I liked this guy and his sister is one of my friends. Anyways, she told him on Tuesday that i liked him. I don't know how to react. He said that he didn't care and just went on as normal, but i found out this today. Yesterday, I talked to him, but know how to continue to talk to him. We were talking in a conversation and i thought that it was fine, but i wonder if the only reason he was talking to me was because he knew that i liked him. it is really weird. plus on top of that i'm not sure on how i feel about him. i didn't want him to know about it until we became good friends. What should i do? I could barely talk to him when i thought that he didn't know, but know he does i feel.... I don't know how i feel. I need help. I do rate high for appropriate answers.
THanKS!
~Linda
helpful_jess answered Friday May 13 2005, 11:50 am: i think your mate is quite out of order by going behind your back and telling him she just probly thought he could have liked you and you 2 could of got together anyways i think you should either ask your mate if she would put in a good word for ya and to make him think your a real nice person and for him to want to get to no ya or you could just speak to him about it yourself tell him how you feel dont make him bored and not interested make him feel like your really intrested in him say something you have seen him do make him laff and show him a cute smile that will have you in his mind all day if it doesnt work out then im sori but dont rush into things become a good mate of his first make him intrested in ya and make him feel like he should get to no ya more cause you have alot to offer [ helpful_jess's advice column | Ask helpful_jess A Question ]
KRMACA51490 answered Friday May 13 2005, 7:21 am: Hi Linda! I understand that this situation might be tough! And after this answer I hope it helps! Ok first of all come out and tell the guy that you like him. He shouldn't just hear it from his sister! He probably wants to hear it from you! Thats why he keeps talking to you! If you tell him chances are that he will get it a better view of how you feel! He might start to like you more! So I hope this helps and if you need any more help let me know. -Krista- [ KRMACA51490's advice column | Ask KRMACA51490 A Question ]
LeeCoCheer05 answered Thursday May 12 2005, 7:39 pm: Hey girl!listen! every crush has its ups and downs.In my opinion, i think he may have thought it over.Most guys wouldnt give a girl the time of day unless there was a lil flame there.What you should do is have a provate and honest conversation between you too about who likes who and when you drop a few hints, see where it leads u.Dont be afraid to talk!no worries!:-)if you have anymore questions, go for it!i answer back asap! [ LeeCoCheer05's advice column | Ask LeeCoCheer05 A Question ]
aeromonkey answered Thursday May 12 2005, 6:00 pm: If you still like/love him you should continue to. Guys don't really let it bother them as long as you don't stalk.. you can still be best friends with a guy and like him too. It's better that he knows... It'll feel weird sometimes now that he knows for sure, but don't let it get to you. Just be your self and have fun being with him.. Who knows... now that he found out... he could start liking you.
l0stiNth0uGht020 answered Thursday May 12 2005, 5:09 pm: Well, if he talked to you before he knew you liked him, then he probably wasn't just talking to you b/c you like him. Act like you used to around him - when you didn't know he knew. If he can act the same, so can you. Don't let it get awkward - that's the worst possible thing you can do. Especially if you're not sure you like him like that - you don't want to jeopardize what could possibly be a great friendship. Hope I helped some! [ l0stiNth0uGht020's advice column | Ask l0stiNth0uGht020 A Question ]
givinadvice2u101 answered Thursday May 12 2005, 4:41 pm: i knjow how you feel. someone did that to me. i would say talk to him much more often. get a good relationship going. if he originally had just talked to you because he knew you liked him, he will eventually see how awsome you are and he could start liking you more and more if he doesn't already. he could have also talked to you originally because he likes you. so talk to him more often and maybe when you feel your both ready, ask him out. [ givinadvice2u101's advice column | Ask givinadvice2u101 A Question ]
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