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Jealous!!
All my friends are very touchy-feely sort of people, we always hug each other loads and don't mind being close, both guys and girls. I really like this guy, but due to some unfortunate and complicated circumstances he is ignoring me (I haven't done anything wrong).
But the thing is, he is still the same with all his other friends, and I get very very jealous whenever I see him hugging his female friends, or walking with them in a two.
How can I stop myself being jealous? I don't have a claim over this guy, and I feel so upset whenever I see him like this now because I really do like him.
(It wasn't so long ago - a few weeks - that he liked me. But I didn't like him like that then, and now that I do...I haven't told him this yet but anyway...).
The jealousy is killing me!
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I would either a) forget about him for awhile or b) tell him your feelings for him. The problem I think here is that he doesn't know you like him! Plus, boys can be kind of clueless at the whole `dropping hints` thing, too. Being jealous is not fair though, to him <u>or</u> yourself! Dont put yourself through that hun, you may be over-analyzing the whole hug situation. Isn't it just a friendly hug when he hugs them? If it is, then it was probably just a friendly hug when he hugged you. Tell him you like him or forget about him, if you think he wont reacct okay or things will be awkward after with you guys. Just say to him, I like you, and then see how he feels. ♥ Laura
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Just talk to the guy, if he's mad at you in a way that he's giving you the cold shoulder, that means he probably still has some feelings for you. You should let him know how you feel about him, and he should come around.
Good luck!
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well you can either tell him you like him and hopefully he'll understand that you just needed to take some time to figure it out, or if you wanna stop liking him you can think of all his bad qualities and trust me it will make you stop, and you can always meet more people <33
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