hey hey welcome to my site! my name is alissa but alot of people just call me lissa, i luv to play the piano (8 years) i have 2 brothers a mom and a dad, i have 2 kittens and a dog. what can i say..i love the lord. attending youth group and starting point is something that gets me through my week. i teach sunday school, babysit at the church and im a stright A student.
helping people has always been one of my strong assets.
so if anyone has any type of question, please dont hesitate to ask..im here for support, comforting and obviously.. advice.
so just drop one in my inbox anytime and i will try my best to answer your question the best i can.
Gender: Female
Location: MN
Occupation: student
Age: 14
AIM: loochalo
Member Since: November 13, 2004
Answers: 131
Last Update: December 10, 2005
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I'm pretty sure i'm a christian. But i sometimes doubt God and if he's there or not. Does this mean that, if i like... died tomorrow, i would go to hell. Am i not allowed to doubt God? It seems like the only people who are considered religious are the ones like "i'm sure he's real b/c i've read his word and i believed it" but... i'm a very doubtfull person and i can't just believe things like that. Does this mean i'm not going to Heaven? (link)
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its totally normal to doubt god, we all do but you just have to talk to him and pray for him to help you:) and he will help you if you let him. it is a sin, but he will forgive you if you ask for his forgiveness, believe in him, read his word, share his word and talk to him about your problems, but not just the stuff you help with, remember to thank him for the stuff he does to:) well i hope i helped! and i hope you grow in your relationship with jesus and ill be praying for you! god bless-have a good christmas
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ok so i went to take a pregnancy test today..i read the box which said to pee on the test for 5 seconds..me being the idiot i am..i peed on the cap..im all new at this so i had no clue there was a cap! i dipped the test in the toilet..and it came out negative..im thinking this isnt accurate because of all the water in the toilet..am i right or is it still ok to trust the negative? (link)
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well you could probally trust that, but just to make sure and to be more accurate i would do it again.. hope i helped!
-lissa
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what are the symtoms to a yeist infection?
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-Vaginal itching that is often severe.
-Vaginal discharge that is usually white, curdlike, and odorless.
-Red, irritated skin around the opening to the vagina (labia).
-Pain while urinating when urine touches irritated skin.
-Pain in the vagina during sexual intercourse.
-Symptoms of a vaginal yeast infection are more likely to occur during the week before a menstrual period.
i looked that up, i hope this helps!
-lissa
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i just got my you know what and i want to know is always a good pad? does anyone here use them (link)
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i have always perfered "always" because it can be much more thicker and last way longer than kotex, and trust me i have tried kotex. well i hope i helped! good luck
-lissa
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this is kindof a wierd question but is the discharge supposed to smell before you get your period? (link)
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yes, its totally normal for every girl! and it will have some sort of a odor, you could try scented pantie liners..well i hope i helped!
-lissa
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do you think i should be scared to use a tampon? I'm 13 and this will be my first time. I'm afraid I'm going to put it in wrong. Will it hurt?I keep telling myself that i can do it but then i back out. (link)
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well everyone is scared there first time! if its going to be your first time here is some pointers: you would probally want to use a plastic aplicator because cardboard will hurt if your not experienced. "platex slimfits" would be my recommendation. and if you have like "personal lubricant" you should put it on the tip and the first tube (it will make it go in easier, its great for the first few times). You should stop backing out of doing it! if you just maybe want to take one with you and then experiment a little so your more comfortable..that would work to. well i hope i helped you! if you ever need help or just some advice, leave one in my inbox!
GOOD LUCK!
-lissa
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Okay, so ... I'm a month and 7 days late for my period, but I'm NOT sexually active, anyone have an idea of what might be going wrong? (link)
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ok well if you have not had your period more than 2 years then thats TOTALLY normal for your period to be iregular and if you have had your period for more than 2 years than you could be stressed out. It is normal for your period to be iregular sometimes, but if it keeps going on or happening then you should tell your mom or see a doctor. well i hope i helped! good luck!
-lissa
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okay.. i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. his name is adam and hes my sisters friend.. well i really like him alot. but the thing is im 13 and hes 17.. is that wrong? but he has a girlfriend and last night he tried to kiss me! but i turned my head and i said dont you have a girlfriend and he said yes but he doesnt care.. but i wouldnt kiss him because he has a girlfriend and i think thats wrong to cheat. but he always hugs me and comes to my house and stuff and we hang out alot.. and he keeps asking me out too.. but i say no bc "he has a girlfriend" well my question is is that wrong to like a 17 year old and also i need advice on what to do about this situation.. thanks.. i rate 5's for good answers (link)
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well if he is out to cheat on "his girlfriend" then it shows that you proabally could not have a good relationship with TRUST and most of the guys at that age are in to SEX! most of those kind of guys are in to younger girls (dont ask why because i have no idea!lol) and so my advice to you would be to go no further than just friends.! well i hope i helped! good luck and remember not to give in to presure for anything that you dont want to do!.
-lissa
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what are sum good eyeshadow colors? (link)
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there are so many different kinds of colors that would probally look totally awesome on you! i think for a everyday kind of color i use a bronze shimer (you can get those at target, walgreens..etc.) get one like a couple shades darker than your actual skin color. for like prom, or jus a special occation get a color that matches your dress color (or outfit), or just make it totally funky! i hope i helped!
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Hey! Right now I have a Revlon hair straightener but it doesn't work that well. I want to get a new one that works really good but I have no clue what I should look for. Can you please tell me what kind of straighteners works good, the price range of these straighteners, and where I can buy them. Thanks in advance. I will rate you.
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the one i got is called "wet to stright" it drys and straightens wet, damp hair. it works soo great! it has a little screen on it where you can set the heat type you want, you can find these at target, ULTA for 29.99!! hope i helped! and good luck!
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okay i think i have pink eye my eyes really icth and
there swellen i were contacts if thats any help but is there any way i can stop the ichin or anything it might be other than pink eye? i rate 5s (link)
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i have the pink eye alot, the pink eye is when (mainly when you sleeping) you get ALOT of these eye gunk coming out, and your white part of your eye is pinkish, you eyes could just be dry or irritated..well i hope i helped! good luck!
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how do you do those lil heart things? (link)
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& hearts ; but put them all together, hope i helped!!
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i pierced my belly button yesterday with a sewing needle.. and right now only an earring is in the hole.. i have 2 questions.. 1. what should i clean the piercing with and 2. how can i make the hole bigger so i can fit a belly button ring in? (link)
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well that was probally not the best thing to choose, if you want your belly button peirced, do it profess. you have a REALLY BIG risk at getting a serious infection...but anyway..
1. an anaseptic or warm salt water is the best
2. i would probally not do that, if will just make it worse and with a bigger chance of a infection..but if you insist then i would take a belly earring and just keep trying to fit it in the best way DO NOT TRY AND SHOVE IT IN!
well i hope i helped! and good luck!
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Here's the deal, I like this guy at school, and we have one class together. I'm not even entirely sure that he likes me back, but I'm willing to pursue a relationship with him if it comes up. Thing is, he's a senior, I'm a freshman, and if we considered dating each other now, summer would come and end all too soon and he would be off to college. What should I do? Get to know the guy and possibly get hurt in the near future, or move on and possibly pass up a wonderful oppurtunity to get to know someone.. Please help, I'll rate!
Signed,
Dilemma (link)
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i would just get to know him now, and just enjoy the time that you can spend with him, and try your best to stay with him and keep intouch!! i hope i helped!
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Well i just got a new computer (sorta) and my homepage of my internet..www.msn.com..the words are really small...does anyone know how to make the words bigger? thanks ill rate a 5 to anyone who can help! (link)
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ok for my computer i have to right click on the mouse, then there is a list of things that i can click on, then click on "properties" and go to "apperence" then you can have normal fonts, large fonts, or x-large fonts, well i hope i explained that ok! good luck!
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wheres a good place to get cute cheap underwear [if u can list the styles they sell too thnx] (link)
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gadzooks, forever 21 they have like anything from boyshorts to thongs, walmart i hear has really cute ones and a great price!! khol's has great ones to! i get mine at ambercrombie and victoria's secert, but they are much more expensive, well i hope i helped!
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I am going to start tanning agin for about the 3 time! I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions or advice....um you know the goggles you wear so you dont burn your eyes? well I was wondering if anyone knows how NOT to look like I have white aroung my eyes! and I have heard of these things called like winkies or somwthing like that and was wondering if they work or not. if you have any websites that could help to that would be great! thanks
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well i guess my advice to you is that you really should not be tanning in those booths, i say that because my aunt did, and she got soo much skin cancer! and so many other older people that would spend alot of time in the sun...but my cusin tans in those booths and the reason that you have them on is to also pretect your eyelids ( i have asked her about this, she is 17) so i dont know if it would be the bestest out of the best idea to go with out any pretection, but this is just my advice, well i hope i helped you out a little bit! good luck!
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Ok I have just a few tiny corkscrew curls in my hair. They often get thangled with the straigh hair I have. I bought a natural curl relaxer with conditioner... Will it damage my straight hair? (link)
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well you never really know because if you dont do it right, you could be risking some damage, so i would stay on the safe side and get a straigher (i know what you mean, i have like 5 of those curls) what i do is right when i get out of the shower i put this gel in my hair (recomended by my hair stylist) and then when my hair is dry i straighen it. A good place to get hair straighers is ULTA, the one that is closest to me is in coon rapids..but if you dont have an ULTA near you than they usally have them at like your typical hair stylists. well i hope i helped!
good luck!
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My boyfreiend abuses me!!! I mean like he doesn't mean to but like we will be messing around and he'll grab my hand to hard and I get brusies, and I dont bruse easily!! I tell him it hurts but I know he doesnt mean to!! help!! (link)
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well all i can say is this honey, if you dont tell him that he needs to stop fooling around and getting rough with you than its just going to keep continuing, so the only thing you can really do is to tell him what he does, even if he does not mean to do it, i hope i helped! good luck!!
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ok i just got pro-active and i was wondering how long does it take 2 start seeing results?
and everyone always tells me such good stuff about it.. but has it NOT worked for anyone?! has anyone had any bad experiences with it. thanks!! (link)
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it would work a least in 2-3 weeks! just the repairing lotion like stings your face if you use to much of it! hope i helped!
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