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Abuse
My boyfreiend abuses me!!! I mean like he doesn't mean to but like we will be messing around and he'll grab my hand to hard and I get brusies, and I dont bruse easily!! I tell him it hurts but I know he doesnt mean to!! help!!
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I know you have probably heard this before, but you need to tell someone!! What he is doing to you is wrong. He might mean in or he might not mean it, but either way you have to talk to someone. Hope I helped. Keep me posted.
~Linda
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Well, if he truely doesn't mean to, he should stop after you tell him that he is hurting you. If he doesn't stop than it IS intentional and you NEED to break it off with him, I think you know why.
Don't forget that there are adults who love you if anything super bad happens. Parents, teachers, counselors.
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you really should tell someone, tell an adult, parent, anyone who will listen ..also tell him to stop! .. this could get out of hand ... hope i helped .. Love always, MauramOo
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If he knows he's hurting you, and he continues to hurt you... dump him. You don't deserve to be in an abusive relationship.
Or if you think that's too harsh, you could get him some help (seriously, they have psychiatric studies on abusive people)... they can help him figure out why he's doing it. And help him stop. Then again, there are always those people who don't exactly 'take' to therapy. But it's worth a try if you want the relationship to last (and your hand to be bruise-free).
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If you tell someone that something hurts and they continue to do it...they mean it. Get rid of him before it gets worse. I think you know this or you wouldn't have asked.:)
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Punch him in the nose and make the blood go everywhere. He'll think you're phsyco! And never tlak to you again!
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well all i can say is this honey, if you dont tell him that he needs to stop fooling around and getting rough with you than its just going to keep continuing, so the only thing you can really do is to tell him what he does, even if he does not mean to do it, i hope i helped! good luck!!
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it's not abuse man. it's him not knowing what he's doing. there is a difference. if he doesn't do it with a malicious intent. he doesn't know he's doing it, tell him it hurts a lot, and he'll try to stop. simple as that.
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hurt him back
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Tell him how you feel!
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