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i need to dump my bf in 1 hour
i know this sounds so mean, but really have to dump him. i dont no how to break it to him. we've been going out since may of this year. he told me that he kissed a girl at school, but he told me that he was drunk or something. i dont beleive him, becuase he is 12, 1 year yoiunger than me, and peopledont get drunk in my school. now he likes this girl diana, and he made out w/ her yesterday...i really like him... he is my first bf, and the 1st guy i kissed, hugged, held...ect. so he is going to call me in an hour to find out from me whether it is okay to have 2 girlfreinds. i am going to say no... but i just cant. i am sorta shy, and cant be mad at or mean at anyone for long. how should i tell him?
please help me, i know that you hate these type of questions, but plz try...
-thanks
-confused
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What a jerk! He wants to have two girlfriends! Whatever! You're doing the right thing, sweetie! He's a jerk ! Omg, I'm still... whew! Surprised! Well, anyway, SAY NO. Tell him, "either you stay with me and love me, or you go with Diana and leave me."
That's what I would say.
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
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~~~Kayla~~~
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ok, first of all. . . sorry. . . he is only twelve. . . need i say more? i really don't think it is wise to stay with him if you don't trust him. and you obviously don't want to share him, which is good, but please, you are only thirteen!! dump him. that is a must, never be willing to share your boyfriend! that is horrible!
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Seriously this boy knows nothing about his commitment to you. The point of you being his girlfriend is so that you are the *only one* who should be treated on an intimate level. Drop this guy.If you are as nice as you seem to be it won't be long until you find a new-better boyfriend.Tell him he doesn't need 2 girlfriends and tell him he only can have one and his only option is the other girl because you're leaving him. Don't compromise. For someone to even think that you aren't all he needs and he wants you as another option is just low.Leave him right away!
xO LiSa*
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It's not really mean if you ask me - you deserve to be mean to that kid. He says he got drunk but yet he's going to call to see if 2 girlfriends will be alright with you. what kind of boyfriend is that? I mean seriously you don't tell your girlfriend you were drunk when you kissed another girl at school - then want to call her up to go out with another girl the same time you are going out with him. I think you should just say "I don't really think I can handle this anymore. I really like you, but you obviously don't feel the same about me, and that's okay. I can't make you like me back. I just think that you should choose Diana, because things aren't working out very well if you're going to go kissing and making out with other girls. I'm sorry but it's over." and then wait for him to respond, and if he doesn't respond just say that you have to go and hang up.
-Good luck, hope I helped ya out =)
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ok...i suggest you should just tell him if he wants to have a girlfriend, he should go with the other girl. and be all like "well, if you want to cheat on me, then this relationship shouldnt be." then hang up and dont wait for his reply. its ok to be like this. i kno its hard. but this is just the way life is. Life goes on.
hope i helped
xoxo Julie
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