welcome to advice column!!my name is tatum....and if you need anything call my cell...
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Location: texas
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Age: 14
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Ok, I think that everyone who thinks that just because, somone dresses a certain way it makes them a certain way.. WHO CARES! Girl pants guy pants, they all start out the same.. A peice of fabric, heres what i think, if ur making fun of somone because of the way they dress or critisize them and give them a label, its because you your self are insecure about your self, either that or because, you like the way they dress and there life style, but are afraid to express your self and be who you are, because you are scared people will do the same thing to you that your doing to everyone else... you guys are pretty immature if you think that the way somone dresses changes who they are or makes them different, any soul can be put into any body... is it so wrong to express urself and be who you are? contrary to what people think.. society has no limits, as long as you be who you are... -jake- (link)
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jake...ur soo awesome...and i wish everyone could see the way you do!!!if ya need anything just ask!!
~tatum~
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Hey, i think your new punk style is really awesome and sexy. i'm pretty sure that you know this but don't listen to those fags that try to tell you that they hate punks or whatever. i have a feeling one of them is harrison. i think that breaking up with drake was a good idea since you like jake (h.) but yall were a cute couple.(to the fags that are against punks and all that stuff) and girl pants doesn't mean you're gay. it just means that you want to be different and i think i've found out that a lot of girls really like the look. so thats just a helpful hint unless you dont care about what girls like and you're just trying to impress guys.
from your friend (link)
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derek i know this is from you...and i think ur sooo cool...ur my best bud...and everythings "coo" lol...well thanks for thinkin that the look is sexxy!!
lylab
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yo tater-tot ! Its pete .. well i was takin a look at wht all these people are sayin in here and apparently .. your advice site is for either psychos , or for people who wanna diss other people for what they are ... and for that long crap down there about not havin equaality in America and all, well ... do you see any place better than here ? We're a country where majorities and minorities from all around the world come to have a better life. So you should think twice about that one bud. And all these people are saying how people should do our own thing and labels and all that crap! Then they say right after that everyone should listen to punk music... shut up! If you want equality and no labels then shut up, and let people listen to whatever they want and you do what you wanna do. -see you at school tater (link)
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im only posting this so that people can see ur point of veiw...ur soo awesome petester!!!!
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i think the people that are bein gay about how you want to dress are gay. they are just to scared to do what they wnat because they are afraid of how everyone will react and what they will say. you on the other hand are doing what you want and doing your OWN thing and i like that. so yea i have to say that I LOVE YOU ... will u go out with me (link)
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well im glad that ur sticking up for me and im glad that you realize im doing my own thing...and about the whole me going out with you..well i only want to go out with a really special person right now who has a girlfriend...so im sorry...if you need anything just ask.
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dont tight pants mean ur gay? i mean your dick gets crushed so isn't that gay? (link)
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no tight pants arent gay...i personally think their sexxy as ever...but just because people wear tight pants doesnt mean their gay!!
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Hey if you hate labels so much which i somewhat agree too, post your name because i want to know who you are. As you said we shouldnt label you so post your name and dont be scared (link)
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i dont think they should have to post their name if they dont wan too!!!!!
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Wow im so tired of labels. not labels as in on products, but labels on people. Your either, Punk, Emo, Straight edge, Hardcore, Ghetto, goth, Homosexual, Bi Sexual, Prep,. Jock, or stoners. Those kinda labels. Its NEVER just "Human". And as much as we strive and as much as we push for equality, these labels leave no room for success. No one listens to music for music anymore. Its who is the most fashionable or who can get the newest most trendy new gear from hot topic. And thank you to the few of you (and i know there are a few) who still go to a good old punk show and still listen to music because you like it. Half these little scenster girls forced themselves to start liking the music. They like bands if a member of that band is "hawt" as they would put it. And then i hear this bullshit about how there is racial equality for the most part. Haha yea ok. There are way to many ignorant, stubborn, digusting human beings out there that cannot see a human of another race as equal. Our country is too ethnocentric and nationalistic to ever reach any type of equality. After all we are America the beautiful. To achieve racial equality, we would have to start over completely.
THEREFORE TATUM CAN WEAR/DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS! (link)
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i think ur the only person who understands that!!i dunno what to say to that cause youve pretty much said it yourself...but if you need anything just ask!!
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i have this math homework but i really dont wanna do it what should i do......? (link)
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well theres really not much you can do!! youre either gonna have to do it or you dont have to do it and get in trouble...its really ur choice...if you need anything...just ask me!!
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i hate punks i hate punks because they are wow so emo and they say crap like "i cut my wrist and black my eyes" sorry but punks are wow so GAYo. oh yeah drake is a fag
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you know...i dont think you should judge people by the way they look and act...and if you think drake is a fag then youre gay because drake is sooo awesome you probly dont even know him. youre probly dissing him because ur jealous of him!!i think before you go and judge "punks" you should get to know them!!
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ok i really like this guy and the guy likes me and a really close friend of mine and some other people. The guy dosen't want to ruin the friendship of me and this girl. so to me that means he wont ask me out. should i still keep liking him or should i stop?
from t*rex :) (link)
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okay heres what i would....make ur move on him...and dont think its gonna ruin your friendship cause it wont!! if you really like the guy then go for him!!thats all i got!!
luv ya tonz t rex!!
taterz
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yall...seriously...does the way tatum dresses really matter? what the hell is wrong with yall? shes the same wayy cool person shes always been! if she wants to change so she can be happier...let her! its better that way...you are all just to scared of what people would say about you to change...she is obviously a stronger person than all ofyou cuz she had the courage to dress the way she friggin wanted! yall...leave her alone about it! (link)
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wow!!....i dont know who this is but thanks a bunch!!..i erally wish people would listen to you!!but its not that easy!!..oh well if ya need anything else then just aske..
tatum
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behind these hazel eyes o and u wont c the tears that i cry and i just want u and your beautiful soul
I HATE PUNKS!! (link)
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it sucks that you hate punks...you prlly ont even know them...and im sorry that you want me and my beautiful soul but mi taken...if you need anything else just ask me!!
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hey babe forst of all i think your the hottest girl in our school, but why did you just change the way you dress all of the sudden. I mean your still just as hott and awesome but if u did it because your going out with drake thats freakin stupid. so why did u change all of the sudden ... be honest, is it for drake?
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well im glad that you think im "hott"...and no i didnt change my style just for drake!!..ask any of my closest friends i was gonna change the way i look at the beginning of 2nd semester...but i never did!!i really hope that the way i dress soesnt matter...and i dont know why people are making a big deal out of what i wear...and to answer ur question its not for drake...its for myself!!
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babe you really are awesome, but why do you wear your skateboard shirts and dress all punk now? you were the most beautiful girl in school and you just shot that to hell (link)
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i dont think that what i wear should really matter about how you look at me or anyone. and if you really thought i was awesome then you would be able to look beyond what i wear and like me for my personality....im really sorry that you dont like what i wear anymore...but thats the way i want to look and if you have a problem with it im really sorry...i really hope that you dont judge people on what they wear!if you need anything else then just ask!!
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tatum you are so awesome but what the hell are you thinking? (link)
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thanks for saying that im awesome!! but what do you mean what the hell am i thinking?...what are you talking about?....well please ask me another questiona and tell me what ever is wrong that im doing....but thanx again for calling me awesome.if ya need sumthing else just ask!!
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ok i no this friend and this friend is gay and i wanted to no if u i mean i should be friends with the gay guy wat should i do? (link)
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well i dont think you should judge him on if hes gay or not...if hes a pretty awesome guy hangout with him...but if you dont like him then dont chill him...its that simple..hope i helped...if you need anything else just asked!!
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hey tatum.. well i heard u dont like that alex rasi girl.. and i was jw why.. b/c shes actually pretty nice if u get to kno her. (link)
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actually i do like alex rasi..i think shes a pretty cool girl...and shes sooo pretty and is an awesome soccer player...im pretty sure i never said that i didnt like her so wherever you heard that maybe you should ignore them because their frakin lying to you!!if you need anything else just ask me.
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i go to your school and you dont even know me but you and your friends always give me dirty looks and glares...why? what did i do? (link)
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okay well im sorry if i have given you a dirty look before but i cant say much about my friends. and like you said i dont know who you are so i cant really apologize....im really sorry for whoever this is!!if you need anything else just ask me.
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Since the summer is soo long and you are my best friend..will you come here to stay with me in the woodlands??
-Kaycee (link)
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haha!!!...good question kaycee!!.lol..of course im gonna come stay with you during the summer!!...i love you like a fat kid loves cake!!
--tate
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