in his bed and he ate me out , when i was gunna leave he told me no and held my hands on my bed and told me to tell my mom i was stayin at my friends, so i did (he looked angry and got mad when i was gunna) so i gave him head and everything that night and he was saying her loved me and stuff and wouldnt really let me go. the weekend after his friend georgie drove us around with his gf and they went in burger king to eat but we stayed in the car and we were kissing and he pushed my head to give him head but i was like isnt this weird and he said just do it, its not a big deal and i kind of cried doin it and he felt bad so he walked me home and held me close the whole time and kissed my forhead..now yesterday we went to his friends hotel party and we could stay there cuz everyone left and he kind of embarrsed me by sayin i give the best head and stuff.. but we had to sleep on the floor and the whole time he kept his hand on my ass or down my pants.. but today he was fine and we just madeout and stuff.. wut shood i say

i think that you should tell him that you are uncomftorable with it and to slow things back down. u should try it... just be honest with him.

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