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ok to day i went to a bible study at school, I used to go to church and youth group but the youth minister left the church and i havent been back since....but anyway today when i was there things where really emotional...people were crying and they asked us to bow our heads and asked who wanted to be saved...the asked us to raise our hands and then the leaders came over and prayed over them...But I felt scared to raise my hand....Im regreting it now....I want God in my life but I'm afraid Ive missed my chance.
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God will always be in ur life...NO MATTER WHAT....And there is always a chance with god..HOPE I HELPED...

~~~DeSIrEe


There's this guy at school who I really like a lot. I met him about a month ago, and the only problem is that he's really quiet. I've started to talk to him, and we're kind of friends, but he's pretty much a loner. The only people he will talk to is me (for no reason I can figure out) and his older sister, who actually wants us to go out. The only problem is he's really shy, so I don't know if he likes me or not. And I'm not exactly that close to his sister... so I don't want to ask her. I'm wondering if I should tell him now, or wait a little longer, because I haven't known him very long... and when should I tell him if I have to wait? (link)
OK...well it doesnt matter when you tell him because no matter what it's good to have someone know if they're liked...sounds to me as tho he may like you if ur the only 1 he talks to...you should become closer with his sister too....HOPE I HELPED
~~~DeSIree


There's a boy at my theatre. We're both in the same play right now but since i'm in ACT I and he's in ACT II, we don't usually have the same rehearsals. I just started liking him even though I don't know him that well. He seems really sweet and he's cute too. I would really like to known him better but I don't know what I should do. Opening night is in a week and that doesn't give me much time to befriend him. Any advice on how to strike up a conversation or get him to notice me?

♥//&xo blair 13/f (link)
Start hanging out wit him..flirting a lil...talking alot..if he goes to ur skool start hangin wit him at lunch and stuff....become his friend and become friends wit his friends...this maybe hard but its the only way!!!HOPE I HELPED!!!
~~~~Desiree


there is this guy at school who likes me ALOT! and i kinda like him, but hes part of the popular group, and im not really.. im just part of the normal group. His friends asked him "why do you like her, she doesnt hang out with us, she doesnt deserve you" should i go out with him even though his friends said that, and people would make fun of me if i went out with him? PLEASE HELP! (link)
YES!!! just because ur not part of that group doesnt mean u dont deserve him...he's no better than you!! His friends are just jackasses and dont know that everyone is =..HOPE I HELPED
~~~~Desiree


My friend Tiffany always be having sex and I'm worried about her. she might have another kid and have to put it up for adoption. or she might get AIDS. I don't want that to happen. should I let her get hurt? or try to talk to her and help her? (link)
YOU should tell ur friend how u feel..she would understand and if she doesnt she's not a good friend....tell her about the risk even with protection..HOPE I HELPED!!
~~~~Desiree


ok so after my sweet 16 party we are going swimming in the indoor pool from like 10-11:30 or whatever...problem is..the hotel says a lifeguard must be present? I guess i have to accept this rule being that its the hotel's rule, but would the people there think its lame and not want to stay in the pool being that the lifeguard is there? or do you think they will accept it and still have fun. Answer honestly..if you honestly think they wont like it and would want to leave..tell me.
Im hoping my friends will be ok with it and still have fun swimming and playing music, etc. (link)
i dont think it would really matter...no matter where u go to go swimming there will be a lifegard they should except it...HOPE I HELPED!!!
~~~~Desiree


I don't know why...but I hate my own race...I'm not black or white..But i just find my own race annoying and dorkish..I know that's mean but I don't know why I feel this way! Am I a racist? (link)
There's nothing wrong with not liking ur own race...i hate being white for the same reason's and yeah its ok....ur not racist..HOPE I HELPED!!
~~~~~~Desiree


My dad is a jerk..we'll just start off by saying that. He and my mother divorced 5 or 6 years ago. I have two younger sisters and a younger brother. Me and one of my sisters stopped switching back and forth between my mom and dad and decided just to live with my mom, because we both STRONGLY dislike our father. My mom is a single mom, works her butt off everyday, and has to pay for EVERYTHING for anything that all four of us kids need. My dad refuses to talk to her because he thinks that my mom is just out to get money from him..but the way i see it is, why wouldn't he want to help pay for his children? Yeah, he pays child support, but he lied about his income to the judge, so we don't even know how much he is SUPPOSED to be paying. It wouldn't even be that bad if he just pitched in once in a while for things like my driver ed course, or a yearbook, or my theatre banquet ticket! But of course he doesn't.."THOSE THINGS AREN'T NECCESSARY!" ...maybe not but they still are important to me, and a good father would help pay right? Another thing is, me and my mom just found out that when they got divorced, he hid the 20,000 dollars that was in their retirement account, so 10,000 of it belongs to my mom, and that would solve SO many financial problems. My dad has been hiding this for 6 years AND he had the NERVE to get married to a lady who also had 4 children!!! HE WON'T EVEN PAY FOR HIS OWN!! HOW IS HE SUPPOSED TO PAY FOR 8 KIDS AND A WIFE?? I guess waht my question comes down to is, what do i do? How do i ask him to help pay when i know he is going to think im just trying to get money out of him, because i don't even live with him. I'm lost and angry and I wish he wasn't my dad, but he is and i have to face that. I just need to know how I should approach him with out getting my mom in trouble or myself. Please help me.

Natalie (link)
OK...well that is very upsetting that he hide that money...you need to tell him that your mom and you and your siblings need that money..tell him the reasons and tell him that if he really loved his children that he would give it up and help pay for child support....it might be a good idea to tell him this on the phone or something thats not in person...you need to tell him all the problems u've been having and tell him how you feel...tell him about the 8 kids and stuff...hopefully he will understand about everything....it will be hard because he is ur father but he should understand!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~~~~Desiree


Does anyone know a good shampoo or soemthing for your hair that would dry it out because my hair is always reallyyy oily. thanks ♥ (link)
head and sholders works


is there anyway u can naturally make ur breast bigger with out stuffin a bra?


i rate high (link)
not really....milk helps them grow tho


i want to dye my hair out of a box as opposed to getting it done professionally. is this a bad idea? (link)
no...just make sure u have some help with it so everything is even


Every morning i put on enough make up. However, buy 11:30 am its faded! I need 2 know how to get make up that lasts. Brands,tips,etc.
please help i rate 5s for average answers.

xOxO (link)
just take make up with u and fix it in the bathroom


I need to make a cd for this dance/party. What are some good songs,like hip-hop or something you can dance to? Thanks a bunch.Oh, and by the way, what was that onesong from last year with trick daddy ... ahh i forgot who else and what it goes like. maybe someone knows? thanks a bunch. easy rating. =) (link)
some good songs r......sugar by trick daddy
12step by ciarra
actually almost anything by ciarra
swtich by will smith
1thing by amerie
errtime by nelly
snoop dogg songs
...anything along those edges


Hey ok so im really good friends with this girl.. and well i kind of did stuff with her brother uhm yeah and he went back and told her what we did.. so now she hates me! But i couldnt help it.. i really like him and now she gets on my case about lieng to her and i cant stand it because she doesnt understand because she thinks that she is the only one that can feel strongly to her b/f!.. And even her mom tried talking to her about it and i still think she doesnt understand.. but ive also went out with her brother before and she didnt care.. and i dont know what to do or to say to her.. and its making me mad that i cant even talk to her about it and the fact that she doesnt trust me either!!! (link)
Ok...the same thing happen wit 2 girls i know...she may just be protective wit him...its her bro ya know....over time shell get over it or just forget about it...just let it go...but really whats more important a friend or a guy...think about it..HOPE I HELPED IM NEW AT THIS!!!
~~~~~Desiree


i have braces and theres a sore spot on my gums but it hurts...my dentist says its bcuz of my braces and to keep brushing it hard so i can get it clean..but it hurts! what can i do to get the redness and swelling down?

-Cierra (link)
Because its a sore and those take time dont brush to hard on that spot...HOPE I HELPED IM NEW AT THIS!!
~~~~~Desiree


do you think its possible to acctually fall in true love in the 7th grade? i know everyone always says you dont find love until youre older, but i think ive found the perfect person. seriously... if someone asked me to change somethinmg about him, i would say no, he needs no changing. ive gone out with him three times and all three times we broke up for stupid reasons. hes always there for me, and always makes me feel like the smartest, prettiest, most unique person in the planet. he is willing to listen to my views on things, and trys really ard to make me happy. he is artistic, yet hes also a football player. hes really hot but i SWEAR thats not why i love him. well, i think you get my point so ill be quiet now. Tell me what you think! thanks - i rate high unless your response really sucks. (link)
YES i do believe that there is love in the 7th grade...I am in the 9 and i believe that i have found the perfect guy too...he does the same to me telling me im diff in good ways....wow tho 3 times for stupid reasons is a good thing but in a way a bad thing....u shouldnt get i fights over certain things if he's the one....Hope i help im new at this!!!
~~~~Desiree


ok... i just got a new camera phone. it is motorola and i was wondering....does it cost me for every picture i take????? (link)
nope


is masterbation a sin? if so then how do i stop? (link)
No....It is actually healthy so i dont believe it is a sin...hope i helped




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