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I Love My Best Friend...
Heres the sitch...im a 16yr male senior at my high school, and ive been BEST friends with this girl since sophmore year...problem is, ive fallen for her...hard. i cant get her out of my head, i get jealous of any other guys she talks to or who like her, and im really protective of her...but she doest like me when i like her, she said she had a crush on me back when i had a gf soph year, but now she doesnt like ANYONE. what should i do? ive liked her for two years, but she says it would be wierd to date bcuz weve been friends for so long...
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express your fellings and tell her that you like her or just wait and let her ask you ...
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I would let go she is not intrested find some one who likes you and you care abouut too.
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well.. you have two choices, either let go, or keep trying. you obviously know these are your options. you can let go, live life, and find some other girl whos x10 better, or you could keep trying and maybe eventually get that girl youve worked so hard for. I personally, would let go, but it really depends how hard you fell for this girl. hope i helped... maybe even like.. a LiTTLE bit
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thats sad hmmm....
-this is my cousin-
ignore her talk with other girls and hang around them then after you go back and be straight forward with physical contact ((hold hands grab her waist)) she will go to you and see you with a different light
i guess
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pray.
once when i was younger- way back when in elementary school- i loved andrew. i loved him sooo much! i never told him. years go by, he likes someone else. i'm the first one he tells because were such good friends. that week i talk to his bestfriend. it ends up andrew did like me, but i dont think he knew i liked him. this fact tortured me for years.
the other day i saw him in a fast food resturant. well thank God i did not go out with him. He turned into a Catholic school prep (i went to Catholic school with him when i was younger, but i choose public for highschool). he even plays football and has a army kind of haircut.
all i could say is pray that it will work out. be honest with yourself, and know that what you'll say to her will change your friendship forever.
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Im in the same possition as you except im a 14yo girl. the best thing to do is to tell her how you feel. i told my best friend how i felt about him and he understood i never went out with him but atleast he knows how i feel and he might like me im not sure it could be the same thing for you, my advice is tell her how you feel and stay friends with her even if you dont go out now who knows what will happen in the future. A lot of couples start out as strong friends ships. She will proberly change her mind you just gotta make sure she always know how you feel make sure she doesnt forget because if she feels somthing for you then it is only a matter of time. But dont nag her just make sure she remembers you like her.
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ok ive been is this situation a lot of times cept that im a girl and he was a guy ok yeah you get it when girls say "i dont like anyone" about 99% of the time they really mean "i love you and i dont know what to do!" yeah ive done that before personally i think its better to date someone who you've been friends with you can tell her if it doesnt work out between you guys then say you still want to be best friends hope i helped!
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As weird as it is going to be to tell her, I think you should tell her how you feel about her! Chances are that she likes you too but just can't tell you. I personally think it would be easier to to date someone you've been friends with, you know them really well, you are comfortable with them, and you know all of their "annoying" little quirks. If you can't tell her to her face, trying writing a letter or note and place it somewhere she will find it. I hope to have to have helped you!
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Alright, well when girls say "Oh I don't like anyone," 90% of the time they mean "I'm in love with you but I don't know what to do!" And if she has fallen for you before it's most likely that she could return down that path once more. I really think that you should just play the freind card for now, and still talk to her like normal. If anything, you should talk to her even more so you can get comfortable around each other. The next move is up to her because she knows you like her, and she knows you're waiting for her response. Let me know how it goes.
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Well, unfortunatly I've been in this situation and it's not a good one. There really isn't a way to change her mind but the only thing you can do is stick by her like you're doing. Maybe overtime she may come to her sense and she might not. Just keep caring about her the way you are now, girls love that.
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Sounds like she's already let you know she's not interested. Either that, or she's being coy. Best bet is to continue being her best friend and when she decides she's ready to date someone maybe it'll be you. BUT, you have to accept that it may never happen, and decide if you're willing to stick around and be her friend anyway. I hope the answer is "yes".
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Hey .. I was reading your article and it seems pretty interesting u're in a tough position.. i mean i think you should tell her and maybe ask her in a flirty just kiddin way something like "oh is that offer still open the 1 back in soph yr. I mean whats the worst she can say? no!. if so, then you already know whats up and second there's other fishies out in the sea maybe later on in life you'll see that things weren't worth it i mean you have heard the phrase its easy to turn friends into lovers but its harder to change lovers back into friends. I think you should risk and ask or take her on a date because then if not you'll look back and be like "what if?" u get me ? well good luck !
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I know this is a bit short, but sensible, anyway:
IT'S EITHER YOU GAIN A GIRLFRIEND, OR YOU LOSE A FRIEND.
Don't ask me why because I'm telling you, That's. just. the. way. it. is.
So you better be wise in making your decisions.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit.
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