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Question Posted Friday May 6 2005, 5:14 pm

so lets call her summer.

me and summer have been friends for a couple months. but now summer is being mean and is really annoying and i just DONT like her anymore. the problem is i half to sit with her in health and i HATE it. shes really chubby and the boys tease her all of the time but she was mean before that. and im popular and she trys to fit in but shes not bcuz well shes MEAN. and now shes hitting on my boyfriend and its annoying. and shes extremely 2 faced and gossips all of the time. and im sick of it. so how do i tell her i dont want to be her friend? silent treatment? i rate high.


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becca_x3 answered Tuesday May 10 2005, 5:24 pm:
The same kind of thing kind of happened to me. I stopped talking to her and adventually she caught on that I was mad. She then finally asked me what was wrong and I told her.. I told her how I thought she was a backstabber, annoying, rude.. ect. We had a huge arguement and I havent talk to her since.

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Shelbs4968 answered Sunday May 8 2005, 9:28 pm:
just slowly stop talking to her. dont let her b the center of your world, just forget about her

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XSugarPieX77 answered Sunday May 8 2005, 2:17 pm:
Na, thats kinda immature to give her the silent treatment. I would just tell her to stop being a meany and that she should get her own boyfriend. And if she's mad at you oh well she should hit on ur boyfriend. Good Luck
~Brina~

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alexd3355 answered Sunday May 8 2005, 3:43 am:
well it sounds like shes tired of everyone being so mean to her so shes taking the additude fuck everyone. tell her that you dont like the way shes been treating you and that you dont want to be her freind until she gets a major attitude ajustment and to leave your boyfreind alone!

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ocbabey41 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 10:29 pm:
well you could give the silent treatmeant but if you complain that shes mean you kind of are being mean too. so i would put it gently like just casually stop hanging out with her dont call her back and stuff hopefully she will get the hint or if shes really really bad and annoying just do to her what shes doing to you if she has a boyfriend hit on him or something like that get even lol
hope i helped* michelle <3

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oneandonly345 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 2:24 pm:
no.. no silent treatment. you want to tell her in a nice way.
i would just take her aside one day and tell her . hey, you and i are very diffrent.. and our friend ship really isnt working out.
after that . i would still say a friendly hey. but you dont have to talk to her.
but dont say that in a mean way ..
hope this helped ?
jay // <3

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i_will_stay_with_you answered Friday May 6 2005, 11:44 pm:
people change=/ ask your teacher if you can move to a different seat in health! but you realy shouldn't judge her b/c she's chubby and the boys teaeses her..i mean i know what your talking about though that she's mean..but just come clean with her..and tell her what you feel! <3

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shadyxbella answered Friday May 6 2005, 8:24 pm:
DOnt worry about it.. If shes that ugly she probably cant get your boyfriend. Just confront her and tell her that you dont wanna talk to her. Silent treament never works

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Sab answered Friday May 6 2005, 7:40 pm:
I had the same problem. This is what I did just tell her that you're starting to hate her attitude and she's just getting on your nerves. Tell her that you don't think it's right for her to be hitting on your boyfriend tell her to get her own.

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stringxcheez answered Friday May 6 2005, 6:54 pm:
i have a friend, who is just like that. what i try to do is seperate for awhile, like may 2-3 weeks and then she will forget about you. i did the same thing and now my life is soo much easier. i highly recommend this. hope all goes well.

xoxo
eve

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