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Beauty over Brains?
Sometimes I feel like the guys our age are so immature. I can honestly say I'm not the prettiest girl in my school, but is that really all that counts nowadays? Some of the girls that the guys I know go out with are dimwits who can't tell the difference between 1 and 2 and still the guys fall for them because they have looks. Sometimes I feel like working for the grades just aren't worth it even though I know they are. What do you think?
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in middle school and some of high school looks do matter to most of the guys. but when they mature up it'll be personality. and the dimwits dont have the best personalities, so dont worry. when the guys mature up they will be falling for the girls with some looks and great personalities! *and usually the girls with better grades have more privledges when it comes to dating, boi's and parental TRUST*
<3 isabel
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Listen just keep going for what your doing. I'm in the same boat as you. Just talk to guys and they will get to see the real you. And you never know, maybe one day you'll see that there is a guy out there for you that is smart and good looking. Most guys are immature at that age do look at looks first, but that is just how their minds work.
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No... us guys only like the dumb blondes because it's easy as hell to trick them into giving you head. Don't worry, you've got brains. (You can take that in more than one way, heh heh)
However, in all seriousness, I like intelligent girls. I could never see myself in a true relationship with a dumbshit, even if she was hot. So fuck middle/high school relationships, you'll be fine later on in life when people see what matters.
That make you feel better?
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i know how you feel. i am 13, i dont know about you. but thats how guys are at this age.. all they care about is looks .. its like, they all are playing a game.. who can date the best looking.
but i would forget about them.. dont stress over this.. just keep working for the good grades, and hanging out with your friends.
what ever you do, dont change for them..dont change your style, your friends, your looks, or anything else. that so not worth it.
but guys grow up soon.. in high school.
so just give them some time..
Justine // *
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Beauty is everything.
Guys your age are still maturing and dont know what to look for in a girl. Dont worry, they'll catch up to you eventually.
Until then, dont worry about them. Ignore them and if thats a problem, come back for more advice.
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I don't know how old you are but yes, boys can be really superficial at a young age. They do tend to go for the model types until they are old enough to realize there is more to a relationship than being seen with a beautiful girl. To be fair girls sometimes do it to. So while looks may be what they are after now, they will grow up. When they do they will want someone who can at least hold an intelligent conversation. :)
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I think...
Don't worry. Right now, your grades are a lot more important than boys. Keep working hard to make good grades, you need to get the most of out your education...Not for your parents either. For yourself. The better educated you are, the more you will know and the easier your life will be.
Yes, some boys don't care if you are smart, so long as your pretty. But those boys are also very horny. (No offense to you guys out there :P) They just want to be physically intimate with these pretty girls, not build a relationship. They are also rather fickle, tiring of one girl quickly, dumping her, then moving onto the next pretty girl.
However, boys grow up eventually and become men. When a boy becomes a man, he's not just looking to get into your pants anymore. He's looking for someone to love. And really, he doesn't want some easy girl, or one without a brain. He would like a girl that he knows he can trust...and have an intelligent conversation with.
So...Yeah...Just don't worry about it :D
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Alot of us don't mature, thank you testosterone. Keep working for your grades and dont worry about a guy during highschool. You dont need some teen drama in your life, it'll only make things worse.
You'll find the guy whos right for you, or he'll find you. Its one or the other, but it'll happen ^^
♥EJ(ST)
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Well girls mature waaay faster then guys do. It's true, Guys do go for looks (well some). Though it really doesn't matter. You will meet a guy someday. Just get good grades in school and work hard on that. I mean you could go on to college. What would those girls have then?
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I agree with you..
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omg i hate that. guys in my school are soo immature to. guess what a girl hasta do is just deal with it. well back on subject. those people that like you for your looks are just crush worthy...maybe not even that. you hafta find someone that will like you for you. such as this guy who goes to my school. he is the sweetest person i know and he likes people for who they are not what they look like. just be yourself and don't try to be something your not or in the end it won't work out. Hope I Helped! Love Always, Anna!
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Do what you want.
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guys of all ages are imature. yes there are guys out there that only care about looks and nothing else, but there are also alot of other guys that look for personality and brains
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