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boyfriend problems
i need some help here..well okay i love my boyfriend to death and we`ve been dating for a little over 7 months. and we just started doing things sexually because i dont know before i didnt feel comfortable but now it's like everytime we are together he wants to do more than just hang out it is always revolved around "doing stuff" and that isnt what i like. Why is he doing this? Is it just a guy thing or what? and should i talk to him about it because when i dont give him any i feel like he`s mad at me like until i get to see him again. even tho he says he`s not. And i`m sorry this is so long, thanks for everyone who reads this, please help me!
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If you do not want to mess around then set your bounderies. He may not be pleased that you decline his advances, but big freaking deal. It is you're body and you are not on this Earth to suit anyone but yourself.
The more you give in to him the more he will think he can get you to do whatever, whenever. He will manipulate you with his mood swings, and guys will say anything if they think it will get you to give it up.
If you want this guy to stick around then don't make it easy for him. It needs to be when you want to. Showing weakness and giving into him is not a way to keep a man. The challenge is what they desire.
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You need to tell him how you feel, its unfair for you to feel pressured into doing things you are not ready for.
Tell him that you love him so much and want to make him happy but you just dont feel ready to do sexual stuff. if he loves you he will understand and not make you feel bad about it, if he doesnt or threatens to leave you because of it then he's really not worth it.
I think because you've been together for 7 months, he feels ready to do sexual things with you, he's waited this long so he seems to love you, if his love for you is so strong then he will wait untill you are ready.
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You don't say your ages...I'm going to say that's just the way a lot of guys are. Once they get the stuff it's kind of hard for them to think about much else when they see you. The younger they are the worse it is. Girls are just geared a little differently. We kind of like to talk and do other things too. It doesn't help that almost all younger guys don't think or know much about satisfying girls. That is why you really are better off waiting until your older to get involved in all the sex stuff.
You really should talk to him. Let him know how you feel. If it is really bothering you just stop doing it. He won't like it though so you'd have to be prepared to deal with that. :)
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Def. talk to him... he may think u like it, and u need to state that your relationship has turned to lust. If he doesnt understand, maybe hes in this for the wrong reasons...
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heyy .. uhh yea its just a stupid guy thing but if you dont like what he is doing you def need to talk to him about it or else he will continue doing stuff that you dont like
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yess that is usually how guys are. just tell him you like him alot, and youve seen couples break up over always doing sexual things and you dont want to end up like that. tell him you love him and you like to just hang out sometimes too.
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