Okay, I've been best friends with this girl since last year and we've been so tight! And now I think my other best friend is jealous and is trying to take her away from me! What should I do?
mrs_radcliffe answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 1:26 pm: Shes just feel a bit left out because you and your best friend have grown apart and she wants to be in with you again! The other girl you have meet has been so great with you that she feels that your picking her over you.
karenR answered Wednesday May 25 2005, 8:28 am: You need to talk to your other best friend and explain that even though you have another friend he/she is still your friend too. The other friend is probably feeling a little left out. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
Wait4Me answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 9:21 pm: your "friends" should not trying to fight over who is their "best" friend. if you were really "best friends" why would she try and steal one of your other close friends from you? You need to talk to both of them and see what is going on. There could just be a miscommunication between the three of you, or just a misunderstanding. Go to them and talk about it. it is better than sitting back and watching your friendships get destroyed, if that's what they really are. [ Wait4Me's advice column | Ask Wait4Me A Question ]
augustagurrl answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 9:03 pm: well you need to sit down with both friends and tell them how you're feeling. you shouldnt ever feel like you're stuck in the the middle of tug-a-war in a friendship. and maybe your other best friend just feels like she's not being included and she feels left out! maybe you can work things out with both of them, i really hope so.
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cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 8:28 pm: heyy .. okay first of all he isnt takening her away from you beacuse you never owned her and it seems to me thats your a tiny but jealous so my advice to you is not to worry about it she is going to have more friends then just you sorry if thats not what you wanted to hear and remember there are other people out there
sdog1205 answered Tuesday May 24 2005, 8:23 pm: First I don't think your best friend would try to ruin a friendship for you. If she is then she's not really your best friend. You should talk to her. Ask her what's going on. You haven't really given enough information here so I'm just going to throw out a scenario. If your best friend who you think is jealous is starting to spend more time with your other friend and you are starting to feel excluded then talk to your friends. Both of them. Tell them that you are started to feel left out and you think that you are losing your friendship with them. No matter what is going on you need to talk to the jealous friend. Tell her that you think that she is trying to break up your friendship and explain why you think that. If she is truly your best friend then it is probably just a miss understanding and she will explain, apologize, and all will be well. If she is trying to ruin your friendship then first she's not really your friend and second you need to talk to your other friend and tell her what happened. Hopefully it is just a misunderstanding and everything will get better.
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