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Hey yall, im a freshman in highschool and realy would like to help you with all your troubles.Im a happy go lucky guy, and i love to hang ot w/ friends, and have a blast! Im usually prety good about answering questions quickly, but bare with me, my life can get prety hecktic.

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I really want a boyfriend and I think a know a few guys that like me but the dont have the courage to ask me out...what should I do? f/13

Well 1st of all your 13, you dont NEED a boyfirend right now, so dont worry you have plenty of time to get one. As far as the guys who like you if one gets the nerve to ask you out then you can go on a daqte with them, if they dont ask you out then the apparently dont like you that much. Hope i helped :)

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I'm friends with this guy but I like him a lot...I finally told him I like him but I didn't tell him how much...a few of my other friends like him too but I didn't tell them yet. I really don't wanna lose him as a friend. What do I do? f/13

Well 1st, do you think that he likes you? 2nd, how much do your friends like him? If he likes you back and your friends dont mind you liking him then u might as well flirt with him and see where it goes. keep in mind your only 13, dont worry if it doesnt work out, you have PLENTY of time to find someone who likes you back.

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I’m a high school senior, and I’m playing a principle character (but not a lead or supporting character) in this year’s school musical. For most of my scenes, I have a microphone. There are only a few microphones so the principles have to share. All through rehearsal, I had enough time to swap microphones with my designated partner. However, on opening night, I didn’t, and I couldn’t get my microphone on in time. It fell out of my dress while I was onstage. I pretended like it wasn’t even there, and this angered my director.

What should I have done? Is it better to break curtain, or to break character? And what should I do if it happens in subsequent performances?

Well i can say one thing... improvisation has saved my, and many other or my peer's butt many times. If your dont get your mic on.. then its gonna have to be your peers that save you with improv skills. Just hope they know what their doin lol. hope i helped

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My mom is bananas.

She doesn't listen to me. Ever. Like, for example, today, I asked her to pick me up a block away from school. She was standing RIGHT out front, so I told her how appalled I was at her behavior and she cancelled my manicure. Her excuse was 'You have a friend'. Yeah, a friend that I carpool with every day.

I always get in trouble, and this summer is going to be full of fun, so i need ways to deal witht his. Thanks!

ummmm this is kinda what moms do. So just take a breath and be glad your mom doesnt beat you.

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Female 16...
My friend and i haven't been talking for about a month now and its all because she started spreading rumors around school about me and she also went out with a guy i really really liked, that i had told her about.. After she had hooked up with him she cheated on him with her so called ex boyfriend.
The guy i like has become a really good friend so i had to tell him. If i didn't i would have felt really bad about it..I actually have a few questions about this though.....
If he askes me out should i go out with him?
Should i keep this friendship between me and teh other girl?
and was it right for me to tell my friend about what she did to him?

If this guy asks you out then why not, if it doesnt work out then it doesnt work out, go back to being good friends.

This girl is a bitch dont b friends with her, because you dont want bitchy friends.

This guy sounds like he needed to know what this girl did to him, you did the right thing.

hope it works out

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how do you deal with rumors and gossip. i really don't care what ppl say i just have a hard time showing that i actually don't care, so how do i show people i really dont care?

lol well the 1st thing to remember is that people can b jack asses. Just smile and laugh.. they hate that.

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what are some signs that a guy likes you? i mean this guy always tries to talk to me and come near me..and he always stares too, he is very sweet and nice and i just wanna know. o ya and my friend went up to him and asked him if he liked me(she did this w/o asking) and he stuttered and said" uh..uh..uh..no..i..i..dont..um..like her..i uh..i.sw..i swear!." then he told me about it. i mean does this mean he likes me?

thnx in advance

um yes
^ hahaha ur answer cracks me up^

lol well being a guy.. i can honestly say were not very complex. A good way to tell if a guy liek u is to see if he acts different arround you than other girls. If he stares at everyone... then theres a good chance that hes just creepy. But ya my suggestion is to see if he acts different arround you than other girls. If your still not satisfied feel free 2 ask another ?

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i am the same person that wrote witch/devil with the thoughts in my head. well kately i have thought about it a lot and all that, well in class i kind of fell asleep and i was aware that i had my eyes closed and all that, anyway i had a weirdish dream and it was a dream that the devil was dragging this guy i have never seen before in my life under the bed and killed him. this woke me right up but i hnever had a dream like that and now all i can think about is that dream and that guy i didn't even know and the fact that i might be a satanist what should i think about instead of this?

ok well 1st... dreams can mean lots of things... u could have a dream about a rake and it could mean something like u will find the love of your life in the next 5 days. Dreams can also mean NOTHING, and they are just a reflection of what we have been worrying about, or what we have seen on tv, etc. As far as something to think about... school work, friends, theres lots of things... concentrate on some good things that are going on in your life.

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i have got a drama script to lern for this thursday and i have tried everything to lern it,i think i know ity but i go on stage and i forget it. and i dont know what to do. we haev been staying afta school till 8-9 clock in the evenning,now the drama techer is having a massive go at me, i ended up crying cos i was so frustraiting. anyone got a special way to lern it, i ll neeed your advice soon plse guys xx

Practice Practice Practice! I suggest you practive liek in front of people... anyone... your friends... your family.. ANYONE lol. and dont let your drama teacher get to you. Just do what you have to do. I must say if your staying at the school till 8-9 o,clock your deff putting plenty of effort into it. Keep on keepin on!

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what are some signs that a guy likes you? i mean this guy always tries to talk to me and come near me..and he always stares too, he is very sweet and nice and i just wanna know. o ya and my friend went up to him and asked him if he liked me(she did this w/o asking) and he stuttered and said" uh..uh..uh..no..i..i..dont..um..like her..i uh..i.sw..i swear!." then he told me about it. i mean does this mean he likes me?

thnx in advance

um yes

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This may sound kinda stupid but i want a awsome summer screen name.. I want to get one with Beach but summers cool.. I could use the old fashion BeAcHbAbY05 or somthing but that seems sorda stupid? Any awsome ideas!? I dont want any swear words in it but i will rate 5+ so anyone who writes me! Thanks a million
-Xo-BaByGiRl-oX-

Wh00t4summer

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is it weird if someone ((a guy)) rights a song for you ((he likes me ALOT)) and sings it to you on the phone? it seems weird to me

Its not wierd, he just likes you, theres nothing wrong with that.

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On May 17th im going to a plastic surgeon to get a mole removed from my cheek. Can anybody tell me what to expect? LIke whats the procedure that will take place adn what can i expect later? Scarring? and what i should do for the scarring?? thanks-- i rate!!

I had a mole removed from my back one, it wasnt to aweful, and i am so afraid of needles and any surgey or procedure. It didnt hurt, it was just like a prick, they numb the area before the start to make it less painful. It helps a lot. I didnt get a scar. If you want realy detailed answers I would ask your doctor. Hope I helped!!

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My best friend has this boyfriend (Hes a real pervert and a jerk to her friends but she doesnt care) , wen shes goin out with all she does is talk about how he gets in to trouble (which she like) or how she wants to break up with him, when he breaks up with her she cries and threatens to commit suicide! Then they get back together and the pattern continues! IM SICK OF IT, !!!!!
Sry its long, but i rate 5s

i was in a similar situation a few months ago. I told her every negative thing about him in hoping she would get over him. Eventuly she did, but it took a while. If your as good friends as you say you are you should ride it out.

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ok, so this guy and I kinda have a thing going on. We both like eachother but we are not really going out. We have been on dates but i dont know, we aren't "boyfriend and girlfriend". I want to be though. I either want to go out with him or move on. But i dont want to ask him out...im old fashioned like that. lol. what should i do?

I Wouldnt move on just yet, you have a good thing goin on it sounds like. You can do a number of thingsas far as geting him to ask you out on another date. You can throw hints at him all day long lol. You can Mabey get a friend of yours to kind of set you guys up, or just have your friends throw hints at him as well. If he absolutly wont get off his butt and take you on a date, he isnt worth it. But dont give up yet lol. Hope i Helped

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hi umm i have a question, how do you know if a guy likes you or is interested in you? For example, this guy keeps starin at me, does that mean i have somthin on my face or what?
PLEASE HELP

Pay atention to how he acts arrouund other girls. If he acts differently arround you thats a big red flag he likes you. Everyone flirts differently so this trick is a helpful way of knowing if someone like you. As far as staring at you, it doesnt nessairly mean he like you, guys stare a lot lol. hope i helped :)

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mmk.. i have this friend yolanda.. and me and her r like best friends.. but you see then i have this petie and me and her are best friends.. and for spring break im goin to wisconsin.. and i ivite petie but not yolanga.. and my friend whom i did not invite is kinda mad (i tihink) i feel really bad because who wouldnt wnat to go to wsiconsin.. but i mean i only could pick one of them... like who can i make yolanada relize that im sorry and that it was a though choice..




*names and locations have been chnaged.. lol( pretty hot names ay)

This is a toughy. if yolanda is truely mad at you your just going 2 have 2 explain why you chose petie and how you could only choose one person. you cant force her to not be mad, and if she is still mad, best freinds are allowed 2 get mad at one another every once and a while, try not 2 fret. hope i helped
p.s. i love your name changes lol

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i hav been goin out with my boyfriend for bout a month n a half....n we argue all the time!! its always about really stupid stuff...like the health benefits of chocolate n stupid stuff like that....we argue evrytime we talk almost.....a few times we actually got into fights....one ending in him telling me i need to grow up.....we dont mean a lot of the mean things we say to each othr in our arguments/fights.....i like him a lot n i dont wanna ruin nething.....is it horrible that we argue all the time?! is there anything we can do to not argue so much?

Argument can be healthy in a relationship, but i mean chocolate?? i dont know what sparks the arguements but it doesnt seem like it could b strong enough to spark a big fight. Both of your should mabey try everyonce and a while to not be so opinionated, and mabey hold back your thoughts every once and a while, just to save you time and hurt feelings. hope i helped.

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Hey woodie! omg ok, so this guy and i went out, and he told me he still loves me, but he has a new gf at the same time. he told me tho that i'm more important and that he's only with her b/c he knows we can't be together (true). I told him that if i was really that important, he wouldn't be going out with her. Needless to say, we kept our distance for awhile, but now we're friends again. And it's kinda the same thing all over again. Does this make sense? Anyway, do you think i did the right thing? and wat do i do now?

You are absolutly doing the right thing! Your right, if you were that important and he was still "in love with you" he would b dating you, not this other girl. As far as what to do now, i always vote for staying friends, if you can. try to make it work out as friends, and if it doesnt work, give him some time without you and see if your realy that important to him. i hope that made since, and i realy hope it helped.

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ok..here's whats up..theres this guy that i used to like and i think he liked me 2 for a little while then eventually i just saw him all the time and he sorta just became my friend..which was cool..he'd never gone out w/ anybody to my knowledge until now i think..im still not sure if he's goin out w/ this girl but they're together all the time and r always walkin around w/ eachother..its cool that they're goin out (if they r) but as soon as i saw them together i got jealous..i thought i didnt like him as more than a friend ne more but when i saw him w/ her i did like him..im confused! they r both good awesome people but i just cant help being jealous..?? im just not sure what to do or how to act! btw..im a freshman..just fyi

Your not a bad person! its prety normal to b jelouse in this type of situation. But honestly theres nothin you can do cept 1) get over it or 2) dont look at them together. You prob dont like him still, just seeing them together brought back thoughs of you liking him. i hope i helped

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