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okay.. i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. his name is adam and hes my sisters friend.. well i really like him alot. but the thing is im 13 and hes 17.. is that wrong? but he has a girlfriend and last night he tried to kiss me! but i turned my head and i said dont you have a girlfriend and he said yes but he doesnt care.. but i wouldnt kiss him because he has a girlfriend and i think thats wrong to cheat. but he always hugs me and comes to my house and stuff and we hang out alot.. and he keeps asking me out too.. but i say no bc "he has a girlfriend" well my question is is that wrong to like a 17 year old and also i need advice on what to do about this situation.. thanks.. i rate 5's for good answers
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uhm, once he's 18 you're off-limits to him anyway, but if you've said no b4, and he persists, that's wrong on some legal level or another...
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hey..
.. that was good of you not to kiss him b/c he has a girlfriend. there is nothing wrong with a 13 year old liking a 17 year old. I mean im 14 and i like this 17 year old bad!!!!! we might hook up too. my advice to u is to stay real close friends with adam and when he breaks up with his g/f to try to get with him. you shouldn't let someone that u really like go. just be his friend and i hope everything works out with you and adam. keep in touch.
- ♥ Melisa
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well if he is out to cheat on "his girlfriend" then it shows that you proabally could not have a good relationship with TRUST and most of the guys at that age are in to SEX! most of those kind of guys are in to younger girls (dont ask why because i have no idea!lol) and so my advice to you would be to go no further than just friends.! well i hope i helped! good luck and remember not to give in to presure for anything that you dont want to do!.
-lissa
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well most girls go for older guys.. but sometimes the only thing older guys want is sex.. its good that you think cheating is wrong.. and that as much as you like him you won't go out with him because he still has a girlfriend.. well right off the bat i can say that if he is willing to cheat on his girlfriend that he has now.. then he will probably cheat on you too.. i mean now that you think of it.. would you really be able to trust him??.. as much as you like him.. i suggest you find a guy your age that is single.. but if you really do like him.. then talk to him and say.. "i like you.. but you have a girlfriend.. and if you really like me.. you'll either have to break up with her.. or don't go out with me." guys are guys.. they will cheat.. and they will lie.. they will use you for sex.. and break your heart.. hope everything works out for you =]
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it isnt really wrong to like a guy older then you but if you do decide to go out with (which i hope not i will explan y in a minute) he will expect more then just huging kissing holdin hands and so on.. he will want SEX from you and you got to think is he worth it.. is he worth the risck of gettin pregnant?? then i dotn think it is a good idea for you to go out wit him i mean look what he is doin now he hqas a girlfriend and he keeps hittin on you. what if you where his girl and eh was hittin on another girl at the same time.. this guy sound like a playa and i personally think you should only be friends with him.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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He is way too old for you. Sorry, but hes almost an adult, but hes sure not acting like one, hes just an immature cradle robber that you need to stay away from. And it would be wrong to go with a guy that would cheat on his girlfriend anyway. But the point is, that when you're 13, you cannot date people 4 years older than you. It doesn't work that way. You're an innocent minor who needs to stay away from this guy. And you need to tell your parents that this guy had the nerve to kiss you. And of course, I know that you won't because you'll probably rate me a 1 and go on with your life, but this is the answer you need to pay attention too.
-TheTeenGirl
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Its not wrong to like him. Keep telling him no, say 'I won't go out with you unless you break up with your girlfriend.' If he won't break-up with her then maybe he's not worth the trouble. I hope I helped some.
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first let me say: you are doing the right thing.
it is not wrong to like a 17 year old, and it is not wrong for a 17 year old to like a 13 year old. many people who get married are years apart. you might know someone's parents who are more than 4 years apart.
if he keeps asking you out, tell him to first dump his girlfriend before asking you out again.
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