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cheating?
Me and this boy are really serious. We have been talking for like3-4 months.But this other guy asked me to the dance and then we started to talk cuz i kinda said yea since the first boy doesnt go to my school.Then he asked me to come outside and we were walkin around all day.Then he fingered me like 4 times,. But i feel really guilty cuz i love the other boy.What do I do? IS this cheating? Do i tell the other dude.
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yes its cheating. you should always be honest in your reationships. but if you want good advice on how to not to get dumped dont tell him get rid of this secound guy & go on with the first guy if you really love him. but you have to ask yourself if you really loved the first guy would you have let the secound one finger you?
if you want the do the right thing advice then tell the first guy what happend because trust & honesty is the #1 thing in a relationship just remember he may break up with you for cheating. its your choice if your willing to take that risk. hope i helped.
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Well.. are you dating the first boy? Because if you are, you are most DEFINENTLY cheating. And the right thing to do would be to tell him about the other guy, because not only could he eventually find out about the whole dance thing (even if he doesn't go to your school), you'd be really hurting him if you didn't tell him....and that's not fair to him.
I don't think you're really 'love' this other boy, if you can even consider dating another boy. Much less doing things with him. If you feel guilty, then you should tell the other guy. As cliche as this is... always listen to your heart.
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No I don't think it's cheating since you aren't technically "dating" the serious guy. I would be cautious about the one you went to the dance with however. Since you were pretty easy with him, sorry but true, he will probably be going out with you for only one thing. Don't jump right to that sort of thing, make them at least be seriously dating you first.
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yea, that is cheating! you should seriously decide which guy you want to be with and forget the other one. if you you let him finger you your bf is gonna find out sooner or later...
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well if your ofically going out with a guy than letting another guy finger you would be cheating!
well i hope i helped, and the best thing to do is to be honest with the other "dude", if he knows that you are sorry and he loves you, things could really work out, jus remember the key to a good relationship is commuincation and honesty, im sure he would rather know about what has been going on.
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If you do something with another guy sorry to say but it's cheating... but at the same time, are you and this guy official going out?... because if your not than it's not but if you are it is... just see where you and the guy you like go... he'll probably ask if you have done stuff with guys and if he does than tell the truth... good luck
~Gomesy
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No dont worry you are not cheating! You and this boy are not going out, and you dont really know how he feels about you. You and the other boy are not serious either, you just fooling around which is okay, because you are single. So dont feel guilty, because you are not !
Ladiiee Ree
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Hey, I dont mean this to sound rude in any way. But if you loved the first guy you wouldn't even consider this other guy as more than just a friend. You should tell the first one that you did that and your sorry and that you love him and you should tell the second guy that that sould have never happend! ~~goodbye~~
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Talking is different from actually going steady with someone, so no, it's not cheating, and I don't think you have to tell the other guy because he isn't your boyfriend anyway, right?
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no it istn cheating.. your not exactly with him.. talking for 3-4 months isnt a comitted relationship cause your not with him.. if you was together it would be considered cheating but your not so dont feel bad.. why arent you with this serious guy...?
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First, you figure out and explain why you got yourself in that situation in the first place. If you're dating it's cheating. If you feel guilty tell him.
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