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guys hitting girls.
i need some backup for this:
this "Gangsta rap" dude at school slapped one and punched another girl in the middle of the hallway two days ago. needless to say he got suspended. I work with one of the girls and the guy. he is a lazy grocery bagger, she's also a bagger.
Question: need opinions from both sexes on the issue of "guys can't hit girls". personally, i want to thrash him within an inch of his life, as do most of the other guys i have talked to. is that a bad thing?
other info: he's done it before, and has had his ass kicked multiple times for it.
did i mention that he also dresses like a drug dealing lowlife? oh yeah i did, stupid kids trying to live like gangsters in suburbia.
-hilter
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No wanting to beat the shit out of him for hitting a girl is a good thing. He has NO right not hit girls no mand does. If he thinks that he can away with hitting girls then he will continue to do it when he is an adult and could end up hurting someone very badly. I was abused by my dad and it is aweful. He needs to get the point now that he cannot treat girls that way and if he does he will pay for it. What your feeling is a good thing. He deserves to get beat for hurting girls it is extremely wrong. Most of the time girls are weaker guys and it is unfair for a guy to take advantage of that. Thank you for wanting to hurt and asshole like that and if more people felt that way then maybe less people would get abused.
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guys cant hit girls.. hes a woman beater if he does.. guys are usually stronger than girls and i dont mean to say that girls are weak, but all the defense we have is hitting them in the balls.. on the other hand i think girls can hit guys.. guys are just stronger and they are supposed to care about girls and defend them.. another guy should beat up a guy who hit a girl, its definately not a bad thing. he needs to learn a lesson
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Dude, hitting women is so much bullshit. I've said this so many times to my friends and myself, women deserve so much better than the crap they get. Abusive husbands. Their wives cook, clean, take care of the children, housework, etc, and all they get is getting beaten and forced into sex. Its bullshit.
I think ANY guy who beats a woman needs to be shot. I agree with you, this guy /deserved/ having the crap beaten out of him for this. I've had myself roughed up several times for sticking up for some girl whos maybe 1/2 foot shorter than this drugged up stoner.
I didn't care though. I stopped a beating, and was happy about it.
No, though, its not a bad thing for you to want to beat him shitless... While alot of my friends have yet to mature, they think its wrong as well. Jump him with some pals next time you see him or anyone doing it.
♥EJ(ST)
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no that's so messed up he hit a girl. if i was a guy at your school i probably would have beaten the s*** out of him right then. no you shouldn't at all think it's bad you and the other guys at your school want to mess him up. you should feel good about yourselves for caring so much. you're awesome <3
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i hate when guys hit girls. it doesnt show strength...its a weakness. this guy should be in juvie...i mean seriously guy like that never make it big in the world anyway (being in the suburbs doesnt help much) hahaha if all the other guys what to beat him that bad...well, he prolly doesnt have any "homies" to back him up so id say get your gang together and beat the living hell outta him. it might get you in trouble but in some ways, its worth it. ah thats all i can think of...luck. <3
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it is completley immoral to hit girls!(this opinion is from a guy) number one (and im not tryin to bash any girls, this is just life) they are so much more sensative than boys are, girls will do somthiung and go cry to their friends and guys will just say "yeah....whatever" number 2 they are weaker than we are, naturally and if guys weight lift you really need to be careful. so if that answers your question, it is completly immoral and if i saw someone hit/smack/puch a girl i would hit them so hard they would think they were a girl!
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Suspension is so stupid it just gives him a vacation. Anyway, I believe that guys should not hit girls; they are a lot stronger than them and can cause severe pain. Most girls don’t like to experience it like guys do. On that note it is kind of wrong that girls hit guys then, but for the most part that’s play and guys even ask girls to hit them the hardest they can. So I guess to answer your question I think showing him what it feels like would be a great idea. I wouldn’t do it on school grounds though. I’m always against fitting but when someone has it coming to them there is nothing you can do. My parents don’t even care if I get suspended or anything else if someone starts a fit with me I’m always told to give them what coming. So maybe you can hold this loser and let the girl that he hit, hit him. It is sort of her fight.
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Why is this thug not in jail? Thats what I want to know. Where are these girls parents? Time to take this idiot down to juvie if ya ask me! And another unpopular opinion of mine...lock up the jerks parents too. I think if some of the parents were held accountable for what their little delinquents do there would be a lot less delinquents running around out there. :)
Okay, off my soapbox. I don't think guys should hit girls. I think men are still stronger in a lot of ways and it just isn't cool. I do think guys should be able to hit other guys if need be. My son is a very big guy, and very laid back. We always taught him that you don't go looking for a fight, but if all else fails...take 'em out. Don't hold back, if you have to do it you better do it right the first time. That is the advice I will give you on hitting the guy. My daughter got the same advice too. I don't blame you for wanting to mop the floor with the idiot I think it is a very normal reaction.:)
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ok, i don't know if this is really answering your question, but i guess i can tell you what i think about that. personally, i really don't think guys should be hitting girls like that. at least not like that. the thing is, though, i'm feeling kind of sexist because girls are hitting guys all the time...but this is where i know i'm right: girls just like playing around like that, and you know what? if a guys like getting girls mad at that point, whether or not they admit it. but if a guy hits a girl to seem like a lowlife gangster wannabe look-at-me-i'm-a-dumbass-who-thinks-he-looks-pimp, then he's just an idiot. i don't know if that answered your question, but if you have any more questions on that that will help me answer your question any better, please feel free to leave it in my inbox! also, i wouold wanna kick that guy's ass....ANYWAY, hope i helped *MaRi*
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