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im ready for death


Question Posted Saturday August 6 2005, 2:42 am

well there are those night where i cry n cry i just think about me dying. n i really am ready for death even though i will miss my family. no what you need to understand is i dont feel like this at day time only at night ill cry sometimes n i want to die. im not afraid of death im ready. ill talk to god n tell him yell( i talk to him from my mind) i wan to die. i dont need any profesionals to ehlp me. but y shouldnt i die u tell me?

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AskPatty answered Saturday August 6 2005, 4:02 am:
Hi there,
Maybe the reason you haven't die is because your time hasn't come and I see no need to rush it. You don't need any professional, but I think you need someone to talk to. I'm not professional for one thing. Is it possible that you get lonely at night and it cause you to feel really bad and want to die. I have that feeling too, most of the time I can't sleep. But I can listen. If you want to talk feel free to email me at daydreamz89@hotmail.com or pop something in my column AskPatty.(I know the background colors are just not good, im fixing it) I check these things everyday.
Tell me how it going. Take care of yourself.
-Patty-

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poa answered Saturday August 6 2005, 3:31 am:
So you are a kid who wants all the answers ~ good for you. Well, no one has the answers you seek, not for you, not for themselves. People go on every day, not knowing their purpose, not having a real reason to live. But they go on living anyway, because they just may have a purpose. Charlie Kaufman once said through Laroche ~ Well, Susan Orlean may have said it first, I am uncertain.

"Every flower has a specific relationship with the insect that pollenates it, if a certain orchid looks like a certain insect, the insect is drawn to the flower, its soulmate. And wants nothing more than to make love to it. And after the insect flies off, it finds another soulmate flower and makes love to it, thus pollenating it. And neither the flower or the insect will ever understand the significance of their love making. How do they know that because of their little dance, the world lives, by simply doing what they are designed to do, something large and magnificient happens. In this sense they show us how to live, how to go with what you have in your heart."


Read it, live it.

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iRReSiStAbLex09 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 3:29 am:
hay gurl...oke well you kno me so you dont need me to say my name or none ..well w/e you kno me by lil " m " :) you get it now hahah ...oke well me n you alwayz have these lil talks n you trippin u needa get off this death thing n quit buggin bout it n just be happy dat you're livin n not think of death because you arent ready even tho you say you are...i know you sayin w/e i kno whats best for me but no you dont cuz if you knew what was best for you..you wouldnt be sayin im ready to die...no one is ready to die..you got good things goin for you n one day you'll have babies n den you'll be so happy you didnt die that you'll think it was just a silly lil phase i was goin through n datz exactly wat it is.. a silly lil phase..so please get over it cause i hate hearin you talkin bout this a bunch of times hihi :) love alwayz your buddy " m "

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icey0990 answered Saturday August 6 2005, 3:11 am:
first of all yes..pleaase talk to a professional

why shouldnt you die? because life is beautiful
-your life hasnt been lived yet...i mean your future..you could get a great job..get a beeautiful house..live life !
-traveling to places..i know i definately want to travel a lot before i die
-friends! my friends are the greatest and ii have the best time hanign out with them..im excited about having lots more good times with them as well as meeting new friends
-family..think of your family and how devestated they would be if you commited suicide. They would be extrememly devestated and it would take a loong time to live a normal life again.
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-i know every now and then i try and picture myself 10 or 20 years in the future..you know what i see? me and my kids playing with my brothers kids..( i have 3 brothers) at a bbq with the whole family
- i have so much to live for! my friends,family, my future! i mean life is so beautiful..you can go to college and have tons of fun..get a good profession and have kids if you want..travel..live life to the fullest!
-finding your husband and sharing love forever..growing old together..having kids..traveling the world
-being able to go on vacation by the ocean and just walking the beach at sunrise. beautiful

these are only a few things..life is beautiful why cut it short when there are many things to come and many new ppl to meet in your future

your not meant to die now...live life because life is beautiful and it will fly by...dont cut your life short..there is so much out there

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Cale answered Saturday August 6 2005, 3:04 am:
alright well im assuming your a teenager. cause this is a typical feeling of a teenager. and i kno exactly how you're feeling. for some reason the night just brings on a feeling. I dont know. maybe the sun makes things cheerier, but then when it goes down and all becomes dark things get more depressing. The dark probobly is making you feel alone. Lighting can affect your feelings. You just need to find something to do instead of concentrating on this sadness ur having at night. take a walk, call a friend, do something to get ur mind off of whatever is gettin you upset.

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HawthorneHeightsFreak answered Saturday August 6 2005, 3:04 am:
You don need to kill yourself because a lot of people will miss you like family friends and everybody like that you're close to. and killing yourself is not the answer just figering out your problems and having people help you with them and maybe helping yourself figuring how to deal with them you know not everything will help but some things might go away and you might feel better
I hope this helped a lot you dont really need to die i hope you know that
hoping i helped you
HawthorneHeightsFreak

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