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All my friends are very touchy-feely sort of people, we always hug each other loads and don't mind being close, both guys and girls. I really like this guy, but due to some unfortunate and complicated circumstances he is ignoring me (I haven't done anything wrong).
But the thing is, he is still the same with all his other friends, and I get very very jealous whenever I see him hugging his female friends, or walking with them in a two.
How can I stop myself being jealous? I don't have a claim over this guy, and I feel so upset whenever I see him like this now because I really do like him.
(It wasn't so long ago - a few weeks - that he liked me. But I didn't like him like that then, and now that I do...I haven't told him this yet but anyway...).
The jealousy is killing me! (link)
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well you can either tell him you like him and hopefully he'll understand that you just needed to take some time to figure it out, or if you wanna stop liking him you can think of all his bad qualities and trust me it will make you stop, and you can always meet more people
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There's this guy that I really like, we'll call him David. Anyway, David knows I like him, and he says he likes me too. But, he also says that he wants to wait to ask me out, till he gets to know me better. Anyway, he kissed me the other night, and I'm afraid it's going to turn into a friends with benefits relationship, which I don't want at all, but I have no self control around him, I can't help from kissing him back. How do I get him to ask me out sooner? (link)
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what i think you should do is tell david that you don't want to mess around or kiss or anything untill he asks you ask. and you don't want it to turn into a friends w/ benefits relationship, you have to be upfront about it all. good luck
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how do you know whe you are really, TRUELLY in love? thank you - i rate high unless your response sucks! (link)
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i think you know you're truly in love when you could see yourself giving up your own life for that person, untill then you are not truly in love.
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hey.. i have a VERRRY bad situation. My mom and dad are getting a divorce and i dont know what to do! Is it my fault? What can i do (if possible) to get them back together? i love my mom and my dad but when they yell and scream its hard for me to love either one of them.... plz plz plz help!! Everytime i think about it it makes me cry!! (link)
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i know exactly how you feel. that happened to me too, luckily i was younger. let me first tell you this has nothing to do with you, sometimes people grow apart and there is nothing you can do about it. if your parents are meant to be together, i'm sure they're going to. there's nothing you yourself can do to fix other then to let both of them know how much you love them both. maybe you could say you should go to family counseling as stupid as it sounds, it might work. good luck and please do not worry sweetheart
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some of the girls in my school like gettin called a tease. and others dont i am so confused by this that i want to know if its a goodthing being called a tease and wat it exactly means
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it depends, like a tease means someone who is kind of all talk. like they say they're going to do something and then they don't. it's kind of a bad term i think, because it means your'e talking about having sex or something, but then don't. so you're putting yourself out there, then backing down.
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Is Ellen Degenirus a lesbian? I dont know! Help! (link)
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yes, she is.
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My bbf bf and I like 2 months ago had something going while he was going with my bff well I regret that more then ever and I've been feeling guilty so then I came out and told her what type of guy he was and what had happened.Then she asked him and he said it was a complete lie and it never happened.So now she tells me I'm a lier and she can't trust me anymore and believe every word that comes out of his mouth.She has known him for a year and me 3 years.I feel bad about what I did but I don't see why he is acting like nothing happened and I'm the one stuck with the guilt.Please help me I don't know what to do! (link)
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she probably doesn't want to believe you because most girls in relationships where guys cheat, don't want to believe they'd ever do anything wrong. just like you feel bad for it happening, he probaby does too. i'm sure he doesn't want his girlfriend to find out because then she'll defenitely [hopefully] dump him. all i can say is to talk to her, face to face about it and look her in the eye with everything you say and make sure she knows you'd never lie about something like that to her, because you know he means a lot to her and you feel bad for everything that happened. advice for the future, try not to have things with boys with girlfriends, especially your best friends. good luck
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i have obsessive-compulsive disorder about death. in my mind i am always seeing people die like i see my dad die in a car accident and it's really scary. does anybody have any suggestions to help me think of something else. don't say "just stop thinking about it" because i can't just say "ok brain you know the drill start thinking about candy land and hot dudes hugging you. because that's not the way it works (link)
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i know you might not like this but, i think you might need to see a doctor of some sort. if you're being honest about always seeing death, that's not normal, or healthy. there's no reason for you to see those things all the time. i think you should talk to your parents about what you're seeing and they're the only ones who can give you the best advice. i hope things work out
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i need some backup for this:
this "Gangsta rap" dude at school slapped one and punched another girl in the middle of the hallway two days ago. needless to say he got suspended. I work with one of the girls and the guy. he is a lazy grocery bagger, she's also a bagger.
Question: need opinions from both sexes on the issue of "guys can't hit girls". personally, i want to thrash him within an inch of his life, as do most of the other guys i have talked to. is that a bad thing?
other info: he's done it before, and has had his ass kicked multiple times for it.
did i mention that he also dresses like a drug dealing lowlife? oh yeah i did, stupid kids trying to live like gangsters in suburbia.
-hilter (link)
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no that's so messed up he hit a girl. if i was a guy at your school i probably would have beaten the s*** out of him right then. no you shouldn't at all think it's bad you and the other guys at your school want to mess him up. you should feel good about yourselves for caring so much. you're awesome
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hey im 16/f ..ok well i like this guy and we have been firend for the past year and we hang out and do stuf fthat couples do.well last year i told him i kind of liked him and he said that he was to afraid fo losing me and that to prevent us getting mad at each other like couples we should still just be friends..ever sinc ethen we have just got closer and we also have went o 3rd base. well for teh past couple of weeks i have been like hanging around another guy. they are freinds and all but last weekend we all decide to go out and i ended up riding with the other guy and my friend got like relaly mad and kind of weird acting at first he would liekpush me away and now he is trying to be really nice....and teh new guy has been there but here reently we talk alot and he is always flirting and then he will say stuff liek please find me a gurlfriend and mees aroudnand then liek run up at schol and hug me and lasy on me and stuf....i am soo confused what should i do???? (link)
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i think you should talk to the boy you've been friends with again about his feelings for you. he can't expect you to NOT go out with anyone else and just be friends with him and do stuff, that's stupid. if his answer remains the same, that he doesn't want to lose you as a friend then you have to tell him that you two are only going to be friends and you might start talking to the other guy that's in the picture now and he can't get mad. best of luck
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umm i know i prolly sound really dumb, but what is grinding?!? please answer! ill rate high (link)
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lol aw you don't sound dumb, anways grinding is when a girl and guy usually are dancing to music but in a sexual way, like "freak dancing" if you've heard of that. don't worry about it though
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I have dated this girl before (I am bisexual, I am also female). She cheated on me once, but at least told me. Then I left her, and then about 4 months we went back out. Now we are on a break again. I am waiting 'till she gets her car, but the problem is.. I am not sure if I can COMPLETELY trust her. What do you all think?
I really love her.. she makes me so happy.. (link)
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i've always said if they'll cheat once and you take them back it's easier for them to cheat again, because they know that they can do it and some how make you think it's alright. it's not alright to be cheated on. i do however think you should give her a second chance simply because you say you do love her, if you find out again that it's happened you HAVE to move on as hard as it might be, honestly. it'll be hard, but you have to do it. good luck
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ok so im homeschooled... and next year i'll be going into 9th grade. I'm still deciding if i should keep homeschooling or go back to public. All my fiends want me to go back. I want to too but then i have two places i wanna be at.. I love being homeschooled and all but i feel like im missing the socializing... so im not sure which i should go to...
what do you think?
plz help i needa know!
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i think you should do exactly what you want to do. what your friends want you to do is not always what's in your best interest. if they're good friends of yours then whether or not you're homeschooled will have nothing to do with if they stay friends with you, right? and about the part of missing out on things, i've always thought that homeschooled kids were missing on things like homecoming, parties, prom stuff like that, and it is important so you have to take that into account because stuff like that builds on who you become as an adult. i think you know deep down what you really want to do. so do it. best of luck next year
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