Female 16...
My friend and i haven't been talking for about a month now and its all because she started spreading rumors around school about me and she also went out with a guy i really really liked, that i had told her about.. After she had hooked up with him she cheated on him with her so called ex boyfriend.
The guy i like has become a really good friend so i had to tell him. If i didn't i would have felt really bad about it..I actually have a few questions about this though.....
If he askes me out should i go out with him?
Should i keep this friendship between me and teh other girl?
and was it right for me to tell my friend about what she did to him?
lollipop answered Thursday May 5 2005, 10:28 pm: let's be greedy and do everything!
1) if he asks you out go for it. he likes you, you like him, your friend did a mistake
2) should you keep the friendship? yes! a friend is a friend. there's nothing better than that. she's human, she did a mistake. if she doesn't like you b/c u told the truth, too bad for her
3) was it right for u to tell on her? yeah! you liked the guy, she kinda liked him. she was being stupid, and you just wanted to help
myscreename47 answered Thursday May 5 2005, 8:31 pm: If this guy asks you out then why not, if it doesnt work out then it doesnt work out, go back to being good friends.
This girl is a bitch dont b friends with her, because you dont want bitchy friends.
This guy sounds like he needed to know what this girl did to him, you did the right thing.
Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Thursday May 5 2005, 5:46 pm: shes not a good friend at all..if he asks you out..def. go out with him.. obviously your friend doesnt care about your feelings or his so go for it.. DONT try and keep your friendship.. what she did to you was nothign a friend would do..dont save it find someone better..and it was very right that you told him. she cant go around and cheat on her boyfriends i respect you for telling him cause most girls wouldnt...i kno exactly how you feel when your friend takes the guy you like after you tell her you like him. its happend to me about 3 times so i just stopped telling her who i liked...:o/ it sux but you can find someone so much better thne her!! good luck
kooka-burra answered Thursday May 5 2005, 5:44 pm: she just backstabed you with rumors, got together with a guy you liked, and you haven't heard from her in a month.
Sounds like you really aren't friends anymore. So who cares what she thinks? If he asks you out then I say go for it.
I really don't think you should be friends with this girl. What are you getting out of it?
oOh_sOo_Sw3eTx3 answered Thursday May 5 2005, 5:43 pm: if he asks you to go out with him then yes.what have you got to loose?
no you should not keep any friendship with this girl.she was spreading rumors about you why would you want a friend like that?
and yes it was right for you to tell him.he had every right to know.Why should she get away with spreading rumorrs and cheating.It wrong and it shouldn't be forgotten about. [ oOh_sOo_Sw3eTx3's advice column | Ask oOh_sOo_Sw3eTx3 A Question ]
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