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Hi, just a lil something about me; i am a Christian. I am in love with Jesus my Savior, and my amazing boyfriend of 2 yrs and 5months :) I love dancing (ballet n tap), crocheting (it's relaxing), reading, and helping out with youth group, i love kids too! And I am here to hopefully help you, so ask away.

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i know this sounds so mean, but really have to dump him. i dont no how to break it to him. we've been going out since may of this year. he told me that he kissed a girl at school, but he told me that he was drunk or something. i dont beleive him, becuase he is 12, 1 year yoiunger than me, and peopledont get drunk in my school. now he likes this girl diana, and he made out w/ her yesterday...i really like him... he is my first bf, and the 1st guy i kissed, hugged, held...ect. so he is going to call me in an hour to find out from me whether it is okay to have 2 girlfreinds. i am going to say no... but i just cant. i am sorta shy, and cant be mad at or mean at anyone for long. how should i tell him?
please help me, i know that you hate these type of questions, but plz try...
-thanks
-confused

ok, first of all. . . sorry. . . he is only twelve. . . need i say more? i really don't think it is wise to stay with him if you don't trust him. and you obviously don't want to share him, which is good, but please, you are only thirteen!! dump him. that is a must, never be willing to share your boyfriend! that is horrible!

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Okay, I've been best friends with this girl since last year and we've been so tight! And now I think my other best friend is jealous and is trying to take her away from me! What should I do?

your "friends" should not trying to fight over who is their "best" friend. if you were really "best friends" why would she try and steal one of your other close friends from you? You need to talk to both of them and see what is going on. There could just be a miscommunication between the three of you, or just a misunderstanding. Go to them and talk about it. it is better than sitting back and watching your friendships get destroyed, if that's what they really are.

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I'm a 16 yr old female. I've been trying my hardest to change my eating habits, but it's so hard! I've been trying to avoid junk food but it's really difficult, and I haven't been doing the best job. It's just so much easier to eat something bad for you. I buy all healthy food for myself but my family loves stuff thats bad for you, and I can't help but grab some junk food instead of an apple or soemthing. I need to start avoiding it but it's EVERYWHERE! Please give me some advice on how to ignore the temptation and become healthier! Thank you so much. I rate 5's!

Yea, you are right it is hard. Don't torture yourself by trying to stop eating it all at once, slowly transform your habits. You will also feel better when you change your habits and that is always a plus! Since it doesn't sound like you are on a diet, don't give up everything. Treat yourself to your favorite things once in a while. Hope it works out for you!

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