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I have dated this girl before (I am bisexual, I am also female). She cheated on me once, but at least told me. Then I left her, and then about 4 months we went back out. Now we are on a break again. I am waiting 'till she gets her car, but the problem is.. I am not sure if I can COMPLETELY trust her. What do you all think?
I really love her.. she makes me so happy..
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If you love her, show her that by trusting her. Always give people second chances. If it becomes a repetitive thing, like she cheats on you and begs you take her back and then does it again, dump her. She's not good enough for you. =)
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All relationships should be based on trust and thats the most important thing. Without trust in a relationship there will always be problems of some sort. So just bear this in mind when thinking this through! You may really love her but you could find someone who you really love AND trust and wouldn't that be so much better? Hope it all works out
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I think if you take heR back you aRe only showing heR that you accept and appRove of heR infedility, and I'm positive that you do *NOT* want to give heR that impRession. And whateveR you do, please please please don't believe the line, "I've changed" - Riiiiight, that's what all the guys on MauRy say, isn't it?? And look what happens theRe!! If you take heR back this time, she'll think she can go off and do whateveR she wants, because she'll assume you'll be theRe with open aRms. Bottom line, it's simply unfaiR to youRself... don't even botheR with it. I say the best thing foR you to do, though tRagic, is to gatheR up the pieces of youR bRoken heaRt and push foRwaRd, leaving heR in the past... waayyyy back in the past. Love is RecipRocal, it's not just one-sided, so if a peRson loves two... they simply can not love eitheR one enough. Think of it this way: what's the point in giving youR heaRt away to someone who isn't willing to give you theiRs? Don't waste anymoRe of youR time, teaRs oR effoRt on this one. Just use youR head, and think of youR *own* well being! I wish you the best of luck - hopefully I've been of some assistance heRe! Know that you can come to me if you eveR need a second opinion. =D
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I think if you take heR back you aRe only showing heR that you accept and appRove of heR infedility, and I'm positive that you do *NOT* want to give heR that impRession. And whateveR you do, please please please don't believe the line, "I've changed" - Riiiiight, that's what all the guys on MauRy say, isn't it?? And look what happens theRe!! If you take heR back this time, she'll think she can go off and do whateveR she wants, because she'll assume you'll be theRe with open aRms. Bottom line, it's simply unfaiR to youRself... don't even botheR with it. I say the best thing foR you to do, though tRagic, is to gatheR up the pieces of youR bRoken heaRt and push foRwaRd, leaving heR in the past... waayyyy back in the past. Love is RecipRocal, it's not just one-sided, so if a peRson loves two... they simply can not love eitheR one enough. Think of it this way: what's the point in giving youR heaRt away to someone who isn't willing to give you theiRs? Don't waste anymoRe of youR time, teaRs oR effoRt on this one. Just use youR head, and think of youR *own* well being! I wish you the best of luck - hopefully I've been of some assistance heRe! Know that you can come to me if you eveR need a second opinion. =D
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dont date her again! relationships revolve around trust! just be friends until you can trust her.
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i've always said if they'll cheat once and you take them back it's easier for them to cheat again, because they know that they can do it and some how make you think it's alright. it's not alright to be cheated on. i do however think you should give her a second chance simply because you say you do love her, if you find out again that it's happened you HAVE to move on as hard as it might be, honestly. it'll be hard, but you have to do it. good luck <3
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i wouldnt date her again..relationships revolve around trust. just be friends
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