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Okay well My problem is I like someone that is about 3 yrs older and i dunno what to do about this cuz my b-day is soon so i will be 16 and he is 18 now so this makes me only 15 and i heard it's jailbate, so should i still date him? I really like him a lot and he treats me so good...
~confused lover~

hey...

...I totally think that you should date him!!!! I like someone that's 3 years older than me and he likes me back and treats me so0o0o0o0o good. I'm 14 and he's 17. You should totally date him because age is nothing but a number baby! If you like someone as much as you like him you should never let them go. It's great that he treats you good...it just shows that he would be a great bf. Don't suffer of a broken heart just because of you're age difference. I mean some people are like 5 years apart in their age and they still love each other no matter what. Stick with him no matter what if he's so good to you. Lots of luck and love...- Melisa

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okay.. i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. his name is adam and hes my sisters friend.. well i really like him alot. but the thing is im 13 and hes 17.. is that wrong? but he has a girlfriend and last night he tried to kiss me! but i turned my head and i said dont you have a girlfriend and he said yes but he doesnt care.. but i wouldnt kiss him because he has a girlfriend and i think thats wrong to cheat. but he always hugs me and comes to my house and stuff and we hang out alot.. and he keeps asking me out too.. but i say no bc "he has a girlfriend" well my question is is that wrong to like a 17 year old and also i need advice on what to do about this situation.. thanks.. i rate 5's for good answers

hey..
.. that was good of you not to kiss him b/c he has a girlfriend. there is nothing wrong with a 13 year old liking a 17 year old. I mean im 14 and i like this 17 year old bad!!!!! we might hook up too. my advice to u is to stay real close friends with adam and when he breaks up with his g/f to try to get with him. you shouldn't let someone that u really like go. just be his friend and i hope everything works out with you and adam. keep in touch.

- ♥ Melisa

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whats an appropriate age to get a thong.. im thirteen.. is that too young?? also.. are thongs more comfortable than regular underwear??

13'z a great age..i got my first thong when i was 11

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this year I want to dress more preppy. What are some styles that look preppy? I rate very high!

Hey...

I'm going prep this year too. It's my first year in high school and I want a change :) The places I checked out was like Rave...Aeropostal...Hollister. I know that Hollister is expensive but that's as preppy as you can get. Hollister has great clothes most of the time. Have fun picking out clothes.

- Melisa

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Ok well, I`m on my period and I have to go on a boat Sat. Tampons are def. outta the question because I`ve tried them and they DO NOT work! Is there anything I can do?

Well the only answer really is tampons. They DO work. You probably have just been putting them in the wrong way. I think you should try again with the tampons, and if they work yahoo :). Also talk to your mom about this or someone else that uses tampons, because tampons do work. You just have to decide on which type you should get : the juniors, regular, super, or super plus. Hope I helped. Tell me how it all works out :) bye.

- Melisa

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well there are those night where i cry n cry i just think about me dying. n i really am ready for death even though i will miss my family. no what you need to understand is i dont feel like this at day time only at night ill cry sometimes n i want to die. im not afraid of death im ready. ill talk to god n tell him yell( i talk to him from my mind) i wan to die. i dont need any profesionals to ehlp me. but y shouldnt i die u tell me?

hay gurl...oke well you kno me so you dont need me to say my name or none ..well w/e you kno me by lil \" m \" :) you get it now hahah ...oke well me n you alwayz have these lil talks n you trippin u needa get off this death thing n quit buggin bout it n just be happy dat you\'re livin n not think of death because you arent ready even tho you say you are...i know you sayin w/e i kno whats best for me but no you dont cuz if you knew what was best for you..you wouldnt be sayin im ready to die...no one is ready to die..you got good things goin for you n one day you\'ll have babies n den you\'ll be so happy you didnt die that you\'ll think it was just a silly lil phase i was goin through n datz exactly wat it is.. a silly lil phase..so please get over it cause i hate hearin you talkin bout this a bunch of times hihi :) love alwayz your buddy \" m \"

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