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I don't know who to choose...
I am currently torn between liking two guys...
One is my best friend. I have known him forever. We have tried dating before, but it just hasn't worked out... we're still best friends and all, but we do go on dates... Whenever we're together, people just assume we're dating.. He's really sweet, and is all boy-next-doorish. He does stuff like this... we went to see a play together, and it was cold, so he let me wear his jacket, then walked me home..
The other guy looks perfect for me, and is actually my cousin's best friend. Both of us have brown hair, and brown eyes and I come up to his shoulder (if any of this matters..) we're apparently "The cutest couple ever" according to some old ladies in the park... He's outgoing and is more rebellish though.. Like.. he stole me chocolate from a vending machine, then because I was tired, he picked me up and brought me back to the picnic ground (family reunion.. he was there with my cousin.. my cousin is a guy, by the way.) Sorry it was so long...
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BEST FRIEND, always. i'm doing the same thing, dating my best friend, it's awesome. you two just have to find ways to make it work and once you do you'll have someone that you can talk to and someone to makeout with, so it's all good.
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well personally i like the funny truble makers!! i'd go with number 2,i dont like sweet guys!! But maybe thats because i never really thought of myself as a goody-goody. If yours a sweet heart i'd say go with number 1,if you more funny and a little wild go for number 2.
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I would probably chose my best friend if I were you because thats where relationships should always start, a friendship! The other guy does sound nice except for the stealing. The best thing for you to do is go with your heart, it will let you know who will make you the happiest. I wish you all the best! Hope I helped!
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.__. OOh yea ...being attracted to theives are hot..bad boys kick ass...until they end up in jail! Try out some other guys before you pick.
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Go with your first instinct! dont listen to what other people think! just try to listen to what you think! tell me if things work out!
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I think you should chose yuor best friend because I think he's liked you for a longer time. They both seem like very romsntic guys to me. But I think your best friend realy likes you.
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Listen to your heart. You can't rely on 8000 advice people to tell you who to date when the real judge is your heart. It will tell you where to go from here, and whatever is supposed to happen will happen. Everything happens for a reason. It might seem a little rocky right now, and might be a little difficult for a while, but in the end, you'll be glad you followed your intuition because not even 8000 advice people can be your heart for you.
**xox**
~*~BeCcA~*~
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Well...I don't know you and I don't know either of these guys. So, I can't really say...
I would like to point out a couple of things and perhaps inspire some thought...You seem to really like you're best friend, but you said that you've tried that before and it didn't work out. Why not? Maybe you need to re-assess that situation. It sounds to me like...if you tried it again...it just might work. But that's just my opinion...
And I would also like to ask...This other guy...Do you actually like him? Everyone else says that the two of you match, but do you think so? I'm only asking because, MOST of the time, if you go out with someone just because everyone else THINKS you should...It normally doesn't work out. (Believe me...I've tried!) You also said that he was rebellious. How rebellious are we talking about here? Just a little on the wild side, or do you think that he could be a bad influence in the future?
I'm suspecting that maybe the reason guy no.2 is on you're mind is because you really like guy no.1...but you don't think that the two of you have a chance. But I could be wrong...Doesn't really matter...
Anyway, my advice is...Give it some serious thought. And don't let the opinions of others influence YOUR opinion. Remember, you're the one who will have to date him, don't do it just because someone else says you should...
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