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what does this mean
Female,16
The guy i like is really shy about girls, hes never had a gf before, and we are really good friends. ive liked him a long time, and i figured it was just time to tell him. I guess he really had no clue.. yesterday i talk to him alone after school, and said you know i like you and he was silent scuffing his feet and half smiling and he said THANK YOU.. tell me what is that suppose to mean? thank yOU!? and then he said wow this really caught me off guard i i.. and his friend walked by and siad lets go, i need a ride home, so hes said well i guess ill talk to you later and left...do you think maybe he jsut didnt know what to say, usually he'd say oh well lets jsut be friend or somthing like that but he said thank you, and its such a neutral comment... plus most people i know think he likes me.. so do you think maybe he was jsut caught off guard and didnt know what to say or what?
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Sounds like it to me. Thats why its best to have these talks away from school and friends whenevr possible. They interrupt at the worst possible times! Talk to him again. I think he just wasn't sure what to say. :)
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Well, you know he is shy already. If he was half smiling I think he was really glad you said that to him. If he didn't like what you were saying then he wouldn't have smiled. Over the next couple of days just act normally around him and don't say anything to him infront of his and your friends as that will get him shy again. Perhaps talk to him again soon when he is on his own and just say that you meant what you said the other day and you don't know how he feels but to let you know if he feels the same way. Don't wait for an answer, just say you'll catch him later and walk away. As long as you say this while talking as if you're making a passing comment then he won't get shy.As long as you are relaxed and not awkward around him the easier it will be for him to be more relaxed and less shy around you and therefore more open. I think he feels the same way but you have to give him time to be able to tell you. Hope I have helped a little
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I think you should talk to him and figure out what he's feeling. I think that he may like you but he just didn't know what to say. Maybe he was surprised and since he has never had a girlfriend before and the fact that he's shy, he probably did not know what to do at that moment.
Keep me posted! Hope it helped.
~Linda
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Well, he's shy, so maybe that's why he said 'thank you'. He probably was just caught off guard and didn't know what to say. Besides, you two were alone, together, so that even made him more nervous/shy.
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Ask him what he was going to say! His friend stopped him halfway, but I think it sounds like he was going to say he likes you too. Shy guys are complicated, but the only way you'll know what he was trying to say is if you ask him.
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lol it sounds like mabey he thought you met i like you as in just being nice something you would say to someone you know like the little girl down the street who has grown on you and you say you know suzy i like you. or mabey he knew what you met but was shy and super nervouse and didnt know how to react or what to do. see how he acts towards you tomorrow or the next time you see him.
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When he said "thank you", that's just him expressing how he feels. Obviously, he was flattered that you would consider him that way, and so he's telling you that he's flattered - "Thank you". It could mean that he likes you back, or it could mean that he was flattered - but doesn't like you back. It could mean that he didn't have time to compose his thoughts.
Bring it up later. In a few weeks, just say something casual about your liking him. If you do this on the computer (AIM, E-mail) you'll be sure to get an answer because he's not looking at you (important for shy people) and he has time to compose his thoughts. I'm not making any promises, but if he has time to think about it, he might find that he has underlying feelings for you, too.
Pray without ceasing about this situation. Perhaps God will give you some guidance as to what to do.
-FunnyCide
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hey! it might be b/c since he's never had a gf..maybe the fact that now he knows that you love him, he's thankful for that...and maybe he does like you, ya never know. but i think you should ask him, b/c it really sounds like you two have a chance! but it really does sound like when he said "thank you" it sounds like he meant that for one, he's thankful that you like him..and he probably took it as a compliment. so like i said, you should ask him about it and talk to him more about everything..good luck!! i hope i helped =)
xoxo love always,
*rachel*
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