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Need to stop crying
My 2 best friends have been leaving me out a lot lately. This may not seem like a big deal to you, but let me explain. 2 years ago, my best friend (lets call her Rose) was an outcast. everyone hated her and i was the only one willing to take her in. Last year, we were inseperable, and had an amazing friendship. My other friend, (call her Marie) is the most popular girl in school. she wasnt at the beginning of the school year, and she and i did everything together. all of a sudden theyve become best friends and are leaving me out of everything. it makes me feel so bad, and its gotten so bad that i cry myself to sleep at night. any advice?
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You need to have a chat with them. They may not realize what they are doing. Let them know how you feel and see if that changes anything. :)
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Let them know. Invite them to your house but serperatly.( So you can spend some time with each of them) Maybe try to act more outgoing and show them you have a fun side to you and they'll think they were nuts for leaving you out! All you need is some individual time with each of them, so that they arent used to being so clingy with eachother.
xO LiSA*
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aawh! thats soo sad! i think that you should set up a time so your alone with both of them and tell them how you feel. tell them that its hurting you. if you don't want to confront them about you problem invite them to go somewhere with you such as the mall, movies, etc. don't let it upset yout hat much that you cry yourself to sleep! don't let people put you down like that. you sound like a really nice person and deserve way better than that! Hope I helped! Love Always, Anna <33
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Let me just say that I'm so sorry about that - I think that's really rude. You were friends with both of them and the "popular" girl didn't like the outcast? and then she did cause she got to know her? I hate it when people do that! anyways - honey, you don't need to cry yourself to sleep - I honestly think that you should just invite them both of over and have like a little slumber party or something with both of them and just start hanging out with them more. Talking to them, writing them notes, AIM maybe, phone calls - but if that doesn't work then maybe you should just try talking to them - telling them how you're feeling ya know? That worked for me so I just thought I'd tell you incase it'd work for you too!!
-Good luck
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You need to talk to them about it and let them know how you feel if you don't sit down and talk to them they are never goign to know how they truly feel and nothing is goign going to change.. you need to take action ... im sure they will be thankful that you told them the truth.. and once you do they can change it and make it all better for you! <3 hope everything works out sweetie!
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