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friends with benefits
There's this guy that I really like, we'll call him David. Anyway, David knows I like him, and he says he likes me too. But, he also says that he wants to wait to ask me out, till he gets to know me better. Anyway, he kissed me the other night, and I'm afraid it's going to turn into a friends with benefits relationship, which I don't want at all, but I have no self control around him, I can't help from kissing him back. How do I get him to ask me out sooner?
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GIrl!! ASK HIM OUT!! it doesn't ALWAYS have to be the guys!! Guys are usally nervous around asking out because there scared of what the girl might say, but if the GIRL ask out there totally over welmed knowing they didn't humelate themselfs but FIRST you don't wanna embarrasse yourself so, get to know him more like he wants to get to know u flirt alittle with him, it works, and ask him if its ready to go out yet. Hope that works!
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Wow! relationships are crazy, huh? I've been there a few times but the guy actually had a girlfriend. All I can say is for you to ask him out or to tell him that you want to have a real relationship with him not a fling. Good luck!
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tell him that your not giving anything up till he asks you out!
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Kissing isn't really benefits. Sex is what I think of when someone says benefits. If he wants to get to know you better that is okay. So, long as he isn't meaning sex. Never give that to someone who isn't committed to only you. He knows you want to go out so just talk to him whenever you can so he gets to know you better. :)
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a kiss doesn't necessarily mean he wants your benefits. a kiss is just one of those ways to help one another realize they are interested. if ya'll keep kissing and nothing between ya'll has happened, then maybe he does want your benefits. talk to him and tell him how you feel! be careful what you say, because he can ask you out and go out with you for your benefits. don't make it seem that easy. i say you stop kissing him and wait to see if something happens. if it happens then it's meant to be, and he really is interested in you for who you are, but if nothing happens then he obviously only wanted your benefits.
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If he kissed you, he must be ready to ask you out. If he says he wants to get to know you better, talk to him about your hobbies and still act comfortable around him. If he really likes you, he will ask you out when he's ready and comfortable around you. Ask him reasons why he's not ready yet, and respect his answer. Good luck!
~Alexa~
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i think you should keep doin what ur doin. Maybe, spend more time with him...what way, he learnes more about you and he askes you out sooner!
Hope i helped,
SAM
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Kill Him....The stuff him...and WOW a guy that wont do anything WRONG...I know...im amazing
Have Fun.
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tell him you cant kiss until you are in a relationship...he should get the idea. or if you really cant stop yourself, ask him out and you can get to know each other as bf n gf. hope this helps! <3
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what i think you should do is tell david that you don't want to mess around or kiss or anything untill he asks you ask. and you don't want it to turn into a friends w/ benefits relationship, you have to be upfront about it all. good luck <3
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tell him that you dont want a friends with benifits relationship. maybe he'll understand.
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